Guys:
Will you work for your wife as her staff in her business OR assuming both of you work for a company that has no strict policy against dating staff members and she happens to be your boss, how will you manage the role reversal at home? Will you be insubordinate to her orders at the office because you are her boss at home?


Ladies:

If you find yourself in that position, how will you manage it without hurting his ego? Will you transfer the frustrations in your marriage to work and use your position to humiliate him? If your husband is earning $50K/PA and your business that rakes in about $700K/PA is in dire need of a competent manager to close the loop holes and you are ready to pay the manager $100K, will you rather hire another person and pay him that much when your husband is capable of doing that?

na wa o, what do u have against men, all your post seem to humiliate and degrade them to mere pennis

Answer the Question jare.

Gamine:

Answer the Question jare.

yes ma, i will take it professionally, i will do my part and recognise her as the boss, but the roles changed once we step in the house, then i be the boss and God help her if she goofed @ the office, i go,

@Topic to avoid any confusion among the couples, let them work in different office. There are other companies that pays very well and there are other things a man or woman can do to still make a good pay check

Wouldn't want to work in the same office as my husband anyway

@ topic, NO. Neither would I let her work under me.

@ topic

no sorry i couldn't. i mean it would just add complication to our marriage. one of you might take something personal that happened in the office and transfer it to the home. i just rather work here and him work all the over there.

onyinye2:

@ topic

no sorry i couldn't. i mean it would just add complication to our marriage. one of you might take something personal that happened in the office and transfer it to the home. i just rather work here and him work all the over there.

We've finally agreed on something.

StephenP:

We've finally agreed on something.

this is truly a first. but yeah i just couldnt work where my husband worked. this is one of those things where you cant separate business from pleasure. then to add insult to injury we might get into an arguement at work with is very unprofessional so i rather just avoid all of that.

Not enough to see the face at home> have to deal with the same face at work?

Um No

I cannot work in thesame office with my wife.

@Topic to avoid any confusion among the couples, let them work in different office. There are other companies that pays very well and there are other things a man or woman can do to still make a good pay check

So you'd rather hire a manager for your business and pay him/her double your husband's salary instead of hiring your husband?

yes ma, i will take it professionally, i will do my part and recognise her as the boss, but the roles changed once we step in the house, then i be the boss and God help her if she goofed @ the office, i go,

Lmao; And God help you if you tomorrow if you goofed at home.

i can only take so much of seeing or being around same person in a day. so to ur question heck NO!

i can only take so much of seeing or being around same person in a day. so to your question heck NO!

So you'd rather look for employment elsewhere even if her employers were ready to pay you double what you worth?

@RHC
madam u don change the whole scenario. lets stick to tour original post.

@RHC
madam u don change the whole scenario. Huh Huh Undecided lets stick to tour original post.

That goes to show that you may consider working for her abi assuming the latter scenario was the case?

lets just say it would be a hard decision.

RedHotChic:

Guys:
Will you work for your wife as her staff in her business OR assuming both of you work for a company that has no strict policy against dating staff members and she happens to be your boss, how will you manage the role reversal at home? Will you be insubordinate to her orders at the office because you are her boss at home?

No way, Jose!!!!!!!!!!!!

No way, Jose!!!!!!!!!!!!

You've been working for a UK shipping magnate who has one daughter in Wharton college. She fell in love with you and married you after his father handed the company over to her. Will you rather quit and go back to picking cans and washing cars for a living or stick to the big business as her assistant?

RedHotChic:

You've been working for a UK shipping magnate who has one daughter in Wharton college. She fell in love with you and married you after his father handed the company over to her. Will you rather quit and go back to picking cans and washing cars for a living or stick to the big business as her assistant?

I become the CEO of her Dad's company as soon as the Dad leaves . . . .
If that aint feasible, she can shove her Dad's company up her flaming anus!!!!
I cant be an assistant to ma wife . . . . what does she have in her head that i cannot match??

Hannibal:

what does she have in her head that i cannot match??

you should never leave such openings. . . . .

I become the CEO of her Dad's company as soon as the Dad leaves . . . .
If that aint feasible, she can shove her Dad's company up her flaming anus!!!!
I can't be an assistant to ma wife . . . . what does she have in her head that i cannot match??

Remember her dad just stepped aside and with the way marriages are going today, he'll not rely on an inlaw who only has a degree in engineering to manage all he worked for in his lifetime in place of his own daughter who is a rhode scholar. What if you embezzle their money and bail with another senorita?

Haba RHC!!

Only you wan track your husband now na to be ehn boss dey hungry you abi!!

Anyways, I have given much thought to this question and I'm yet to get my head around this one. But it will be difficult having my wife as my boss, not because shes a woman, but rather trying to differenciate our professional life from our private life. Imagine my wife having to give me a query!!

Hannibal:

I can't be an assistant to ma wife . . . . what does she have in her head that i cannot match??

A brain.

debosky:

A brain.

LOL. . . ,

No gainsaying

I wouldnt want to work with my husband. . . .it'll be too much time being spent together and I just cant do that.

Guys:
Will you work for your wife as her staff in her business OR assuming both of you work for a company that has no strict policy against dating staff members and she happens to be your boss, how will you manage the role reversal at home? Will you be insubordinate to her orders at the office because you are her boss at home?

Dios Prohibe!

Anyways, I have given much thought to this question and I'm yet to get my head around this one. But it will be difficult having my wife as my boss, not because shes a woman, but rather trying to differenciate our professional life from our private life. Imagine my wife having to give me a query!!

I know a Latino lady who is an occupational therapist that works in the same place with her husband who is just a technician. They try to work different shifts but sometimes they can't help it because the census is high. Her husband had no problem with her wife bossing him around at work and giving him a query for coming late even though she made him run late because he had to drop the kids at school before work. i don't know whether the man will be able to reverse the roles at home but i still doff my hat for him because it takes a lot for a man to bypass his ego and submit to his wife as boss.

A brain.

A more active and focused brain devoid of erotic spaces. Folks like Hannibal only develops their limbic system more than their cognitive center. Limbic system is not even good enough to run a porn company.