rampant:

this r d kind of threads i like ,but its a pity im on my way out,but let me add a few words sha

courtship begins right from d day d girl and d guy made up their mind to start dating each other

sista-jay:

Courtships starts from the moment you decide to become a couple.

Caliente:

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rampant:

this r d kind of threads i like ,but its a pity im on my way out,but let me add a few words sha


courtship begins right from d day d girl and d guy made up their mind to start dating each other

Bleep-NL:

i know say na this kain thread wey u like

come u don infect me with that your disease ooo!!!

jekad Nairaland syndrome!!

davidylan:

What does courtship really mean? I don't see much difference between pre-proposal and post-proposal periods . . . as long as you both were committed to making something out of the relationship in the first place.

IMO, dating is simply friendship between two individuals with the ultimate goal of spending the rest of their lives together.

rubi:

Friendship leads to courtship and courtship leads to marriage I don't really like the word courtship because whenever it is decleared in a relationship each party will become consious of how to behave at least not to offend the other person but when people become friends they relate to each other freely without been consious of themselves and that gives more room to study one another very well

Apparently before proposal what you share in a relationship is friendship and not courtship.

eldee:

Courtship is a totally different stage
Changes with the environment, here in the UK, it's sometimes the 'moving in together' stage
But there's always a spoken commitment . . . and maybe a ring

Hannibal:

I agree with u 100%.
However, so many girls are ready to move in with guys as soon as the relationship hits 5 days. . . . .
You know the drill. . . . .deliberately forgetting personal effects till they eventually move in permanently.
I don't think girls in the UK worry about courtship after proposal or pre-proposal. Anything goes on this island.

eldee:

Those cases are difficult ooh
Especially when they hear the question 'Your apartment or mine?', they think it's a proposal
The next day, you see them asking to use the washing machine . . .
The most annoying part is when they start cooking . . . no win situation

Thank goodness UK chics don't care bout all those things . . . An I love you call will do

Chat2MeBac:

Eldee and Hannibal, both y'all sharappppp, ,

Why even bother having her over for a shag if you "don't" have intentions of courting her?
Gosh! I just hope the girls here are reading and taking note jare,
That's why I have put my "personal effects" under heavy lock and key, Listening to all this rantings have made me decide to marry by the time I am 50, Atleast Me and my husband will be too old to even be thinking about courship, We will just "jump" right into it,

Hannibal:

Why must everything lead to courtship?? I mean, can't a man and a woman meet up and just forget about any sorta attachment??
Putting your "personal effects" under lock and key won't help you. . . . .You need to pull em out so Zing can chew a little bit.

Chat2MeBac:

You see, everything doesnt have to lead to that, NO NO, But let your intentions be known. If you know it's just supposed to be a friendship, NO strings attached, then be upfront. Don't lead anyone's daughter, sister, aunty, niece et al on, knowing you aren't serious,

PS, Let Zing chew them, Atleast I know his intentions meant well

Hannibal:

Let ma intentions be known??
You expect me to walk up to a girl and tell her i want to shag her brains out. . . . .no strings attached?? They don't want to hear the TRUTH!!!
The mentality is screwed. . . . .u ask em for a date and they are already hearing wedding bells and seeing confetti.
So why not go through the back door and nick what u want. . . . .
The methods don't have to be conventional. . . . as long as the job is done.

Chat2MeBac:

May the good Lord help Us al, and forgive you in the process, He who knoweth the way and doeth not shall be beaten with many stripes. Thank God, in time I will have 2 sons( via IVF), and i will endeavour to ensure that they grow up to be all they can be, I will make sure they don't go around misusing and abusing pples daughters,

Yea you ask for date, and nothing is wrong with that, But it's what you tell them on the date that makes the difference, Most men will go around filling ladies heads with stories, One day shall be judgement.And we shall all reap what we have sown . . . . .  

Hannibal:

Is this Rev. Jesse Jackson speaking??
Are u aware every step we both make is consensual from the word GO??
What makes me guilty while she is innocent?? Please. . . .preach equal right n justice.

You are having 2 sons via IVF?? Holy Moses.
The folks in Vincy must hear about this.
Is this some sorta PLAN B?

Chat2MeBac:

Rev. Jackson ke?
You guys (pataki included) go around "phishing" as if it were going out of style. I pray my sons grow up to set examples and don' look at every dress tail or pant hem that go by .

It's ok, even on my tiny islands ladies are opting for IVF, It's pregnancy, and later parenthood, without the headache, , And every woman deserves to have a Plan B, After reading all the rants here, I wonder why ladies even bother opening up their precious legs,

Hannibal:

Oestrogen is a killer. . . . . .No matter how ladies try to lock it, they still find it opening voluntarily.

Chat2MeBac:

Ok then, I am asking my GYN to prescribe testosorone for me then .
Thank God my legs are on permanent lock-down, ONLY Jesus can unlock them, Amen to that,