DailyNews:

You know, they said that whatever we humans decree here on earth shall be established in heaven too.

Since we humans now frown at a man marrying his sister or daughter as a taboo, heaven have also established it as a sin.

So to say, since polygamy was never frowned at by the people of the past, and was happily welcomed and[b] practiced by the ancient people, God never judged them or saw it as evil[/b]...but nowadays that we humans now see it as evil and sin, I am sure it will be established in heaven as sin too.

That's how it works.

Dhurmynick: really
really
. like you wouldn't deprive ur husby of sex when there's an issue..

and u constantly nag to ur husband which remids him you're a woman.. just like he's telling. you he's the head

yh.. like you don't issue threats to take your children away from him. when u hear rumors of another woman.. nd curse nd threaten ur husby most times.

please.. like you wouldn't report to his parents if something is wrong

God made man first.. we are superior .. you were carved out of us.. u should understand men just like we never understand you ..
competition is in every animal kingdom.. u ladies even do it to yourselves

keep your cool and go drink beer sumwhr @ women in support

besides the woman had to have done something to cause all these.. these behaviours just dnt come out of the blue

Ngokafor:
..but it's not the same thing na...it's almost physically and emotionally impossible for a woman to want to get down if she's upset,no matter how hard she tries..

... i believe her husband shoud take out time to coax and get in her in the mood first..

bukatyne:

It is but that was not my point.

He said 'men are created polygamous' i.e. men was created to want/marry more than one woman. If God created men that way, why would He punish polygamy/adultery?

hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks......

*** Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN ***

1) Rejecting food wen there's an issue:

Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere wen angry but ensure that you don't allow it 2 linger unnecessarily because dat is enough for the devil to build on.

2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she
still knows that you are the head. Yu need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put yur feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3) Issuing threats:

Beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging abt marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4) Reporting your wife to friends and family:

Wen yur wife offends, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black nd sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis.

5) Competition:

Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names.
As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/
superiority complex. Please let's check ourselves and work as a team

latsholly: i quite agree wiv dis write up especially shoutin n naggin dat he is d head of d house. i wish my man reads dis.

DailyNews: See my dear, I am very sure that u don't know me and u won't understand anyway

I am not married, but 60 to 70% of my friends are married, some I was there bestman, that's to tell u how close I am to them.

Like I said, I am not married yet and

I don't ever intend to cheat on my wife

when I marry tomorrow, becos even now that I am single and free, I am not living a bad life despite the numerous opportunities, in fact I am not even....but its not just by my power or becos I am too disciplined than other guys out there, nope, its by the special grace of God, and I thank Him, and pray God grants me more grace to live a better life when I marry cos I know I can't do it on my own power and will, and neither can any man do it by his own power. Take it or leave it.


But then, I don't come here to say things people want and love to hear, nope, I say things that are happening and not what I feel should be happening. And I am not encouraging or justifying male cheating.

There is something present day women refused to understand: no man can be completely faithful to his wife by his own moral power, its very difficult. That's y u as a woman need to start living a good life now u are single and also go closer to God and do pray for your husband when u marry.

If u ladies don't know, Christianity and the word of God did a lot of good for women and the world in general.

If not for Christianity and other good religion, the world would have been a lawless place and in fact, a hell for all.

The world would have been so brutal, merciless and in fact inhabitable.

Go and read history of the world when Christianity was still being practiced by few people- crime, waywardness, lawlessness, etc were nothing to cry of.

Most armed robbers stopped robbery becos of the word of God. Most ritualists changed becos of word of God. Most murderers, adulterers, fornicators, just name them.

If not for the word of God and the respect for God, I am sure I wouldn't have been as humble, quiet and disciplined to the level I am today and I give the glory to God.

But the problem is that today women want to marry a hip hop star, a club stripper, a raggar muffi, lolz and still want him to be a faithful husband, how pls?

You don't want your husband to be close to God, u don't want your man to be committed to God, in fact u want him to be a sunday-sunday church goer and u want him to be very rich, successful, and handsome too but u don't want him to chase other women or fall prey to other women advances, how?

You ladies think that it is very easy for a man to withstand advances from another pretty woman who isn't his wife by his own moral power alone? Keep playing with fire then.

A man can only withstand pressure to have extra marital affairs if and only if he fears God and respects God and always striving to do what God want, aside that, its not possible once he has the opportunity to cheat.

In conclusion Lorreta-u, pray u get a man like me (pls dnt take it as an insult) becos if u do, then u are a very lucky woman and the world will call u BLESSING & other women that knows u will envy u! Not bragging and not trying to ridicule u becos u maybe dating or married to a nice guy too, who knows?

But pls don't expect me next time to type what u or majority wants to read or hear, or what people ought to do becos I will disappoint u, instead I type or say what I know that's happening and what I know as the truth & not what people ought to do when it is not wot they are doing presently.

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Some of the biggest mistakes women make are:

1. Mistake number 1:
Trying to scare men into being faithful with threat of disease. Unfortunately, most men believe they can protect themselves from STDs and STIs.

