Ken_Jak: In this case,you dont have to lie at all,you have to be completely sincere. Go to her parents to explain everything and if possible,meet with the lady to explain and if compulsory/needed,you can swear for her.

Renylee: The trouble of social networks. U r about to get married and u still engage in silly chats? R u supposed to be matured or what? Guy, u av to be patient, she'll come around if she truly loves u.

Enoquin: This technology/social media era has really released inhibitions.
There comes a time when one decides not to get distracted any longer, the only problem is there is no particular age when one decides that's why you see old men still behave like young men.

Pls OP that last statement is merely one of reflection. The thing to be understood is this, just as you hit on other women, other men hit on your woman. Although this is almost the same thing it is not because why the onus lies on the woman not to give in, it lies on the man not to ask in the first place.

Imagine that anger and betrayal you would feel, if you saw flirty chats on her laptop. Your mind would have put up many crazy scenarios and there will be this itch to look up her phone too to know how many more hidden mysteries abide there. That is the same way she feels. She is thinking how many unclad pics you might have seen and how far you have truly gone.

You are in luck though, most women cannot stay angry too long at the ones they 'love' or better still are fond of. So, it's not closing your accounts on all social media that matters, it is having those accounts and not doing 'kurukere' that matters.

Give her some time like 3 days but in those 3 days send her messages. Not long mushy messages but short ones. For example, you can send 'Babe, I am so sorry' in the morning. 'Have you had lunch? Love you' in the afternoon. 'Miss you. My day was boring. Goodnight' and bla bla...
(, forgive me I am not romantic, so insert your lovey dovey words)

Don't let anyone tell you different, for a relationship to succeed, one person alternatively has to play the fool. Resentment only comes in, when only one person plays the fool all the time.

Networkmaster: I will go straight to the point.

By the end of this month we are scheduled to get married ( Court Wedding ).
Two days ago i left my laptop with my lady to do some of her personal work
and i forgot i didn't sign-out of Facebook and Skype.

Unfortunately for me, she went through my messages and chats.
She found out i have been having some online stupid flirts with some ladies.

These ladies are far away from us in different countries. Some i have meet before and never had
anything with them. One was my ex-girlfriend in South Africa and we still communicate till date
even though we both know their is nothing more between us, but we just remained friends online.

One is in the-same country with us but i have never had anything with her but from my chats with her
i have been trying to convince her to fall for my evil mind.

My girl read every single messages on my Facebook and choose to save them all.

[size=38pt]She has called off the wedding plan for December and has moved all her belongings out of my house yesterday b4 i arrived from work[/size].

I am so much in love with her and still want to marry her. I have pleaded with her for forgiveness but she wouldn't listen.

She said she has lost all the trust she has for me. I have closed down my Facebook account this morning.

My dear Nairalanders, I am so confused and don't know what else to say or do.

How long does it take a lady to forgive a man in such cases? can i ever win back her trust? will she ever come back to me?
My sister is her good friend and she has spoken to my lady but she told my sister, it will take her sometime but she didn't
assure her anything.

Please people, what else can i say or do to get back my lady. NOTE: I never slept with these ladies, except my ex girlfriend whom
she knows about and that was two years ago. Please advice, you can aLl call me all the hard names like she has been doing since yesterday but
all i want is to get my lady back.

Ehen move all your belongings from your house into her place since na belongings be the issue

190:


Ehen move all your belongings from your house into her place since na belongings be the issue

Networkmaster:
e problems
I am so scared and even ashame to meet her mum, i don't want them to know i have problems with her, not yet.
I am hoping she wouldn't tell them. She promised she is just going to brief them we have problems and won't tell it in details.

Her parents trust and love me. I am just so sorry for my evil act, i pray she have a change of mind.

Love_Decay: All this wahala for wife.

OP. Use ur head to think, think very hard.

Are you thinking ? This is a mind game. That babe also has cockroaches in her cupboard.

You need to retreat before you make a complete fool of yourself. You've started already.

Haba, chicks online in another country and she knows about one of them.

How many of her ex.boyfriends do you know about?
Is this how you guys plan to practice that temporary elation called love.

