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Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by McGibson(m): 5:28pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
i support them to marry, all of u that is not in support re just looking for small children to spoil, so they have wisen up, instead of u fools spoiling them, its better for them to marry the serious man in there life and there husbands are small boys too that are doing well in there area of specialization. Am planning on marrying my girl soonest too. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Emytexboy(m): 5:30pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
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Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Stillstan(m): 5:30pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
bukatyne:that's the point...I was in a clinic recently and I saw two young girls...very young girls pregnant and I learnt they where married...so it really got me wondering cos I was very certain that is either they are yet to enter the university or they jst finished secondary school..so why the rush?? @ least waiting till u are done with school is a very wise one..so that tomorrw should incase smtin happen, u never can tEll, @ Least u will be able to stand and survive than to marry @ a tender age and become a liability to ur man...for me, I don't think there's any sense in it.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by DollyParton1(f): 5:31pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
woodcook: You are totally and absolutely blessed. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by mightycrown: 5:33pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
19 is a good age for marriage, especially if the girl don't wait to immediately further her education. besides this age she is still 90% complete and have 70% opportunity of securing true love. But old ladies na case study |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Emytexboy(m): 5:34pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
lexxwiz: hmmn!! i think the guys are finally stepping up and taking responsibilities then.. 19yrs old for this time and era no be small pikin again oh.. you'l be shocked with what they know.. btw in the US, 50% of girls btw 16-19 re single parents..( Not proven) so let them marry biko... [quote author=lexxwiz]hmmn!! i think the guys are finally stepping up and taking responsibilities then.. 19yrs old for this time and era no be small pikin again oh.. you'l be shocked with what is that so :-/ |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by bukatyne(f): 5:35pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Mcbussy: I guess that is the plague in NL How many ladies married at 19 marry a young man of 25yrs and below? It is such women when they have just reached their prime and the hubby has expired will be looking for small boys up and down To think that the poster is a lady is woah! That means she is either under 19 and planning to marry by 19 or she is above 19 and she is sleeping around! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Mcbussy(m): 5:35pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
McGibson: i support them to marry, all of u that is not in support re just looking for small children to spoil, so they have wisen up, instead of u fools spoiling them, its better for them to marry the serious man in there life and there husbands are small boys too that are doing well in there area of specialization. Am planning on marrying my girl soonest too. wetin dis 1 dey tawk?....mugu u obviously sound crude and uneducated...i know ur type incase u're 26 or above and u marry a 19 year old u are a p£dophile......u can google d meaning if u dont know then u should continue d trend and give ur daughter away to a 40 year old once she turns 19 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by bukatyne(f): 5:36pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
The assumption that a lady who doesn't marry at 19 will marry at an old age is quite funny! Either 19 or 90 Choose your pick! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Most of them just want a wedding that's all 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by McGibson(m): 5:48pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Mcbussy:listen man, am not up to 26 but i hate how men treat ladies nowadays, use dem and dump them as they like and will pick small children. so anyone that finds someone that she loves should marry, and for your info, am a graduate with Bachelor of Science in edu/Physics and masters in science/education in view, Dip. health studies from Alison UK and other qualifications attached and my wife to be, a 3rd year linguistic student. So mind what you said. people like u re spare parts dealers. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Mcbussy(m): 5:51pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
bukatyne: The assumption that a lady who doesn't marry at 19 will marry at an old age is quite funny! dont mind d mugus.....maybe dat would be Yerima's next excuse.....dat if he doesnt help by marrying dem at d age of 3,they'll never get a husband 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Stillstan(m): 5:51pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
nekede11: Correct man,don't mind dis op,if i shuld ask him a questn,wil he like his sista 2 marry wen she s depreciating @28-30,d gud tym 4 a lady 2 get marriad if husband comes is b/wn (18-25),b/c @ dis age bracket,there full beauty s unveil,and their body are still n compact shape, frm 26-30 na survival of d fittest,depreciating stage,but stil manageable,ladies wake up o,if u like make u deprive urself d chance of getting married early,u can marry early and stil build ur career,all depend b/w u and ur partner.if d opportunity comes early accept it o,nt wen u clock 30, u wil come here dey ask "WHY MARRIAGEABLE MEN ARE SCARSE"finally @op,if underage are scarce 4 ur area,make u go frnd overage na (sugar mummy)hahahahahabro am not against any person marrying when she's sure that she can cope with the challenges of marriage, have u bothered to find out why there are so many issues in maRriages this days? And have you also tried to have a flash back of how marriage used to be during the times of our parents? U would agree with me that the difference is clear, but this days young gals who are yet to secure their future will like to marry mayb cos her friend got married or some other irrelevant issues...don't quote me wrong pls...am not stopping any young girl from getting married @ any age of her choice but this is jst an avenue to let em know that there is more to marriage than their thoughts for those that are un aware of that fact! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by DollyParton1(f): 6:01pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
McGibson: listen man, am not up to 26 but i hate how men treat ladies nowadays, use dem and dump them as they like and will pick small children. so anyone that finds someone that she loves should marry, and for your info, am a graduate with Bachelor of Science in edu/Physics and masters in science/education in view, Dip. health studies from Alison UK and other qualifications attached and my wife to be, a 3rd year linguistic student. So mind what you said. people like u re spare parts dealers. Oh yea? And since you achieved all these, what stops you from allowing your wife-to-be to get her first degree at least. And wether you marry her or not, it doesn't stop other men from trashing women. It is left for women to wisen up and reject being treated as a door stop. Wish u a happy married life in advance. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Mcbussy(m): 6:03pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
