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Re: I'm Fed Up!! by solomon111(m): 4:23pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
chaircover: This sounds rather strange, that none of the girls that you go out with can cook.@chaircover &efemena Thank you both. Yes,i know there's more to a woman and i appreciate it,but then i think asking for a gnod cook as a criterion in your would-be wife is not too much to ask. It's not as if i'm too demanding,afterall i would only end up eating at home once in a day which is at night when i come back home and i want that one meal to be good. I'm not looking for a housewife,i just want someone that can balance her home-duties with her work. My mum was never a housewife but she was able to prepare good meals for her household regurlarly. And yes,i've told 2 different ladies to go to cooking school,but they got very angry and since then i've stopped telling them. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by solomon111(m): 4:26pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
2legit2qwt: You're fed up?? Are you a toddler? You sound like it's the sole responsibility of the woman to do the cooking like she's your maid.I don't have any problem cooking myself,unfortunately i don't have time. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
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Re: I'm Fed Up!! by coogar: 4:34pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
chaircover: ileoba is in the kitchen cooking ogbonna for me. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 4:37pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by 2legit2qwt: 4:38pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
solomon111: I don't have any problem cooking myself,unfortunately i don't have time.Good advice from chaircover. If time is the problem bro, go eat at restaurants or better do like me and make your food for the week on weekends and refrigerate. That's what i do and i'm a full time worker plus i have quite a few things i do on the side but i don't think it'd bother me as much if my girl doesn't know how to cook. If it bothers you as much, take chaircover's advice and move the girl along in your direction. Personally, i'd not use the lack of culinary skills of my girlfriend as a yardstick for anything, as long as i can cook my food. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Which soup is ogbonna soup again?i thought Ogbonna is a name. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by ladygogo: 4:40pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
If food is very important to you, cook for the week on weekends, keep in the fridge/freezer and heat up in the microwave whenever you are hungry. Life is good. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
CC, we do free u. Some call it ogbola too Mr Bellong! Where r thou, Coogar is romancing moi here! Topic. Poster, what kind of job gives u no time for urself? Shebi u can visit ur mum regularly? U r a good cook? What stops u from teaching ur woman how to cook? That time u use in visiting ur mum can be shared. Infact, loosen up. U too can make lv in d kitchen while d food is on d fire abi u hvnt tot about that? Its ultimate time for bonding. (What is wrong with pple of nowadays) |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by ladygogo: 4:41pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Lol @Chaircover's Ogbonna soup. i believe yoruba peeps call it Apon or something. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
byvan: Which soup is ogbonna soup again?i thought Ogbonna is a name.Just leave CC alone! She will pounce on u now . |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by coogar: 4:42pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
chaircover: ileoba has been tamed - she's now a very docile wife. she gave her life to Christ. no more juju stuff, just her bible & the sweet songs of solomon. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 4:50pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: I had to go back and read other comments before I realized is an error,i for fear if there is actually ogbonna soup 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by deols(f): 5:43pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
orisirisi wey I dey hear I won't go to the house of somebody I am not married to cook for him..lai lai. I find it more insulting sef that u get to complain on the one who even does the cooking. Berra get a maid bro or cook ya own food. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by babseg(m): 6:26pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
I think op should check himself. He's not alright No girls u ve dated can cook good food but only your mum. I have two advice for you 1. Teach your gf how to cook 2. Or go marry your mum Glutton 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by babseg(m): 6:26pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
I think op should check himself. He's not alright No girls u ve dated can cook good food but only your mum. I have two advice for you 1. Teach your gf how to cook 2. Or go marry your mum Op = Glutton 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 6:35pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
solomon111: I'm a chemical engineer,based in PH and i have a serious issue troubling me. Make I laugh first ! Solo solo ! *continues reading* |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by ladygogo: 6:40pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
deols: orisirisi wey I dey hear Touche!. Why should your girlfriend be cooking for you in the first place.? The OP needs to have no expectations in that regard. Cooking for him should be of her own volition. i.e if she wants to. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 6:40pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
byvan: She said she was cooking ogbonna. It might not be a soup, maybe is a kind of bush meat . Roosted ogbonna |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 6:43pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
OP, so you went home to pack all the food your mummy made for your daddy. You no dey shame ! You can't even make your own food! You dey find woman wey Sabi cook. Anyway I had one ekaette before, she has two kids but Sabi cook wella. You fit try her . With that your big belly, I know say na sh1t sh1t full am. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by coogar: 6:47pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
lady gogo: girlfriends should not cook for their partners? haha? the girlfriend better not expect any christmas gift, easter basket or expensive dinner dates then. the way through a man's heart is through his tummy. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
coogar: I remember when my friend and I went to her bf house, she was supposed to travel but didn't, we now decided to stop her then bf house to eat something. Getting there, she tried to open the door with her keys but the door was opened already. We entered and behold we saw a lady wearing bum short......... To be cont. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Ngokafor(f): 6:55pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
lol!..@op you must be a glutton...see as you dey cry over food...wewewe wetin sef?? ...besides should your girlfriends be cooking for you like seriously?..she is not your maid,wife or mother so whats the wailing all about??...you better go get a cook and stop all these complaints or get married and teach your wife how to cook the way you like it..simple. .. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by ladygogo: 6:58pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
coogar: Boyfriends shouldnt expect their girlfriends to cook for them. The girls should only cook if they want to.(thats if she knows how to cook anyway). Besides, food isnt meant to be cooked in exchange for christmas and Easter gifts. If he is hungry we can go to the nearest fast food joint or mamaput. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by ladygogo: 7:00pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Ngokafor: lol!..@op you must be a glutton...see as you dey cry over food...wewewe wetin sef?? tuale baba! |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by coogar: 7:14pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Chillisauce: well deserved..... if a woman cannot take care of her man, she deserves whatever she gets. even if a child is not well looked after, very soon he would start stealing or begging neighbours for food. if your friend cannot cook, there are millions of chics out there that would do the cooking in their bum-shorts. lady gogo: i expect my girlfriend to care for me. if i am hungry & she can cook very well, then i expect her to cook. relationship is about give & take, caring for each other, etc. if i dunno how good a cook a girl is, how am i supposed to commit the rest of my life to her? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 7:17pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Chillisauce u no well |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 7:18pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Wow...glutton! Quit your job to go work for a catering school. You ve got more problems than your gf nt knowing how to cook....trust me. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by soulglo: 7:21pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Wow. These are girls you are dating. Please get real. I wish you said she had no goals and was constantly asking for money. Some character trait that just showed her to be a bad person. To say you break up with these girls because they cannot cook is actually a blessing in disguise for them. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by ladygogo: 7:25pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
coogar: you can cook up a storm, clean better than mr clean, have sex like porn stars and still get cheated on. The amazing part is being cheated on with someone that isnt as domesticated as the previous chic. So many real life examples abound. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by solomon111(m): 7:32pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Ngokafor: lol!..@op you must be a glutton...see as you dey cry over food...wewewe wetin sef??Gluttony? Are you kidding me? Do you really know the meaning of gluttony? So demanding that the only food i get to eat that day at home after a hard day's job is good makes me gluttonous? It seems you don't realize that it's the ladies that actually consume most of the food and even my money. I hardly spend on my self nowadays. |
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Make una no mind Chilli, spoilt child! It seems poster is the achaic and melancholic type if not,kitchen will turn into bedroom. Poster, which year dem born u? 1960? |
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