I don't know what's happening to me but I used to care so much about this person but now I don't actually give two shits to be honest.

I used to do all the calling and make all the effort but they seemed uninterested so I decided to stop making myself look desperate and when I stopped, believe it or not; they didn't even bother with me.

Moving on to a happier life I guess. Also, don't you guys just hate it when someone promises you something and they don't keep that promise, be it materially or physically.

Mindependent: I don't know what's happening to me but I used to care so much about this person but now I don't actually give two shits to be honest.

I used to do all the calling and make all the effort but they seemed uninterested so I decided to stop making myself look desperate and when I stopped, believe it or not; they didn't even bother with me.

Moving on to a happier life I guess. Also, don't you guys just hate it when someone promises you something and they don't keep that promise, be it materially or physically.

I kinda understand how you feel! You call, they don't. They promise, they fail! Both make you appear desperate! Sh!T happens babes!

Please who knows how to cook egusi soup

i am the only one at home

Infomizer:
I kinda understand how you feel! You call, they don't. They promise, they fail! Both make you appear desperate! Sh!T happens babes!

Exactly what I mean!!!!! And the worst part is deep down, I still care, I still want to hear them speak and hope one day they actually make a tiny effort at least but alas I have to resist the urge to just put my phone on speed dial and call him

I see in your topic 'friend'. The punctuation mark attached to that word catches my attention and makes me want to ask if he is just a friend or he is your crush?

kagari: Please who knows how to cook egusi soup

i am the only one at home

....buy a cup or 2 cups of egusi,grind it with cray fish,buy onions,maggi,ibo red oil......
first steam ur meat,add onion,pepper ,maggi.,then add water 2 the meat,allow 2 cook very well..then add red oil.stir and turn for sum minutes,then add the egusi and turn for 5 mins...wassh ur vegetable and add to egusi ..turn and allow 2 get done///

Mindependent:

Exactly what I mean!!!!! And the worst part is deep down, I still care, I still want to hear them speak and hope one day they actually make a tiny effort at least but alas I have to resist the urge to just put my phone on speed dial and call him

Babe, if you want to live long, forget that person asap. It is very possible. Delete the number (even if you've memorized it) and occupy urself with something else. Just be confident in the person you see in the mirror. Let your mien exude panache and charm. Either (or both) of two things will likely happen:
1. He'll come calling (treat him like sh!T when he does)
2. A more deserving person will come along (he's probably around somewhere but you've not given him the chance)
Another likelihood is that none of these will happen since life can be so effed up. Just be proud of who you are and enjoy life to the fullest. No one should be that important to make you miserable.

idnoble135: I see in your topic 'friend'. The punctuation mark attached to that word catches my attention and makes me want to ask if he is just a friend or he is your crush?

I don't really believe in crushes so I'll say HE WAS a little more than a friend

Infomizer:
Babe, if you want to live long, forget that person asap. It is very possible. Delete the number (even if you've memorized it) and occupy urself with something else. Just be confident in the person you see in the mirror. Let your mien exude panache and charm. Either (or both) of two things will likely happen:
1. He'll come calling (treat him like sh!T when he does)
2. A more deserving person will come along (he's probably around somewhere but you've not given him the chance)
Another likelihood is that none of these will happen since life can be so effed up. Just be proud of who you are and enjoy life to the fullest. No one should be that important to make you miserable.

Thank you, if he does actually come calling how can I treat him like shit, I fear my true feelings for him will let me down

Love

Yea things lyk dis happen..Am a victim.I use to b lover of friends,am very much Gud in mking frds,n i love all of dem,am ready to sacrifice all i av 4frds,bt @ a point i saw is not just worth it..I realize if u go out dere looking for frds,u will fyn many..bt let dem b d one cming to look for u...I can rmenba during my sec skul days,i walk in group, dos r my closet frd,n d most funny thing wit me is dat if u r my frd i'll c u as a sister,i'll share my secret wit u..bt it all seems am d only one doing dat coz they neva show any atom of care.During my sec skul days,there'll al come to my house,eat,drink,wear my cloths,cook by themselv etc..i also do all d calling..Bt @ a point i began to notice day most of my frds are jealouse of me,when i got admision in2 uni,dat 1 na war,i went into so many attack 2,bt i neva gaveup on dem..Even in uni i noticed dat my frds are also jealous of me,sumtymz i begin to wonder wat do i have,i cry sometimes,coz i do cook for dem when they av noti,i care for dem,i encourage dem..bt is still dsame,..till now am still asking myself what do i have,coz 2me i really dont av anytin,am not even frm a wealthy family..#still confuse#..so right now as i talk i dont av anybdy as frd,i av pals but dat word frd..hmmmm#fear it#i blieve one day i'll fyn a true frd...mayb am not really d favour type when it comes to the issue of frds.

