Did u mean to say that they married at the age of 16 and 19, if they said the woman 46 and the man 49 and the marriage is 30.

Why the rush to commit suiside. She only needed to call off that other relationship, and try to make her marriage work, at least for the sake of her children. What a wasted life!

demelza: You cannot fault Naija women for being sharp, its resident in our genes.
@topic, 30yrs of marriage just fell apart because of a harmless dinner.

Are you sure it was only a DiNNER?

Nothing is worth cheating on my wife...I wonder why they hell she did that! I won't say RIP sha - she could not live with the guilt I guess.

the fear of beating is the cause of suicide

Doing 'in' and 'out' is very norm on an oyibo date and i tell you when an oyibo tells you she wants to do something again... be sure that the full works were well served out !

Very, very few remain completely loyal to one person for the lifetime of any marriage.
The simple, irrefutable truth is that man was NOT meant to be monogamous.
In our society we bypass things to a certain extent by being allowed more than one wife.
You look at it really closely and it beggars belief that western society actually allows you only ONE in such a vast sea of beauty, sexiness, category and more. Hence their high rate of cheating and divorce.

It may sound cheesy, naive or clichéd but VARIETY IS indeed THE SPICE OF LIFE.
I feel for the husband and family, though. While not wanting to speak ill of the dead, committing suicide was extremely selfish of the woman.
If you are going to cheat on your partner then I warn you to be ready to man (or woman) up and face the consequences. You will neither be the first nor the last to do it.

mehn police na police oo weda foreigh or local

The husband killed her and staged it to look like suicide.

sometimes in d heat of quarrels in naija...ur wife may tell u d kids ain't yours....

demelza: You cannot fault Naija women for being sharp, its resident in our genes.
@topic, 30yrs of marriage just fell apart because of a harmless dinner.

You call it harmless. Do you know the psychological effects on the man? It's a betrayal of trust

Sh is a Bleep about don't be deceived the woman got the full works and was hoping to geting even more just that she was caught thanks to th network carrier , the engineroom operator I guess could be carryng a loaded and well oiled AK49 her message indicate she was well serviced !!!

Lets assume dis one happen for naija,the woman,if i hear she commit suicide,well hope the police woman arrive where she go after death when dem dey eat,cos if she miss am,na sleeping with hunger tinz be that no doubt.

Affair? With that thing?

Desperation tinzs.

yousee:

Abi! My question: what if the message mix up didn't happen?

they would have continued having their fun as usual and there will be no remorse.

Marriage is a sacred act,those vows one takes shouldn't be played with,there are devils in human skin which u don't give a chance to enter your life cos they will break what you have been building in a jiffy,she has gone,de guy in question still lives and her family are lost in pain...all for lack of self-control.was all that worth it in the long run.for the comment on naija babes being sharp is so silly cos its not smtin to pride abt when u cheat on your husband cos it shows we are forgetting our virtues and think its a trend...nah its madness.

DanNafada: Very, very few remain completely loyal to one person for the lifetime of any marriage.
The simple, irrefutable truth is that man was NOT meant to be monogamous.
In our society we bypass things to a certain extent by being allowed more than one wife.
You look at it really closely and it beggars belief that western society actually allows you only ONE in such a vast sea of beauty, sexiness, category and more. Hence their high rate of cheating and divorce.

It may sound cheesy, naive or clichéd but VARIETY IS indeed THE SPICE OF LIFE.
I feel for the husband and family, though. While not wanting to speak ill of the dead, committing suicide was extremely selfish of the woman.
If you are going to cheat on your partner then I warn you to be ready to man (or woman) up and face the consequences. You will neither be the first nor the last to do it.

Shame!

She did d worst thing by committing suicide. Imagine if she had not committed suicide nd resorted in solving d issues with d husband, d news of her infidelity wouldn't av been publicized like dis. Everybody now knows she died because of infidelity, dis Oyinbos self no dey think like "homo sapien".

maasoap: In other words, you mean the husband didn't have right to be angry in the first place. You thought she committed suicide because the husband was angry. No. She committed suicide not because she cheated but because the husband found out. She went too far. Don't blame the husband, such things would naturally take some time before one forgive and forget.

I agree, you are right.

problems with text messages

No need saying RIP.. She's going to hell..

2 bad 2 bad

Sweet Gobe!

The message clearly shows that she enjoyed whatever she did with her lover, and wished they did it more often. She was having an affair outside marriage.

The only reason she pretended to be sorry was because her husband found out. She didn't love him anymore, thats the more reason why she committed suicide, she couldn't take the embarrassment and her public image. She was a policeman and had a strong heart, she shouldn't have committed suicide, she should have lived for the husband if she loved him.
many families pass through this and still move ahead.
So this woman is going straight to hell.

sandijey:

Shame!

I am sorry it appears shameful to you.
That does not make it in the least less true.
And you know that.

Mynd_44:
Cheating goes beyond intimacy. It is the thought behind the dinner. Read the contents of the text and you will see that she wanted to do it again. Which is why the husband was so angry and she was depressed

That was it. She was caught in the acts. If not that she sent the text wrongly to her husband, she would still be enjoying herself without her husband knowing. Anyway, it was her over happiness that gave her away, and she felt ashamed of it. And who knows, maybe the guy in question was her daughters age......

RIP to the dead though.

alpha conde: problems with text messages

Noooooo; problems with text messages SENDER. Read your text messages, and check the name of the recipient, and re-check again (in the case of cheating) before you press that send messages button. This ia a vital lesson for the cheaters.

Maybe she arrested immigrant dat place curses on her PC

Wetin concern me?!

Get ur Etisalat bis working on ur android now!

Good riddance! One less cheating wifey.