Any kpakam, nah war. Can't women pull themselves together, dialogue first and if they are not satisfied with the results , take another step.

Call of wedding and this man, is screaming like he lists his lifesaving in a gambling bet.

Am sorry to say. Mr.man _ u are a wuss and might find it difficult to manage the affairs your home.

Think. Think. Think

SLIDE waxie: Lemme be mynd_44 for a minute:

Accepting the fact that u are wrong is a good one, but:
Move on with ur life. At least u've satisfied ur conscience by begging, and if she won't listen, that goes to show the type of beast that she is.

She is not worth a wife.

Move on. It doesn't seem like she's the only lady around

Okay, that beiing said, i'll like to be sexkillz:

My friend, u are a goat! If u say u 'love' her, u won't be having other 'female' friends around. Is she not enuff for u!

i'm glad she dumped ur sorry asss.

Now, lemme be 190:

Give me her number and let me beg her for u. But she must agree to come visit me and we settle it in the bedroom.


Lastly, lemme be SLiDE waxie:

What were u saying?

SLIDE waxie: Lemme be mynd_44 for a minute:

Accepting the fact that u are wrong is a good one, but:
Move on with ur life. At least u've satisfied ur conscience by begging, and if she won't listen, that goes to show the type of beast that she is.

She is not worth a wife.

Move on. It doesn't seem like she's the only lady around

Okay, that beiing said, i'll like to be sexkillz:

My friend, u are a goat! If u say u 'love' her, u won't be having other 'female' friends around. Is she not enuff for u!

i'm glad she dumped ur sorry asss.

Now, lemme be 190:

Give me her number and let me beg her for u. But she must agree to come visit me and we settle it in the bedroom.


Lastly, lemme be SLiDE waxie:

What were u saying?

Love_Decay: All this wahala for wife.

OP. Use ur head to think, think very hard.

Are you thinking ? This is a mind game. That babe also has cockroaches in her cupboard.

You need to retreat before you make a complete fool of yourself. You've started already.

Haba, chicks online in another country and she knows about one of them.

How many of her ex.boyfriends do you know about?
Is this how you guys plan to practice that temporary elation called love.

Any kpakam, nah war. Can't women pull themselves together, dialogue first and if they are not satisfied with the results , take another step.

Call of wedding and this man, is screaming like he lists his lifesaving in a gambling bet.

Am sorry to say. Mr.man _ u are a wuss and might find it difficult to manage the affairs your home.

Think. Think. Think

Love_Decay: All this wahala for wife.

OP. Use ur head to think, think very hard.

Are you thinking ? This is a mind game. That babe also has cockroaches in her cupboard.

You need to retreat before you make a complete fool of yourself. You've started already.

Haba, chicks online in another country and she knows about one of them.

How many of her ex.boyfriends do you know about?
Is this how you guys plan to practice that temporary elation called love.

Any kpakam, nah war. Can't women pull themselves together, dialogue first and if they are not satisfied with the results , take another step.

Call of wedding and this man, is screaming like he lists his lifesaving in a gambling bet.

Am sorry to say. Mr.man _ u are a wuss and might find it difficult to manage the affairs your home.

Think. Think. Think

Love_Decay: All this wahala for wife.

OP. Use ur head to think, think very hard.

Are you thinking ? This is a mind game. That babe also has cockroaches in her cupboard.

You need to retreat before you make a complete fool of yourself. You've started already.

Haba, chicks online in another country and she knows about one of them.

How many of her ex.boyfriends do you know about?
Is this how you guys plan to practice that temporary elation called love.

Any kpakam, nah war. Can't women pull themselves together, dialogue first and if they are not satisfied with the results , take another step.

Call of wedding and this man, is screaming like he lists his lifesaving in a gambling bet.

Am sorry to say. Mr.man _ u are a wuss and might find it difficult to manage the affairs your home.

Think. Think. Think

Yield: ^LOL, good job. I can totally see all of them giving those responses. But you forgot 190's ever-present red font.

Networkmaster:

Note that dear, i am tryign to let u knw how serious it is. She moved all her things out. If really want to give me a chance she would have just taken a brake and not take all her things with her. Don't u get it?