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Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 5:21pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
2buff:\Great |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 5:24pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
favediva: The real issue dis man has is that he cannot handle the fact that his wife now earns more income than him. I can only imagine how proud, arrogant and selfish he was before now, cos if he had always been as loving and caring as he sounds, she wouldn't hide anything from him. One way or the other, he must have made it clear that he is a threat to her success. C'mon people, it's simple psychology..... This topic is just so disgusting.You are very judgmental and ignorant Hope it happen to one of your beloved one |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by judii(f): 5:49pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
GoodFaith:Why are u taking things so personal? Abi, same thing don happen 2 you before? I have been following this thread and couldn't ignore this comment of yours. The OP's maturity is commendable! |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by soulglo: 6:06pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
judii: Why are u taking things so personal? Abi, same thing don happen 2 you before? I have been following this thread and couldn't ignore this comment of yours. The OP's maturity is commendable! GoodFaith does not realize it but he sounds very "woe is me". Someone like him will find it difficult to forgive someone and move on just because the person looked at him the wrong way |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by judii(f): 6:44pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
soul_glo:I think he would be happy and satisfied only when the OP tells him he's (OP) ready 2 send his wife packing. I really don't get what the problem is any more! The OP said he's willing 2stay married for the sake of the kids and some persons feel that's weak of him? Why is it so difficult 4 some people 2 forgive? Why? |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by armyofone(m): 6:59pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
2Buff, nothing wrong using her money to buy boy toys now especially when little johnny can't stand up or you want her to continue to shuffer and shmilling for ever and ever? building new house and buying boy toys are precious investments . 2buff: |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 7:36pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
soul_glo:I am not telling him to judge is wife base on one issue He has to look at the complete relationship There is nothing personal I am very good in looking at things from both views A Friend once came to me and told me how bad a lady was, I don't know the lady he was talk about I listened and asked him a few question After my questions, he came to conclusion that the man made some mistake that the lady is not completely bad I told him to put himself and her daughter is he has any in the lady position |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 7:41pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
judii: I think he would be happy and satisfied only when the OP tells him he's (OP) ready 2 send his wife packing. I really don't get what the problem is any more! The OP said he's willing 2stay married for the sake of the kids and some persons feel that's weak of him? Why is it so difficult 4 some people 2 forgive? Why?If you read all my posting, at no time did I tell the OP to send the wife packing That is a personal decision for the Op The OP has to look at the big picture, not just judging her based on her building a house but look at their relationship for the past 10 year of their marriage and before their marriage |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by pickabeau1: 7:44pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
armyofone: 2Buff, nothing wrong using her money to buy boy toys now especially when little johnny can't stand up or you want her to continue to shuffer and shmilling for ever and ever? Are you joking or really serious... |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 7:51pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
judii: I think he would be happy and satisfied only when the OP tells him he's (OP) ready 2 send his wife packing. I really don't get what the problem is any more! The OP said he's willing 2stay married for the sake of the kids and some persons feel that's weak of him? Why is it so difficult 4 some people 2 forgive? Why? I will not tell any person to stay married just because of the kids but to stay married base on the complete relationship of happiness People make mistake I will tell people to stay married if they can work it out Happiness is not just base on living with your kids in the same house The greatest thing for any man and woman is to have the family under one root If their is no happiness and the kids are unhappy so stay together mean what? |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 8:01pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
judii: Why are u taking things so personal? Abi, same thing don happen 2 you before? I have been following this thread and couldn't ignore this comment of yours. The OP's maturity is commendable! " Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by judii(f): 12:55pm On Sep 24 @ Nashville, So because I ran away from one and unknowingly ended up with another, I now attract them 2 myself, right? I really don't blame the other lady 4 exiting this thread! Too many judgemental people on NL." |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by armyofone(m): 8:32pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
see BB's question pickabeau1: |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by andyanders: 9:05pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
2ndChance: It is too bad that a pastor is aiding your wife for her action and do not be surprised that this pastor might be sleeping with your so called wife, milking her maybe with some kind of spiritual manipulation, whereby your wife might have been acting out of the pastor's spiritual manipulation against her own will. Some of this pastors are not real. Since you love your children and wants to have peace not breaking your home by throwing your wife away , seek for higher real man of God if you believe in God, to be able to know what the problem is. Since you have been able to discover that the man of God is behind what is going on now, he must know or is responsible for the crises in your home. Please, I cannot subscribe to your sending your wife away for now as some people suggested. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by judii(f): 9:37pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
GoodFaith:. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by texaco1: 9:48pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
People still dey on top dis matta ! Na wah oo ,even the op and his wife don forget the issue sef |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 9:52pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
