Good afternoon ma people. A friend of mine came to my place today and poured out his mind to me. The issue is that His Fiancee which they both did their introduction in August is being disturbed by her Ex boyfriend. He told me that they almost got to a fight yesterday. I'm at loss on what to tell him. If you were in his shoes, what will Ʊ do

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They almost got into a fight? Who now stopped the fight
If I were in his shoes, I'll go with you(OP), so that we'll go and beat him together! After all what are friends for?

When I said they almost got †̥ a fight I mean my guy and his fiancee

I dnt knw wat guys tend to gain for fighting an intruder in a relationship. The decision is the girls' nt your frnd. Let her decide who she wants to be with,the rejected party will stay off. Talk to the gal, nt ur frnd.

What is his fiancee still doing with an ex-boyfriend even after introduction?
@OP tell your friend, to sit his fiancee down and ask her to choose between him and her ex boyfriend.

Pastor Aji: When I said they almost got †̥ a fight I mean my guy and his fiancee

OK! I thought you meant the two guys

Why fight?
It is just a simply decision of 'Choice ye today who thou would follow?'
Take the phone , call him and tell him your decision or go.
Simple as that

I can not imagine myself fightin for any lady dat is nt yet my wife!

I have notin to say cause am a girlfriend snatcher...

carzola: I have notin to say cause am a girlfriend snatcher...

Walai I D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ craze
Back †̥ topic, she have decided and have called it quits with the guy (I mean the EX) but ge is always disturbing her with calls. A live scenario happened on Sunday when I visited them and the guy called her repeatedly like 16 times

carzola: I have notin to say cause am a girlfriend snatcher...

Walai I D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ craze
Back †̥ topic, she have decided and have called it quits with the guy (I mean the EX) but ge is always disturbing her with calls. A live scenario happened on Sunday when I visited them and the guy called her repeatedly like 16 times even though she didn't pick those calls

Jenams: I can not imagine myself fightin for any lady dat is nt yet my wife!

My friend is not fighting the EX but the issue wanted †̥ create a scene between him and his fiancee

Pastor Aji:

Walai I D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ craze
Back †̥ topic, she have decided and have called it quits with the guy (I mean the EX) but ge is always disturbing her with calls. A live scenario happened on Sunday when I visited them and the guy called her repeatedly like 16 times even though she didn't pick those calls

She should change her sim if she is serious with your friend. Or better still she should block the guys number.

Hmmmmm!i smel a dangerous rat in this case.
Me key!i dn shw card!
Rest of mind is better than rest in peace!

Pastor Aji:

Walai I D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ craze
Back †̥ topic, she have decided and have called it quits with the guy (I mean the EX) but ge is always disturbing her with calls. A live scenario happened on Sunday when I visited them and the guy called her repeatedly like 16 times even though she didn't pick those calls

Why do people not pick calls?
For me, I will pick the call, tell him my piece of mind and drop the fone without cutting the call, if you call again, I pick and leave it there. It is much more effective than ignoring calls.
When she is not picking the call, what is going on in the guys mind is 'If only she hears me, she will come back to me let me try harder', to stop this the girl has to be firm and decisive without sounding insulting that 'THIS IS THE LIFE I HAS CHOSEN, STOP DISTURBING ME AND MY LOVE WITH YOUR CALLS, YOU ARE INTERRUPTING SOMETHING SWEET GOING ON HERE'.
Nothing strikes a man than to know that the thing you are dying for, someone else is right away enjoying it in his house.

Pastor Aji:

Walai I D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣ craze
Back †̥ topic, she have decided and have called it quits with the guy (I mean the EX) but ge is always disturbing her with calls. A live scenario happened on Sunday when I visited them and the guy called her repeatedly like 16 times even though she didn't pick those calls

To be sure she is not encouraging the guy, she should pick the call in your presence and make it clear to the guy that she has moved on. I have seen similar scenerio where the lady was pretending but was actually the one encouraging it. It was discovered through her text messages that infact she goes out to meet up with the supposedly EX and even went and registeted business name together while she was hoping to get married to someone else. After all these discoveries, it bcame obvious what would be happening after the marriage and only a fool will have that kind of wife. like someone said, everything lies with the lady. She probably has not shown seriosness in telling the guy to stop calling her. Maybe the guy still dey send her free credits and other fringe benefits.