Jessicavizzy: Yea things lyk dis happen..Am a victim.I use to b lover of friends,am very much Gud in mking frds,n i love all of dem,am ready to sacrifice all i av 4frds,bt @ a point i saw is not just worth it..I realize if u go out dere looking for frds,u will fyn many..bt let dem b d one cming to look for u...I can rmenba during my sec skul days,i walk in group, dos r my closet frd,n d most funny thing wit me is dat if u r my frd i'll c u as a sister,i'll share my secret wit u..bt it all seems am d only one doing dat coz they neva show any atom of care.During my sec skul days,there'll al come to my house,eat,drink,wear my cloths,cook by themselv etc..i also do all d calling..Bt @ a point i began to notice day most of my frds are jealouse of me,when i got admision in2 uni,dat 1 na war,i went into so many attack 2,bt i neva gaveup on dem..Even in uni i noticed dat my frds are also jealous of me,sumtymz i begin to wonder wat do i have,i cry sometimes,coz i do cook for dem when they av noti,i care for dem,i encourage dem..bt is still dsame,..till now am still asking myself what do i have,coz 2me i really dont av anytin,am not even frm a wealthy family..#still confuse#..so right now as i talk i dont av anybdy as frd,i av pals but dat word frd..hmmmm#fear it#i blieve one day i'll fyn a true frd...mayb am not really d favour type when it comes to the issue of frds.

Honey that's Deep in the same situation albeit with male , can we be friends? i'm waiting.

Jessicavizzy: Yea things lyk dis happen..Am a victim.I use to b lover of friends,am very much Gud in mking frds,n i love all of dem,am ready to sacrifice all i av 4frds,bt @ a point i saw is not just worth it..I realize if u go out dere looking for frds,u will fyn many..bt let dem b d one cming to look for u...I can rmenba during my sec skul days,i walk in group, dos r my closet frd,n d most funny thing wit me is dat if u r my frd i'll c u as a sister,i'll share my secret wit u..bt it all seems am d only one doing dat coz they neva show any atom of care.During my sec skul days,there'll al come to my house,eat,drink,wear my cloths,cook by themselv etc..i also do all d calling..Bt @ a point i began to notice day most of my frds are jealouse of me,when i got admision in2 uni,dat 1 na war,i went into so many attack 2,bt i neva gaveup on dem..Even in uni i noticed dat my frds are also jealous of me,sumtymz i begin to wonder wat do i have,i cry sometimes,coz i do cook for dem when they av noti,i care for dem,i encourage dem..bt is still dsame,..till now am still asking myself what do i have,coz 2me i really dont av anytin,am not even frm a wealthy family..#still confuse#..so right now as i talk i dont av anybdy as frd,i av pals but dat word frd..hmmmm#fear it#i blieve one day i'll fyn a true frd...mayb am not really d favour type when it comes to the issue of frds.

I wish you get one soon. Everyone I also have a share of what you're talking about.
I simply concluded that most friendships only last for a season. Some friends out do all seasons. They stay with us through all of our pains, joy etc. These types of friends are rare when compared to the other group.
But, for me, I enjoy the temporary friendships while it last.

Mindependent:

I don't really believe in crushes so I'll say HE WAS a little more than a friend

Hmmhmm.... Ok....

idnoble135:
I wish you get one soon. Everyone I also have a share of what you're talking about.
I simply concluded that most friendships only last for a season. Some friends out do all seasons. They stay with us through all of our pains, joy etc. These types of friends are rare when compared to the other group.
But, for me, I enjoy the temporary friendships while it last.

Nolongthing1:

Honey that's Deep in the same situation albeit with male , can we be friends? i'm waiting.

Friend ke!..will tink abt it.lolz

I just remember those dp's that go arond these days, one actually said "someday some1 will walk into your life and make you see the reason it didn't work out between you and other guyz"

My 1 doller.

dr_mike_adams: ....buy a cup or 2 cups of egusi,grind it with cray fish,buy onions,maggi,ibo red oil......
first steam ur meat,add onion,pepper ,maggi.,then add water 2 the meat,allow 2 cook very well..then add red oil.stir and turn for sum minutes,then add the egusi and turn for 5 mins...wassh ur vegetable and add to egusi ..turn and allow 2 get done///

Nothing wrong in calling them if you ve got the time; believe me it won't take anything away from you. People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a life time. Ones their job is done, they move on.

If you ve got no selfish motive for calling them, just chill and call them when you can, nature will take its course.

Mindependent:

Exactly what I mean!!!!! And the worst part is deep down, I still care, I still want to hear them speak and hope one day they actually make a tiny effort at least but alas I have to resist the urge to just put my phone on speed dial and call him

you need to move on with your life baby.. Friendship isn't by force. There are a thousand and one guys out there who want to be your friend. You can pm me, I actually need a friend

Never live in the past. Sometimes life helps us phase out some people. Pretend they never exists

Some people don't know how to call (me being a very good example). Its so terrible that even my mum, I do it to her. So that could be the guy's problem. IMO but keep calling he will feel guilty after a while. Just don't make it err'day, if not he will feel ur a nuisance.

Mindependent:

Thank you, if he does actually come calling how can I treat him like shit, I fear my true feelings for him will let me down

It's easier than you think. Start by pretending you don't give a rat ass. Those feelings you gat will not help o! Trust me, you can program urself to not like him that much. Iono how elze to put it babe.

Jessicavizzy: Friend ke!..will tink abt it.lolz

Real wa ooo, which Uni are u in? Reply ma pm .

maybe that's why i don't have them...hi hi is enough...let it end there mbok...there's was this girl, thought she could be a friend rather than an ass.hole. FriENDs!

Can you call who is ready to call you.

the good son: Can you call who is ready to call you.

Of course

Mindependent:
Of course

then let me call you.