Nice one fellas

Nice one...i disagree wit d cohabitation,i depends on who ure stayin with, 2 me cohabitation maks d luv stronger.am certain.

Nice

great write up but you really have time sha...

slimthugchimee: Am not in relationship yet so

so you are still a kid

Nice
*grabs paper and pen*

Help me talk to girl. I do observe all these but why can't she do the same to make it

9ce one,u'r right

Watching a promising relationship die a slow-death
could be a tough feeling to bear. In my recent article -
25
Warning Signs of a Possible Breakup In Your Relationship, I
made mention of clear signs that we often ignore or pretend to manage
while we experience hard time with our partners. But in this write-up,
some points could be silent but a termite eating up the pillars of your
relationship bit by bit. No relationship dies in a day and the moment
you see more of the mistakes of your partner, the more uninteresting the
relationship becomes and the bitterer you are. No doubt, everyone is
bad at something but when you chose to love, you can only get better
with necessary adjustment. Making a relationship work is about making
efforts. There is no justification for your weakness as you can be
almost perfect if you put in some efforts. An absolute change could be
difficult but a positive adjustment is possible. If you've ever ran on a
default mode lifestyle before you decided to build a relationship, the
moment you do, knowing you aren't alone, knowing it takes two to make it
work, an immediate shift is expedient. Satisfying the (wo)man you
really love should be considered along your decisions. But before a
relationship would hit an all time low, these are highlights that could
lead it there.

1. Issues not discussed – There could be some areas you desire to have
your partner change or get better at. If you choose to keep mute about
it and you such keeps receiving your attention and you just can't
ignore, it kills relationships slowly.

2. Lies – Well, this cannot be overstretched. The more you lie to your
partner, the lesser he/she trust you, and when trust is gone in a
relationship, that’s trouble!

3. Not sharing – No one forms a relationship by themselves. It takes two
to get at it. A balanced relationship demands the effort of the-two
involved. It’s about what you-two bring to the center. The pressure
would be one-sided if one person chooses to be greedy. Sharing is one of
many things that powers a relationship and makes it balance.

4. Romance Wanted – Absence of romance in a relationship makes it
boring. There are ways to get at this, read

Crazy Ways to Spark-up Your Relationship. Romance is
sensual and not always sexual. Identify those things that could create
an intimate moment, things that sponsors good connection between you-two
and starting doing them. The importance is simply to keep the
attraction alive.

5. Blaming Your Partner - Yes! Keep blaming your partner for everything
that’s wrong in your relationship and watch it die slowly. When you see
more of his/her faults, there will always be something to complain about
and the more the complains the more the relationship would lose its
value.

6. Lack of Communication – Not in the area of phone calling or text
messages though also important but specifically in the awareness of
things to do or how to do them. Both parties must be kept abreast of
what’s coming. Make your moves, schedules, work or some family related
details clear to your partner. Always keeping them in the dark brings
about uncertainties that could cause regular misunderstanding in a
relationship.

7. Cohabitation – It’s one of the easiest ways to make your partner get
fed up with the relationship. When you become too regular, so many
things could lose its value and get lost accordingly. Read
The
Dangers of Cohabitation.

8. Pretense – You seem to be too cool at everything because you want to
impress him/her, that’s trouble! Whatever happens to being you should be
reversed. Your partner could take it as being nice or tolerant. In a
real relationship, no one is a cell-mate, you just be you!

9. Poor Timing – Whatsoever is sharing your quality time with your
partner needs to be transferred on another time slot. Having the space
for regular conversation strengthens your relationship and if it’s an
LDR, you either could talk regularly on phone or pick a day or two in
every week for this. Good time spent together reveals a lot, strengthens
the bond, secures the relationship and it helps in no little measure.

10. Too Many Expectations – You want her to know what you want without
saying it? You expect him to remember almost everything even when he has
got several matters demanding his attention? Yes, we are in love and
you sure mean a lot to us but we are human as well. Expect more and see
more faults, expect less and you will be able to appreciate your partner
more.

If there are issues not discussed in a relationship, it could make both
partners keep hurtful secrets and in-turn produce beautiful lies.
Blaming




I love this article.

pls sm1 shld help, after booting my BB9630, d screen is blank nd doesnt show anytin even wen l remove d sim nd battery nd insert again.

@ d-explorer,wot is d full meanin of LDR.

xynerise:
You sure say I read all?

Hahaha! u no go kill me here o!

Seriously, dat is d truth..naira land should b among d list coz itz one of d tinz dats breaking my relationship wit my bf...dia was a day he told me to either chose nairaland or him coz am always here..anyways, will try to avoid all d problems listed above

No. 7 on cohabitation implies that this message a part of this message does not apply to the non married. In a marriage, I can't see this as on option.

For those in a relationship

12. Garri

Op were is the fuc.k aspect of this article, that were am most concern.

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nice writeup*all na wash...MONEY NA D KOKO*NA WATIN WOMAN NED B DAT*NO TYM FOR SERERE#

Nice post! Especially the 'cohabitation' aspect! Its a slow poison especially when you guys aint married

Nice writeup,mehn ure on point

foolish talk....absence of romance and presence of cohabitation....hw can u romance without cohabitation or close to it.... Contradiction of the highest order
flee fornication whether light (romance) or heavy (cohabitation)...and ur relationship will blossom.

i dont know why i'm never interested in relationship tips.

Left to me, i'll rather study the books of PROVERBS (greatest source of wisdom on earth), manifest the fruits of the Holy Spirit and FEAR GOD.

anochuko01: i dont know why i'm never interested in relationship tips.

Left to me, i'll rather study the books of PROVERBS (greatest source of wisdom on earth), manifest the fruits of the Holy Spirit and FEAR GOD.

yess o my brother dont mind this people deceiving themselves with ralationship(fornication) tips.

*keke drop me here ooo*
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i hope my contribution has been of help to you

Priedeness, disresPect for each othe,inability apologise for one's mistake!

Nasygee: @ d-explorer,wot is d full meanin of LDR.

Long Distance Relationship.

Nyz_Piece buht I think I had Only Skimmed tru. #twas xo bulky

i love ur point

nice 1