deols: #5.

I know of a family. They had a problem and the husband collected his car keys from her in the morning.

When he came back, there was a brand new car parked for him to see. His wife had bought it.

..they had too many issues though and later divorced.

Stormborn: I dont need to worry cus my wife will be the happiest and most fulfilled woman and i will make her that. She will always want to be near me all the time.i will love her and her only

deols:

Being angry is normal. So is eating.

They should not have to affect each other.

Just like my being angry won't stop me from my wife duties. So shall his being angry not stop him from eating.




Looks like something to discuss before marriage sef.

Dhurmynick: really
really
. like you wouldn't deprive ur husby of sex when there's an issue..

and u constantly nag to ur husband which remids him you're a woman.. just like he's telling. you he's the head

yh.. like you don't issue threats to take your children away from him. when u hear rumors of another woman.. nd curse nd threaten ur husby most times.

please.. like you wouldn't report to his parents if something is wrong

God made man first.. we are superior .. you were carved out of us.. u should understand men just like we never understand you ..
competition is in every animal kingdom.. u ladies even do it to yourselves

keep your cool and go drink beer sumwhr @ women in support

besides the woman had to have done something to cause all these.. these behaviours just dnt come out of the blue

everyday: which men?

browncool: A woman who knows how to be soft spoken to her husband and sometimes apologies even when she is not wrong goes a long way to make a marriage unique and I believe no sane man will issue such treats to a well mannered wife

Ntabeh: What do u do when he start calling his gf b4 u just to make u understand he has an alternative

Rashzubair: I am sure many ladies here in support of these post and even adding more are either single or married with self issues that probably leads to such reaction from there husband.



Wen ur husbnd does not eat ur food, dere'z no way u will b comfortbl... Fact!

davades: Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since then

Dhurmynick: really
really
. like you wouldn't deprive ur husby of sex when there's an issue..

and u constantly nag to ur husband which remids him you're a woman.. just like he's telling. you he's the head

yh.. like you don't issue threats to take your children away from him. when u hear rumors of another woman.. nd curse nd threaten ur husby most times.

please.. like you wouldn't report to his parents if something is wrong

God made man first.. we are superior .. you were carved out of us.. u should understand men just like we never understand you ..
competition is in every animal kingdom.. u ladies even do it to yourselves

keep your cool and go drink beer sumwhr @ women in support

besides the woman had to have done something to cause all these.. these behaviours just dnt come out of the blue

davades: Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since then

gidzbobby:

ehen... hungry neva catch ma guy na, that's why.... God know say, they no born ma papa well to even try this 1... cus if he does, we his children are ready to voluntarily eat his meal

gidzbobby:

ehen... hungry neva catch ma guy na, that's why.... God know say, they no born ma papa well to even try this 1... cus if he does, we his children are ready to voluntarily eat his meal

hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks......

*** Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN ***

1) Rejecting food wen there's an issue:

Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere wen angry but ensure that you don't allow it 2 linger unnecessarily because dat is enough for the devil to build on.

2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she
still knows that you are the head. Yu need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put yur feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3) Issuing threats:

Beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging abt marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4) Reporting your wife to friends and family:

Wen yur wife offends, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black nd sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis.

5) Competition:

Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names.
As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/
superiority complex. Please let's check ourselves and work as a team

DailyNews: The only immaturity 99.9% of married men are guilty of is: chasing other women!

But then, I sometimes don't blame them cos men are naturally polygamous beings, even though today women don't want to accept that natural imperfection in men due to christianity and modern civilization and the fight for gender-equality

The only way to stop your husband from desiring to sleep with other women or chasing single girls is to make sure that he is in constant relationship with God!

Aside the special grace of God and total submission to the word of God and fear of God, no man, I repeat, no man can marry and live forever with one woman without cheating on her!

Take it or leave it...u can listen to what u want to hear or believe what people say to appear too holy, it won't stop me from being honest to the best of my knowledge.

passionate88: xxxxxx

drnoel:

Listen to ursef, do u want him 2 beat her? If he can't beat her like the child she is, then he has to protest one way or anoda. I met a thread on facebook where one man went on booty strike, gave his wife sharia cos he was angry with her.


Ho2 right u are but sometimes a woman needs 2 hear it more than once. The more u tell her the more it sinks in2 her head abi.


Funny enof, women issue more threats than men but who am I 2 say so. Let me jut do like I didnt see this one b4 my wife sees it and begins trouble at home.


Now this is childish and agree but I see more women doing this than men. Men only report if he has told her over and over and she is being stubborn about it.


This one will not be my portion or portion of anyone I sabi

lorretta u: Yea give yourself a very nice excuse to go and get AiDS,gonorhea etc
Give yourself a very nature-approved reason to cause problems for your poor wife and bring ridicule to her and your matrimonial bed.
Yea break her heart and hurt her feelings (that's if she even has feelings.cos I'm sure the way men hurt when their wives cheat,the women are made of stone and feel nothing when you do.
Yea nature made it so. Cos he created one Adam and three Eves

Pathetic.

if you marry someone like me with that kind of mindset,you've got big problems on your hands.

bukatyne:

DailyNews, you are yet to answer my question:

Are you a Christian?

DailyNews: Funny, but find time and read my last response to Lorreta-u. Take care

bukatyne:

There is a difference between 'It takes God to be faithful' and 'Men are naturally polygamous'

I know it takes discipline (Might not necessarily be Christianity) to make partners faithful to each other.

My question stem from 'which God created men to be Polygamous?'

Why would adultery be a sin if God created men to be polygamous?

DailyNews: @Burger01, find time and read my long response, u will understand me better.

@Bukatyne, it is you that's sounding like a non-Christian this time

Imagine you saying that it takes discipline to be faithful and not necessarily God's grace, I honestly don't agree with you.

You can speak on behalf of women, but haven done some personal research on this, I can authoritatively tell u as a man that no man can be faithful to one woman by discipline.

Ask so many men, many men have tried being faithful or living chaste by their own discipline and moral standard and failed at the end. It takes the special grace of God through constant commitment to God for a man to flee from adultery and fornication too. Take it or leave it, time will tell

pickabeau1: ^^^ADULtery is sleeping with some one you are not married to (by a married person)

Polygamy is not adultery

bukatyne:

All you telling me that all men were cheats before the gospel came to Africa?

Since Adam and Eve fell, everybody has the nature of sin in them but it manifests in several ways... fornication, adultery, stealing, idolatry, lying etc. Adultery is NOT a man's thing; if most women knew nothing will happen if they cheated; 80% of them would!

I am saying that God didn't make man polygamous else He would have made Adam and 5 Eves...

The world is now sexua.lly crazy and hence everywhere is saturated with se.x

You will agree with me that women are now more sex.ually loose or are they now created polygamous?

davades: Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since then

davades: Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since then

bukatyne:

It is but that was not my point.

He said 'men are created polygamous' i.e. men was created to want/marry more than one woman. If God created men that way, why would He punish polygamy/adultery?