My ex boyfriend of 4 nd half years cald me 5days back after breakn up with in August and was asking why i never contacted him for so long,why i neva tld him i was going 4 Nysc and i told him, i had no business with him dats why i didnt cal.To be sincere with u guys i stil luv him deep down in my heart even though he hurt me so bad,pls wat do i do cos i cant think straight

why did you break up with him the first place.What were the issues that made you break up and what has changed?You need to evaluate these things before deciding on what next to do.

You said he just called you,was it to apologize or just to chat you up?Was he trying to reconcile?Why didn't he contact you all these while?

If you can answer these questions, then it will help you decide on what next.

thorpido: why did you break up with him the first place.What were the issues that made you break up and what has changed?You need to evaluate these things before deciding on what next to do.

You said he just called you,was it to apologize or just to chat you up?Was he trying to reconcile?Why didn't he contact you all these while?

If you can answer these questions, then it will help you decide on what next.

Seconded

thorpido: why did you break up with him the first place.What were the issues that made you break up and what has changed?You need to evaluate these things before deciding on what next to do.

You said he just called you,was it to apologize or just to chat you up?Was he trying to reconcile?Why didn't he contact you all these while?

If you can answer these questions, then it will help you decide on what next.

He was cheating on me with a foreigner in Germany i think he wanted 2 dupe her bt neva wanted me 2 knw wat he was doing?4rm his tone i think he wants 2 apologize bt i was sounding harsh,he didnt believe i could ignore him 4 so long.i tink d words i told him b4 we broke up was 'Go to hell,i can do without u' nd i guess he didnt expect 2 hear something like dat 4rm me,maybe dats y he thought i wld cal like i do at times.

For all you know, he is just saying hello or he has too much airtime and trying and he does not know who to call

Don't let infatuation becloud you,he wouldn't have left you that long if he really cares about you.

doris4u: He was cheating on me with a foreigner in Germany i think he wanted 2 dupe her bt neva wanted me 2 knw wat he was doing?4rm his tone i think he wants 2 apologize bt i was sounding harsh,he didnt believe i could ignore him 4 so long.i tink d words i told him b4 we broke up was 'Go to hell,i can do without u' nd i guess he didnt expect 2 hear something like dat 4rm me,maybe dats y he thought i wld cal like i do at times.

From what you said(i checked your profile too and saw your other topic),i really think you should have moved on.

You say you are serving right?Get to meet new people,work on your self-esteem and life will be better.

Your guy seems like a guy who will keep cheating.

YOU RE NT SURE IF HE WANTS YOU BACK OR NOT..SO JUST STAY BACK ND LETS SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN NEXT HE CALLS.

thorpido: From what you said(i checked your profile too and saw your other topic),i really think you should have moved on.

You say you are serving right?Get to meet new people,work on your self-esteem and life will be better.

Your guy seems like a guy who will keep cheating.

Thnx man