confirmed25: I came to the wrong city in America. You won't believe it I am yet to find a decent girlfriend. When I mean decent, i mean wife material. A black Slender,busty,bummy, educated and middle class girl will be perfect for me. A oyibo babe with such features will be ok. However,I find the oyibo babes here to be unfriendly. The friendly ones are obese and overweight. In addition they are bumless and unsexy looking. Indeed they are unfriendly. They are afraid of black males. Some of my friends will just go on and say they are racist. However, the history of blacks in this city makes the oyibo folks to be unfriendly and aloof to black folks. The city has a high population of poor African Americans. High crime rate is also associated with the black folks too. Every evening news bulletin has a the picture of a young black criminal beaming. Black girls that fit my taste are very rare. The ones I think are good for me, are always already taken,married or in a relationship.Like I said most of the black people in this city are poor.Ghetto. Unfortunately for me, most of the black Slender,busty and bummy girls are not educated. I see them in the club and other areas. They have low wage paying jobs. Janitors and caregivers. Most of them are alcoholics and drug users.The educated ones aren't that beautiful either. It is like it was designed that only the not too beautiful, overweight and pimple faced black girls are to be educated. While the slender and sexy ones prefer to be baby mammas to the city thugs and jobless black brothers. If not for my contractual agreement tying me up in this city I would have run away a long time ago. Nigerian brothers that have experienced this kind of city, please advise a brother on how to wade through this situation.

okpara ugo: Yeah the poor girls are beautiful while the rich ones are ugly. Even in Nigeria...you hardly have both...

So make a choice...

khiaa:

Why are you looking for women in nite clubs and how do you know the women are alcoholics and drug users without getting to know them? I think my black sistas may not be attracted to you. I think you should try harder for the white girls, they may be more suitable for you since you find so much wrong in the black women you meet. Don't give up on the white girls because all of them can't be racist. Trust me, there are alot of white girls who would love to have an african man like you, besides your whole post is nothing but stereotypes against african americans. Why don't you look for nigerian girls or are they not decent also?

Mrs.Chima:
Why do some Africans claim to come from better environments always ends up in. bleeped up placez abroad?

I live in America and my area is nothing like OP described and it's strongly minority non-white area.

I guess you attracts what you are.

jeffizy: Hehehe...
@Op, You got served! Unfortunately, you got it cold.
Check the local churches, you will find them waiting with a Godly smile.

BTW .. Are you in Philadelphia or Cheyenne?

Be like Johnnie.... Keep walking!

190: have you tried some nairaland yankee babes around here


like ermmm . . . babe

CastingCrowns: city dont have a name?

Am not in philadelphia. Churches are
even worse here. Only old people go
to churches here. The few decent
girls there are married.

kajole: Pictures please

jeffizy:
Baba, seems u need a companion real bad.
Since u are in N.Y, u have to stretch a bit by getting into NYC once in a while.
Our girls full there like sand.

confirmed25:

NYC is 4-6 hours from me. I wouldn't want to be commuting because of babe.

khiaa:

You are egotistical and lazy, and just because you are educated doesn't mean you are a decent man. You are what we call in the black community, an educated fool.

confirmed25: Mind your language sister. I prefer not to drive 4-6 hours searching for babe.How is that laziness? How am I an educated fool? please stop hating unnecessarily ok.

confirmed25: Somewhere in the damned state of new york. It is no new york city.

khiaa:

#1 I explained to you the educated fool statement.

#2 That post was directed to all your posts not just the distance post.

#3 I am not a hater.

#4 I'm beginning to think your story is fake.

#5 My language is fine.

#6 I called you lazy because you would rather blame your problems on all the women in your city( egotistical ) rather than to work on yourself ( laziness).





#7 I think you are a girl.

confirmed25: it is not about the poor being beautiful and the rich ugly. Re read my first post.It is the damned city.I have lived in other places in the US, and they are not like this place.I feel like running away. I wasn't looking for girls in nite clubs. I just stated an observation.I am a decent, up and coming educated young man. I doubt the problem is me. There is just no pool to choose from.

khiaa:

You are egotistical and lazy, and just because you are educated doesn't mean you are a decent man. You are what we call in the black community, an educated fool. The reason I say you are this is because you blame your problems on a whole city when the real problem is you. A decent respectable man can find a decent respectable woman wherever he lives. Stop blaming the city and take the late great michael jackson advice and start with the man in the mirror.

Lucasbalo: Which city are u talking about ?. I live in Chicago and its multiracial city and to me , its the best big city in U S. If u cant find a decent girlfriend, u have to look at urself. U might be the problem.

mayapop: What about akata girls?