2. Mistake number 2:
Trying to bribe God, how?
As a single lady, u turned your back on God, anything that has to do with God is old fashioned, and when u start getting to the age of marriage, u suddenly turn to a prayer warrior, a diehard born again sister and u think God can be bribed? Lol

If u love God becos He alone is God and becos u know that He deserves your love and respect, and not becos u want a good husband, then God will bless u with a good deserving husband as a token.

But unfortunately today, most born again ladies are born again becos they want a good husband, how will it work? God sees our hearts and can't be bribed.

3. Women mistake number 3:
You run around with all sorts of men when single and u want your husband to be the only monk when u marry, how?

If u don't know, evil must be repaid with evil.

Nigerian women cry and complain that their husbands cheat a lot and that Nigerian men are never faithful in marriage but they forgot that life is a vicious circle, how?

Majoirty of single ladies in Nigeria run around with different men in the name of living their single life, etc, while most single guys in Nigeria are busy chasing money.

Now, nature must balance the circle. So to balance it, Nigerian men as soon as they marry start doing what the Nigerian single ladies did when they were single and hot. That's the philosophy behind it.

To reduce the risk of falling a victim to this, start now as a single lady to live a good life and embrace God wholeheartedly and not just becos u want a good husband and watch out.

So who has wisdom should learn from my epistle.


Have a lovely day ahead

kokoye:

Funny ...some women expect no reaction whatsoever from their husbands when they misbehave. But flip the coin and it's perfectly allowed.

We are not make of stone. We may react when you misbehave ...and you are not supposed to like the reaction??

...deal with it and change your ways...maybe?

Stop playing the victim every time.

vivian francis: i just wish my husband read dis

ocelot2006:


You can't be serious. There is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY one can maintain his appetite when he is angry.

armyofone: I think we should make it clear to each other before marriage that he/she will not eat for X days when there is argument. That way you know to cook for yourself. It saves on the food rejection/wastage/anger for not eating etc

chess guru:
No biggy..I'd J̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊S̤̥̈̊τ̲̣̣̥ take the new car keys again..the car can't stay in my compound. She can park it in thy kingdom come, but not in my compound

lorretta u: Don't ask me to pray for a man like you.I've got a man better than you (no insult intended)

deols: Why the need to be defensive by some men here?


Seriously, just find other ways to solve the problems other than these immature ones.

gidzbobby:

ehen... hungry neva catch ma guy na, that's why.... God know say, they no born ma papa well to even try this 1... cus if he does, we his children are ready to voluntarily eat his meal

megawave: OP listen carefully i will always remind my wife that i am the head cos you women at times seem to forget this when you open your mouth and yarn nonsense.
Go to the Lions den, its just a lion that is controlling the Territory. The same thing applicable to lizards only one red head lizard controls the territory and this animals in control will fight with their last breath if any male tries to encroach their territory.
It is a man's nature to always want to have this assurance he is in control. The earlier women realizes that, the better it is if you want to live peacefully with a MAN.

Mr Aboki:


Sometimes, life is not as straight forward as it appears.

I have a friend that I forsee a break-up in their marriage in the not too distant future. Infact, when once she puts to bed, I see her calling off the marriage.

The guy has abused, beaten and rubbished her as best as he can.

I got wind of certain bits and pieces of their story and all I can say is that the guy has issues. However, because of the guys attitude, the wife has also stopped even trying to be the peace maker that she initially was. Now its a matter of whatever.

They both live in the same house but he does not talk to his pregnant wife.
He calls his pregnant wife a LovePeddler.
Throws a tantrum, breaks things and smashes stuff near and around her (because he cant hit her now that she is heavily pregnant).

I would have had a chat with him, but all I want to do now is hire thugs to whoop his as|s because if his wife were my sister, I would have hurt him really bad.


Marriage is not an easy matter.

It takes 90% work, endurance and perserverance and 10% love to keep a marriage together.

Choommy4luv1: .........like seriously..he wil final come to his hiz sences...n by dat tym,junior n co has already deviated n digested d food...lolzzz

DailyNews: Yes, all male animals are created to be polygamous, and man happens to be a higher animal.

Male lions are polygamous, likewise many other male animals, but majority of female animals aren't born polygamous.

And I think it was meant for a purpose- maybe to ensure controlled reproduction. Women call men dog, and u think its a joke, yes men are like dogs in nature but via the word of God and via commitment to the practice of word of God, a man is exempted from that dog classification.

So dear, take it or leave it, all male species are born polygamous...so if u want a faithful man, marry one that's faithful to God and ensure he is in constant commitment with God, else, u are operating on probability.

Wahala90:
Mom: Son, when you get married and your wife gives you shit and behaves childish and senseless (it is normal), don't do anything. Never reject food, don't remind her you are the head, don't issue threats, don't beat her up and don't report her to anyone.

Son: What then should I do?

Mom: Keep quiet and eat every shit she gives you. The more shit you eat, the more you grow and mature fast.

Son: This is confusing! But Dad ate so much of your shit yet died of hypertension and malnutrition.