McGibson: listen man, am not up to 26 but i hate how men treat ladies nowadays, use dem and dump them as they like and will pick small children. so anyone that finds someone that she loves should marry, and for your info, am a graduate with Bachelor of Science in edu/Physics and masters in science/education in view, Dip. health studies from Alison UK and other qualifications attached and my wife to be, a 3rd year linguistic student. So mind what you said. people like u re spare parts dealers. hahahahaha....me a spare part dealer? i am a graduate of Psychology and also in view of my masters in Social work.i dont need to start mentioning universities abroad,cos i am a scholar here in naija.well u cant blame me for mistaking u for an illiterate.....from ur 1st post there was a terrible grammatical error; "all of u dat is nt in support" .it should av been "those of u that are not in support" ...... so i guess d foreign education didnt make much difference after all.it was just a privilege. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by NadiaSA1(f): 6:05pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Neena dat doesnt make perfect sense neena adjei: Most of them just want a wedding that's all 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by DollyParton1(f): 6:07pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Mcbussy: Choi!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Still_stan: that's the point...I was in a clinic recently and I saw two young girls...very young girls pregnant and I learnt they where married...so it really got me wondering cos I was very certain that is either they are yet to enter the university or they jst finished secondary school..so why the rush?? @ least waiting till u are done with school is a very wise one..so that tomorrw should incase smtin happen, u never can tEll, @ Least u will be able to stand and survive than to marry @ a tender age and become a liability to ur man...for me, I don't think there's any sense in it..I still ask this question "Is being a graduate a criteria for marriage cos what, almost everyone against early marriage are hampering upon is let her get 1st degree? Most graduates are just sitting @ home, only the lucky ones find themselves in a reputable company. God can bless u be it a graduate or not... He does not look upon ur academic credentials. U can be ur own boss, in the end we are after the cash. U and ur partner can build ur own future regardless ur background or credentials. Conclusion: Its not a must one must be a graduate b4 he/she is regarded as matured enough for marriage. CAPICHE :/ 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Mcbussy(m): 6:09pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Dolly-Parton: lol......dont mind him.from my psychological evaluation,i feel he's just an insecure dude dat feels putting a ring on his gal at an early age would guarantee she wont look else where 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by BenYisrael: 6:09pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
which of the mods dey hide and antispambot me, i never said anything offensive, but if the shoe fits wear it....at Dolly-Parton, the same question you asked me is what my ex said, anyways I know how your type reasons, so it aint no use engaging you 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Mcbussy:That was unsocial of u.... He demands an apology |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Stillstan(m): 6:11pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
jimi phunmmy:and who told you that marriage is all about the di*k?? Even @ that...@ this present world, the married couples even see cheating as a norm now...so early marriage is not a guarantee in this century that a wife won't cheat and it still boils down to the issue @ hand...cos any lady that takes her time before indulging into marriage will have no reason to cheat, go to universities or ask those that have had the opportunity to do their service, they will tell u stories of this married women and if u take ur time to check on em you will understand that its mostly cos they dnt enjoy their marriage and theirfore sort refuge outside....so which is better?? Taking ur time to understand marriage before indulging into it?? Or rushing into it and nursing regrets later on? |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
bukatyne: You don't believe they can all be achieved at once?? |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Mcbussy(m): 6:17pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Godvilla: That was unsocial of u.... okay,true.....guess i shouldnt av replied him dat way.apologies Mcgibson,didnt mean 2 sound rude. |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by paulbets: 6:19pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Input: If they marry late you will talk....if they marry early you will talk,wetin you want make them do?marry late-early! Input: If they marry late you will talk....if they marry early you will talk,wetin you want make them do?marry late-early! or marry middle |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Mcbussy:Thumbs up.... I ilke ur humility. Hope u make a good hubby to ur wife 2 be |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by DMainMan: 6:23pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
chimex38: Most times its to avoid fornication & remain pure.. Which could b stained along d way if decidin on late marriages |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Tinkybabe(f): 6:24pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
It begs the question how many of these girls are psychologically,emotionally and financially mature to handle the responsibilities that accompany a marriage? Many of these girls enter the institution for the wrong reasons and with the wrong mindset.For those that had dreams,their dreams become thwarted when they are faced with the realities of marriage. No one is saying they should become old cargos before considering marriage but they should at least tick these boxes that would put them in a better position.No one wants to be a liability in their home.Failure to plan results in planning to fail. The road to achieving one's goals is far easier when single,when one's not saddled with marital responsibilities as concentration and focus is more then than when one begins a family. If at 19 ,a girl has what it takes to run a home then by all means she's good to go . I still maintain though that not many of these girls do. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by zeefather(m): 6:26pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
she no go see cos ma diary she 1 sell+why woman no go free u sef wit dis kain english...."leave u to that guy"[quote author=Efewestern]My gf was telling her friend that if she see's a guy that will pay her diary n do her marriage, that she will break-up with me & leave me to that guy! Just imagine n she z just 19.. |
Re: Why Are Young Girls Rushing To Marry Lately? by Miner13: 6:27pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
That is the simple reasons for the highrate of divorce in the world today. A girl that suppose to stil be under intense lecture of parent is giving out to marriage |
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