iceberylin:
Cause

Cholls:
My brother if your babe no gree for your guys no mean say she no go agree if she meet me

Aprime:
You're right but still I wouldn't encourage my Hommies or anyone to bombard my girl with wooing lines.

I mean lets be realistic. We all know girls are complicated. They can love you, really love you one minute, but next minute they'd go ahead and do something stupid.

Now isn't not like I don't trust my girl or I'm afraid of what the outcome would be, nope. It's more like I'm protecting her and it's only unfair to lead her into temptation.

englishmart:
if you sleep with my woman, someone will sleep with your woman. Karma says so

ayukdaboss:


Your decision bro..but inside you you'll accept that there's an iota of fear about the outcome That's what makes me different from you...I'm always realistic.

Aprime:


It's not fear joor, it's confidence and trust.

And Oh, We're on the same wavelength of being realistic.
Because yes, If your woman loves you, she will only love you. But that doesn't mean she wouldn't be attracted to other “options”.

ayukdaboss:

There's always room for her to admire other options alright but when she "accepts " the advances of those options, she's on another page.

Aprime:


Exactly. And True.

So what if she flirts back but doesn't accept, is that on another page because I'm thinking so hard right now.

ayukdaboss:

I'll advice you stop thinking hard before you start getting paranoid about your girl's faithfulness

englishmart:
if you sleep with my woman, someone will sleep with your woman. Karma says so

ERCROSS:


Karma kor , karim ni..
So, u still dey rely on karma wen ur fist can do the job

Mprex:
*yawns*
let your friend keep on wooing and fvc.king your girlfriend while you are there forming james bond
*yawns again*

ayukdaboss:
There's a looming attitude of guy's getting angry with their hommies when they admire their 'babes' with pickup lines and some indirect wooing techniques especially if she's a very attractive lady.

While I don't exonerate the actions of our friends (guys), I personally think it's a good development. Why?

I'm a realistic person and I have this believe that if my lady can fall for any guys "wooing techniques", then she doesn't have genuine love for me so I never ever discourage my friends/other guys from trying. I mean why should I? Aren't guys supposed to be confident that their women won't fall for any other guys "antics"?

A friend once asked me, "What if I wooed your girl without your knowledge and she agreed? And I gave him a simple reply "If you're able to woo my babe, then I'll give you a pat on the back because you've just saved me from wasting my time claiming I'm in a relationship.

You might think I have a weird reasoning but it's all about being realistic.

If my woman claims she loves me, I won't even discourage Trey Songz from trying to woo her because I'm supposed to be confident she'd decline right?

So guys, try encouraging your hommies/other guys to attempt wooing your babe. The outcome of it all determines if you're either in a "one chance" relationship or a genuine one. Peace

TheSonOfMark:
[b] I'LL TELL YOU A STORY, MY STORY: When I was 17 in 2008, I did something that I consider silly in retrospect.
A friendly acquaintance who was in his early 20's then, in the course of a discussion/ argument about females, threw a challenge to the guys (8 of us) that none could woo his girlfriend then, successfully...and ofcourse, the claims and counter-claims rented the air.

His said girlfriend worked as a stylist in my aunt's beauty salon and it was common knowledge that both were an item...and she was 20 then. Prior to the challenge, she had always complimented my looks and the fact that I'm hairy but a relatively inexperienced teen that I was, I didn't act on it.
Summary is: the dude travelled for a while and she regularly visited our family house and flirted with me even in my room. We ended up getting in between the sheets several times.
At some point it became public knowledge that we were an item - subtle stolen kisses and body contact gave us away.
Word got to her supposed boyfriend that she was cheating with ME - the youngest guy in the group that day. He broke up with her but we continued our thing until I got admitted into the university...
She got married to someone else last year though.


When asked by some guys why and how I 'snatched' Andy's (his name) girlfriend, I justified it by replying that I was just taking up his challenge just so he'll learn and also never underestimate a younger person...although, along the line, what the girl and I had became more of a friends-with-several-benefits thingy.
Nostalgia...Now I'm a grown male.[/b]

Jarizod:
my dear u ate deceiving yasef..ur frnds will not only woo her buh also fvck d sh.t outta ha

BreezyRita:
Just so you know, that she accepts your friend doesn't mean she doesn't love you. It could be something else. Maybe attraction. And that she doesnt accept him doesn't naen she won't accept someone else....
Stop tempting your woman. She's not Job. Let things play out..