A 35-year-old woman has told how she has never felt sexually attracted to men or women. Julie Sondra Decker from Tampa, Florida, revealed that she started describing herself as 'nonsexual' at the age of 15 and when she became aware of the term 'asexual', she changed it. The outgoing blonde says that she's had more offers of sex than she 'wants to count' over the years but, 'without the feelings that usually go with that sort of thing, it's kind of gross.' Hmmmmmm! Continue to read the rest of the story ...The writer, who lives alone in a two-bedroom apartment, states that she is not interested in dating or pursuing a domestic partner. 'I have very close friendships but don't want a significant other. I don't want to find another asexual to be roommates with. 'As far as I can tell I'll be happy being single my whole life.' In a YouTube video, Miss Decker says that as a young teenager she kissed and cuddled both boys and girls. But she concluded: 'I never found anything that floated my boat.' She says that her family were convinced that she was a 'closet lesbian'.

Before she went to college her mother even took her to the doctors because she wasn't expressing 'normal' interest in the opposite sex. Given the all-clear she carried on with her studies, graduating from the University of Florida in 2000 with a degree in elementary education and psychology. She said despite there being more awareness about asexuality today, it still remains largely misunderstood. She's had male friends try and 'fix' her by kissing her against her will and many insist that she will 'wake up one day'.

Since opening up about being asexual on the internet, via YouTube and her blog, Miss Decker says that she’s received death threats and been told by several commentators that she just needs a 'good raping.''When people hear that you're asexual, some take that as a challenge,' she told the Huffington Post. 'We are perceived as not being fully human because sexual attraction and sexual relationships are seen as something alive, healthy people do. 'They think that you really want sex but just don't know it yet. For people who perform corrective rape, they believe that they're just waking us up and that we'll thank them for it later.'

Miss Decker says that asexuality presents itself in many forms. Some people, while lacking sexual attraction to any gender, may engage in purely romantic relationships. However, she defines herself as 'aromantic', meaning she does not have any romantic feelings either. Professor Bogaert, an associate professor at Brock University in Ontario, Canada, suggests in his book Understanding Asexuality, that around one per cent of the world's population - 70million people - are 'asexual. He believes that this demographic are 'under-studied' and that they can feel excluded from our 'very sexualised culture'.

Experts say a certain number of asexuals may have always existed but are only now starting to 'come out' as society becomes more liberal. To her ‘haters’, Miss Decker concludes: 'I'm not damaged, lonely or in need of a conversion because I'm not interested [in sex].' She hopes to raise awareness about asexuality through her writing and public speaking. '[I want] people who feel similarly to know they're not alone.'

Do you think she's missing anything?

Sources: http://trendysturvs..com/2013/10/photo-meet-35-year-old-virgin-who-has.html, Daily Mail

Hmmm.thinking out loud.

She's not missing anything cos she never felt anything. She will marry one of these suicide bombers in the name of religion in Ja'nna. LoL

Hmmm
So sad..

Wat a waste of beauty...

But anyway i prefer dis Asexual of a thing to lesbian or Gay

See this one, where some girls are even dying to get laid on!!!!!

Unfortunately not all girlz wanna be laid..

Freedom of expression......... Afterall, she cant miss what she doesnt know its taste.

take her to tb joshua for whatever

So tb Joshua is gonna make her wanna taste sex? Lol.. try anoda option..

She will b a good nun if she is the religious type....

Buh wait oo.. So dis woman is tellin me if she takes Ecstasy/Aphrodisac she aint gonna ve any sexxual urge.. infact if she takes a dose she will wnt feel digusted doin d ACt

See laps, am already hard hahahah, d whole for don seal na, before prick go enta

Ugly girl, na who wan nack you akpako befor?

^ ^

Me oh!
That lap is a dick-hardener.

Another form of madness? its psycology problem i presume got the wrong notion from childhood and decided to live with it all her life. she need pure chancelling/deliverance from and agile Alomo-lised Nigerian on a high Konji state. then, e go clear for em eye.

Make dem try rape am once, she go like sex pass Gianna Michaels

Exponental: Freedom of expression......... Afterall, she cant miss what she doesnt know its taste.

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Ya dats true. But the problem is that she is not attracted to either sex. She may feel the desire to taste it,(which is normal) but when she thinks of who she's gonna do it with(male or female) she feels disgusted.

She is pretty. I've no problems with asexuals and in a world where s€x is overrated, oversold whilst being good asexuals are a breath of fresh air. Besides I know the Dutch Jewish philosopher, Baruch Spinoza was a$exual.

Damn, those hot laps...

Oh well, you never know what you have until it's gone.

My sister from another mother, in this part of d world is an "abomination" to be asexual

Mhen, being asexual won't be a bad idea o, I would try that after my world tour.
Her solution no even need deliverance, all her family needs is to inject her with overdose libido drug. She go shague even d nearest mad man.

I just dey come from google now, them talk say it really annoys them when you say they could be fixed. But it would really be frustrating for anybody to fall in love with an asexual o, cos they would not even notice you.

Pls, are there male asexuals too..?

I cnt believe dis....i need to see this babe like seriously....dis is a waste of sexyness

Isn't that nice? Not having to ever worry about the S-factor - if you are good at it or just fumbling. Not having to worry about breaking the sixth commandment.
Lucky devil.
Anyhoo, in my opinion God made them so for a purpose.

Nothing wey no go be problem for this world o....Somebody said she ain't got no taste for intimacy,and people are killing themselves 4 it..Will u guys live her life 4 her? Make una leave the girl alone...To f.u.ck na by force?
Funny how people tend to try and force their own lifestyle on others!!!

Nonsense, if she likes she can delete her toto.

Na she sabi

Boko haram suicide bombers dey wait for her for aljana! she will be part of their promised 7 virgins...loooolz

She Should Go to the Convent, Atleast She would be Useful there!

She is definitely a WITZARD

Its kukuma her life not anyone else'

She is not missing anything. There is more to life than sex.

jmoore: She is not missing anything. There is more to life than sex.

Without sex, no life. #teamNoCondom

aManFromMars:

Without sex, no life. #teamNoCondom

Dude, that's not the point.