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| Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ireneony(f): 11:24pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
A guy can ask a lady out, everyone will see it as cool thing to do, but the reverse is a case. Why the double standard  A lady asking a guy out doesn't mean she is desperate. What if I like a guy, and I ask him out, I don't see anything wrong with it. We need equality and justice. When I listen to Beyonce 'flawless' I cant help but feel joy. I love that song, why? Cos its lyrics are about feminist: The right for ladies to have ambition, to inspire and bold. We have the right to express ourselves. Ladies have the right to express their love to whomever they chooses to do it to, we are not desperate. We are tired of being group in a box. To the guys, when a lady shows interest in you, don't tag her desperate. This is the 21stcentury things are evolving  .Don't be surprise I might send you a PM. Say NO to double standard!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by jmoore(m): 11:32pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
About equality, do you complain about bride price? Anyway, I have nothing against women that woo men. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Dotwillis1(m): 11:33pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ireneony:itz yhu ladies dhat tags urseufs xo! |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:34pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ireneony: Let's play a game people. If you can find more, highlight them   sorry op |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by LogoDWhiz(m): 11:34pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Question for the gods |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Enegod(m): 11:34pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
I don't like to be pursued since I'm not a mind reader to know the girl's true intentions.. Golddiggers always make the first move.  1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ireneony(f): 11:38pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Tandullceblog: ...what are you feeling like.. Guy better go back to yabaleft, you need it bae |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:40pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
All talk and no action. . . |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:40pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Tandullceblog:Falls from sugar cane |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Let me chew my foot first before I ask a guy out. |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:42pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ireneony: ( but I said sorry na |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ronald4lif(m): 11:48pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
A few factors are in play, in our culture it's rare for a lady to ask a guy out so when this happens guys see it as abnormal and think of the lady as lose or desperate like you put it. Now when a guy ask a lady out and she accepts to date him sex it's not a guarantee and even if sex comes in later he usually works hard for her to succumb. So when a lady ask a guy out, the guy is aware she won't hesitate to give in on his sex advances, with having the thoughts at the back of his mind with no I dey my own she come toast me. You see, whether guys admit it or not, we appreciate a woman more when we work a bit extra to get laid with her. The last factor I think is, when it comes to marriage, men are to propose to women and the decision of who to marry lies with them. Putting this into consideration it looks abnormal for women to start proposing to men. If they can't propose marriage to a man then making advances to same man is really not advisable Methink, it's safer for a woman to allow the men woo them in order not to lose him entirely or lose her worth before him. They can give him all the possible green light that they like and care about him, and if he's interested let him make the move. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:51pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Blackett: Hehehe. What's pushing you? Don't call my name when you break ya spine  |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:53pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
hmmmmmmm But seriously our culture forbids it. Not only guys that tag girls desperate but the society at large tags such lady worthless. Moreover it's dangerous. Some guys will take the opportunity to enjoy free pussy. We are only allowed to pass greenlight.  |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:54pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Tandullceblog:You missed one though. |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ronald4lif(m): 11:55pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
diddydiva: Lol! No be two people enjoy am ni |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 11:59pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Blackett: Hehe, Why don't you take over from where I stopped. You want the op to cut off my neck finally. |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 12:02am On Feb 17, 2015 |
ereneony:Tandullceblog. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ronald4lif(m): 12:03am On Feb 17, 2015 |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by malonephill(m): 12:03am On Feb 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif:e dey sweet one pass |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ronald4lif(m): 12:05am On Feb 17, 2015 |
1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 12:09am On Feb 17, 2015 |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ronald4lif(m): 12:11am On Feb 17, 2015 |
MzNelly post=30801077 See as I don dey give you green light you no go chyke me, my lights sef don enter rainbow  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 12:15am On Feb 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif: You must to chyke me o I no fit die on top your matter 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by ronald4lif(m): 12:19am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Ma'am Irene sorry for derailing ohh. Abeg drop that bobo PM, them never born that guy wey go label you desperate. Go for what you want girl 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 12:23am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Irene, I still dey wait for the PM o.... |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 12:27am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Ask me out and I won't tag u desperate,infact I will respect ur decision ireneony: |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by malonephill(m): 12:35am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Na naija mentality sha!!! Everything we do is upside down, I don't see it wrong if any babe find interest in a guy, if such happen to me forturnately or unfortunately I like the babe then I had to lead. or do not, na to stylishly IGNORED her move. If she's wise enough to understand me Nawa for our guy wetin dey kitty cat self to dey take advantage of!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by akinsadeez(m): 1:07am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Tandullceblog: Hehehehehehe Roflmao lawd have mercy. Haba! This early morning. |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by akinsadeez(m): 1:13am On Feb 17, 2015 |
reneony: |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 8:14am On Feb 17, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Not in all cases joor |
| Re: Why Are Ladies Tag "Desperate", When They Ask Guys Out by Nobody: 8:22am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Honey please, He Forced Himself On Me- Really? Seven Times? / .. / Nlers Which Race Is Preferable To Marry From?!?
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