judii: And what exactly do u intend 2 achieve with this? Grow up, man! I repeat, grow up! Mtchew!Grow up? I am very grown man with BIG BILLS NOT KIDS BILL You want to talk about my posting or comments So, I had to read some of your past posting to understand you or have some ideal how you think I can see where you coming from base on some of your life experience You are a girl that think because of your PU??Y- You must be right and You must have things your way Men has to been at the disadvantage in dealing with you Really? You need to keep moving |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by pickabeau1: 11:11pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
armyofone: see BB's question Good to know u r catching your trips |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by pickabeau1: 11:14pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
GoodFaith: Not necessary digging up threads...that place is a sanctuary and you betray the trust of a lot of people by posting comment to make fun of them |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by soulglo: 11:37pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
GoodFaith: SMH. Really? |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 12:52am On Nov 01, 2013 |
armyofone: 2Buff, nothing wrong using her money to buy boy toys now especially when little johnny can't stand up or you want her to continue to shuffer and shmilling for ever and ever? Build a house for me and I'll give you the honor of being my girl toy. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by tracyfemmmm: 12:58am On Nov 01, 2013 |
smartchoice: No man deserves to be treated like that!are you a child talking about send her away send her away as if a wife is like a car or property to discard easily.there are always two sides of a story maybe the woman did not tell you because she felt that you would be angry as you are now that she is becoming successful. my advise to op,sit her down and explain that you are partners,reassure her that you have her back and will like her to reach her maximum potential as a person but that you would like her to be able to confide in you. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by tracyfemmmm: 1:06am On Nov 01, 2013 |
Nashville:[b][quote author=Nashville] handing over key to the house that she built with her own salary,if she hands over the key and op takes it that means that op's problem is jeolousy |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by tracyfemmmm: 1:27am On Nov 01, 2013 |
nayef:u lie |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by tracyfemmmm: 1:46am On Nov 01, 2013 |
normaljenny: My brother, I have seen lots of advices here some are good and some are not good. Kneeling down and begging for forgiveness is no big deal. I can do it too with like 20 mins crying added to it. My candid advice is: rubbish advise |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by judii(f): 8:46am On Nov 01, 2013 |
GoodFaith:. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by judii(f): 8:50am On Nov 01, 2013 |
soul_glo:I'm so disappointed in him. Thought he was a mature man that could hold a discussion. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by favediva: 11:19am On Nov 01, 2013 |
Pattey: Comprehension issues??!!! Please try n use your brain a little here. I do not give a damn about his complaints cos the topic to a large extent explains what really happened ....Next time you want to attempt solving a problem, u should try seeking the "probable cause".For every reaction, there is always an action/cause. If this rule was followed, then this thread wouldn't have gotten this long. This woman did not go directly to the priest because of her plans to build a house. She most likely went to him for counselling, there must have been something wrong with the marriage or do the priests in your village have "helping wives to build houses without their husband's knowledge" as part of their "job description" You should learn not to swallow everything you are told. Ask the OP for proof that the 8 houses were acquired jointly....n d woman didn't contribute a dime. Hehehehe, even the few Nigerian movies i watched when i was little has made me so sure that the man's family would "drag the 8 houses" with the woman IF (God forbid) the man dies 2mr. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by pickabeau1: 11:40am On Nov 01, 2013 |
Have you considered the fact that the priest may have contributed to the destruction of a marriage That act betrays the trust of the man The priest went beyond his job description If i may ask, have u ever run a joint venture or business with someone How will you feel if one party did things in secret without letting the other part know Better still are u married and how will u feel if ur hubby started a project without ur knowlege or know how and u found out later inadvertently? favediva: |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by 2ndChance: 12:38pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
favediva: I saw your posts earlier and decided to ignore but my patience failed me when I saw this last one. Another man married to this same family is having exactly this same issue as I type. Just like in my case, he got wind of the whole development from outsiders. May be you should ask yourself why every woman from my wife's family doesn't trust her husband, just like their mother never trusted their father. And by the way, I have a very strong feeling you are one of my wife's sisters!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by texaco1: 1:38pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
i am beginning to enjoy this thread |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by favediva: 2:13pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
2ndChance: Pls o!!! I Know ye not.....Thank God.... Even if i may sound otherwise, i'm actually trying to help you. Leave your wife's family history out of this. I've been saying the exact same thing if you read my comments well Be honest with yourself A typical Nigerian woman would beg, whether or not she is wrong to save her marriage. A priest will "seem sorry" because he is a priest, or do u expect him to argue with u? (That's if this really happened) Put aside the African mentality, Book an appointment with a professional counsellor Your family and friends will support you whether or not you are right. ASUU is on strike, who knows, majority of the people giving you advice may be "school children" for crying out loud. Why on earth did she feel the need 2 hide a house from u?? |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Pattey(m): 2:26pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
favediva: So its not important that OP acquired assets in both names; his and the wife's. . . While Madam Wife acquires just for herself? Even if she contributed in acquiring any of the assets; The docs also carry her name SO WHY NOT extend same courtesy to her husband? Infact, why am I stressing mysef wit this fellow? *yawns* Certified dumbina . . . Keep looking for silly reason that you lost eheheh 1 Like |
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