ITbomb:
Why do people not pick calls?
For me, I will pick the call, tell him my piece of mind and drop the fone without cutting the call, if you call again, I pick and leave it there. It is much more effective than ignoring calls.
When she is not picking the call, what is going on in the guys mind is 'If only she hears me, she will come back to me let me try harder', to stop this the girl has to be firm and decisive without sounding insulting that 'THIS IS THE LIFE I HAS CHOSEN, STOP DISTURBING ME AND MY LOVE WITH YOUR CALLS, YOU ARE INTERRUPTING SOMETHING SWEET GOING ON HERE'.
Nothing strikes a man than to know that the thing you are dying for, someone else is right away enjoying it in his house.

Dtz d bomb 4rm ITbomb

ITbomb: Why fight?
It is just a simply decision of 'Choice ye today who thou would follow?'
Take the phone , call him and tell him your decision or go.
Simple as that

ITbomb, please your attention is needed as par your GIFT -

https://www.nairaland.com/1473001/free-trendy-wrist-watch-more#18919605

ITbomb:
Why do people not pick calls?
For me, I will pick the call, tell him my piece of mind and drop the fone without cutting the call, if you call again, I pick and leave it there. It is much more effective than ignoring calls.
When she is not picking the call, what is going on in the guys mind is 'If only she hears me, she will come back to me let me try harder', to stop this the girl has to be firm and decisive without sounding insulting that 'THIS IS THE LIFE I HAS CHOSEN, STOP DISTURBING ME AND MY LOVE WITH YOUR CALLS, YOU ARE INTERRUPTING SOMETHING SWEET GOING ON HERE'.
Nothing strikes a man than to know that the thing you are dying for, someone else is right away enjoying it in his house.

ITbomb, please your attention is needed as par your GIFT -

https://www.nairaland.com/1473001/free-trendy-wrist-watch-more#18919605

ITbomb:
Why do people not pick calls?
For me, I will pick the call, tell him my piece of mind and drop the fone without cutting the call, if you call again, I pick and leave it there. It is much more effective than ignoring calls.
When she is not picking the call, what is going on in the guys mind is 'If only she hears me, she will come back to me let me try harder', to stop this the girl has to be firm and decisive without sounding insulting that 'THIS IS THE LIFE I HAS CHOSEN, STOP DISTURBING ME AND MY LOVE WITH YOUR CALLS, YOU ARE INTERRUPTING SOMETHING SWEET GOING ON HERE'.
Nothing strikes a man than to know that the thing you are dying for, someone else is right away enjoying it in his house.

ITbomb, please your attention is needed as par your GIFT -

https://www.nairaland.com/1473001/free-trendy-wrist-watch-more#18919605

It's d girl's choice not ur friend's decision. The ex might be thinking he still has key to her heart, who knows may be d key is still working on her, the girl needs to prove it to both parties i.e your friend and her ex.

kai, he shud better resolve the issue and pray that okafors law doesnt apply to her based on the ex can shine the congo better than him.

If I was in his shoe, I will ask her what n who she wants. If she chooses me, she shld make it clear, obvious n glaring. Else, I walk 2 her family n tell them, I cant marry a cheat.

Well the babe is not ready to make her husband to[ be happy.IMO,once am engaged,the speed wey I go take comot for FB,(thank God I have 3 account),change all my lines eeh.Because I know a lot of gf's who are ready to Bleep me up out of jealousy or ex bf's I been agree to marry before before.I will NEVER tell any of them that am about to get married,NEVER!

Just like my senior cousin who took engagement ring from 4 guys ooo.During her trad,see commotion,one had to come to my village after he got to know what's happening from a friend of my cousin.My God!That guy cry ooo.Hey,he was bent on causing confusion.We begged before he got into his car and drove off.