I really need advice of fellow nairalanders as I am really caught in an extremely confusing situation. I am one of those who would go through a number of dating websites trying to hook up with single ladies. I have been able to meet up with really responsible women with good but platonic relationship. After a while, I decided I was going to settle down with a Nigerian lady whom I have known for long. I am resident in New York.However, event took a swift turn when a lady I met at sandoka.com, another dating website and a medical doctor by profession, expressed a deep interest in the profile I posted on sandoka.com. We started chatting on the telephone and the mutual interest grows and grows to the extent that she travelled down from Colorado to spend a weekend with me in New York some time ago. Interest between both of us has grown ever since then. We are so fond of each other now so much so that I am thinking of not bringing my fiancee to stay with me in New York!Please advise me as I have only known this new lady for a couple of months while I have known my fiancee in Nigeria for 3 years!

Are u confused?

Dosnt he look confused

So for a rela of 3mnths,
yhu want to jilt yhur 3yrs rela. . .

yhur fiancee?did yhu propose?

guy,i wonder why yhu keep searchin for
ladies on datin sites
wen yhu've got a fiancee

lol

@poster,

sorry but u no resemble person wey don go obodo Igbo.

anihow i dont beliv ur tory.

your obviously still searching the Internet for cheap dates , or why would you put up a pix? _{I choose not to comment about the pix!}

your not sober.

Can we move on to another topic please?

By the way, there's a female pix on ur profile!! Yes, you are confused!

poster,pls dnt tell me dat gurl
on yhur profile is yhur chic. . .

You are very confused and don't know what u want.

Ps: Piece of advice . . .i'll remove that pic if i were u
are u male or femalec or a transgendered?

The profile says he's female. The picture on the profile is that of a female. The post is from a man and he has the picture of a man. So what is confusing about that?

@poster: Don't mind all of us jare. You are smarter that all of us. Some of us don't even know what it means to be mentally imbalanced like you. New york ko. Old oyo kingdom ni.

Beauteous: Good to see you online again. How is the teasing game going?

wait I'm a bit confuse yo
Ur gender on nairaland shows ur Female
then u have a Female pic of ur profile
nd a male pic seeking for help as u are confuse
www.confuse.com

Ceeno E vu:

The profile says he's female. The picture on the profile is that of a female. The post is from a man and he has the picture of a man. So what is confusing about that?

@poster: Don't mind all of us jare. You are smarter that all of us. Some of us don't even know what it means to be mentally imbalanced like you. New york ko. Old oyo kingdom ni.

Beauteous: Good to see you online again. How is the teasing game going?

Lmao. U don kolo o

@ poster
they've said it all

_{D guy is confused, perhaps he mistakenly post d pix,}

he is in need of advice

Ceeno E vu:

The profile says he's female. The picture on the profile is that of a female. The post is from a man and he has the picture of a man. So what is confusing about that?

@poster: Don't mind all of us jare. You are smarter that all of us. Some of us don't even know what it means to be mentally imbalanced like you.  New york ko. Old oyo kingdom ni.

beauteous: Good to see you online again. How is the teasing game going?

real gud jare. . .
yhu cud visit d thread to find out
bhut ibkaye has taken ova sha

CHINEKE NNAM E!! See juju for Nairaland!!

Na this picture you put for sandoka wey you use get babe??

Make I no lie o!! but you resemble evil spirit and America wey I know no go fit give anybody wey resemble you Visa even if your papa na dangote.

Abeg marry the oyinbo girl if you fit, maybe your pikin fit take style fine.

I swear say if I see your face for dream na "blood of jesus" go first commot for my mouth.

Your face resemble person wey T.B Joshua don use practice how to kill winch.

My guy I know say I no fine o, but for where you dey, I be denzel washington.

_{Abeg commot that picture for there because small small children follow dey this website, make them no see am start to get bad dream for night.}

lol!!!

Poster,yhu've got alotta nerves. . . .
after all d comments on yhur pic,
yhu still put up anoda diff one. . . .

Una too get bad mouth!!

Hehehehe

bfbs:

@123ras, stop reasoning like a ten year old child, handle your stupidity in your back yard, why would you post your wide mouthed photo here? wake up , idiot!

isn't that a bit rude on the poster

Esss:

CHINEKE NNAM E!! See juju for Nairaland!!

Na this picture you put for sandoka wey you use get babe??

Make I no lie o!! but you resemble evil spirit and America wey I know no go fit give anybody wey resemble you Visa even if your papa na dangote.

Abeg marry the oyinbo girl if you fit, maybe your pikin fit take style fine.

I swear say if I see your face for dream na "blood of jesus" go first commot for my mouth.

Your face resemble person wey T.B Joshua don use practice how to kill winch.

My guy I know say I no fine o, but for where you dey, I be denzel washington.

_{Abeg commot that picture for there because small small children follow dey this website, make them no see am start to get bad dream for night.}

Nna mehn,u harsh no be small but u talk true small sha. I been dey stretch when i saw the pic,mehn,i was WTH!

rokiatu:

isn't that a bit rude on the poster

Do you expect any better from a 9 year old kenyan buffoon.

Esss:

Do you expect any better from a 9 year old

9 years

bfbs:

like i said earlier, i don't give a F.You.C.K! go climb the tallest building in Lagos and drop yourself down, idiot

damn waitin the man do u

bfbs:

like i said earlier, i don't give a F.You.C.K! go climb the tallest building in Lagos and drop yourself down, idiot

which idiot are u referring to? cause the only idiot at the moment is u. because people who insults, are rude, are idiots and so I u.

Classic behaivior of a spoilt 9 year old brat whose parents gave unmonitored access to the internet. Throwing tantrums and cussing incessantly. Grow up you kenyan slowpoke.

Its now I am beginning to beleive the words of the bible that in the last days - more than two women will go to a man and seek his hand in marriage and even cry out saying - just let us bear your name - Poster - arent you happy that the words of the bible is being fulfilled upon u?

Sm pple take too many panadol for oda pple's headache

hmmmmn

@bfbs
ahn ahn. did u have a bad dream last nite ni . u just dey explode anyhow dnt worry u would meet ur rival soon
@all
just free d dude coz he might just want attention. stupidity beyond compare.

beauteous:

Sm people take too many panadol for oda people's headache

lmao

Oh No! Not again! I was laughing when i saw the new pic but my face changed almost immediately!
This transgendered is confused!

lol!!!