There's this issue bothering my mind and i wanna throw it open. Have seen couples mostly after building their own house share different bedrooms, and i wonder y?
Can you and your husband/wife share the same room in your house or not?

I thought you shd be asking 'Can you not share wt your wife or hubby'
Well, if you can't you shdnt be married.

Can someone pls define 'marriage'?

@Op: You need to rephrase this your question to make a better meaning; for now, I'm out.

I must definitely have my own room.I hate the idea of waking up in the morning to see my husband curled like a milipede at one edge of the bed.I rather have my own room but visits his own room.

twogood: I thought you shd be asking 'Can you not share wt your wife or hubby'
Well, if you can't you shdnt be married.

Can someone pls define 'marriage'?

Marriage can be defined as sharing the same bedroom with your husband or wife.

Sometimes there're legit reasons why people maintain their own his or hers during marriage., eg. their own diet due to health reasons. But that's often temporary and of course, unwanted. Other people're merely confused; they're married, yet refuse to become a "we".

Gab-real:
Marriage can be defined as sharing the same bedroom with your husband or wife.

em, try again

Yield: Sometimes there're legit reasons why people maintain their own his or hers during marriage., eg. their own diet due to health reasons. But that's often temporary and of course, unwanted. Other people're merely confused; they're married, yet refuse to become a "we".

Care to expanciate further?

Why won't i share a room with my spouse? If i could share a room with my friends, why not my wife. If i could share a room with any of my family members, then why not my wife.
It's ridiculous for such to happen. We won't move around town as one during the day only to become two in the night.
No wonder a wise man said, 'many couples no longer live as husband and wife but as co tenants sharing the same roof.

Why not?

Why wouldn't you?
Even if you build a 10 bedroom house,
There is a reason why you are husband and wife and it is a marriage.
Dats all.

Eesha: I might have have a separate room from my hubby in the case we have excess space but I'll ALWAYS sleep in his room, or him in mine.

Comin 4rm a woman, i'll say i don get wetin i wan confirm

lynpetra: I must definitely have my own room.I hate the idea of waking up in the morning to see my husband curled like a milipede at one edge of the bed.I rather have my own room but visits his own room.

VISITS your husband bedroom, tot ure nau one

twogood: I thought you shd be asking 'Can you not share wt your wife or hubby'
Well, if you can't you shdnt be married.

Can someone pls define 'marriage'?

Joinin of two or more individuals

Bigsteveg:
VISITS your husband bedroom, tot ure nau one

Sometimes I have mood swings and prefer to stay alone.I think I wud prefer my own personal room,even if I still share my husband's room.

lynpetra: Sometimes I have mood swings and prefer to stay alone.I think I wud prefer my own personal room,even if I still share my husband's room.

Now I disengage U officially, since U have mood swings most times, *chai, U sure sey I fit do am cus na hot babe be this o!*

lynpetra: I must definitely have my own room.I hate the idea of waking up in the morning to see my husband curled like a milipede at one edge of the bed..

I Want To Believe You Were Hung Upside Down When You Typed This Part Of Your Post . Prolly You Weren't Thinking Straight!

lynpetra: Sometimes I have mood swings and prefer to stay alone.I think I wud prefer my own personal room,even if I still share my husband's room.

remind me again why u wanna b married?

No matter the kind of mood swing u have is it not enough reaason to want a separate bedroom? Doesn't seem logical to me @ all
The moment u get married things like personal space are no more,cos in church you re joined 2gether as one,right?

Dygeasy: I Want To Believe You Were Hung Upside Down When You Typed This Part Of Your Post . Prolly You Weren't Thinking Straight!

her post really made my eyes pop

;DTrue talk.she was hung upside down

vocalprince: Now Idisengage U officially, since U have mood swings most times, *chai, U sure sey I fit do am cus na hot babe be this o!*

Lol.Well it is not most of d time.

cdamsel: remind me again why u wanna b married?

No matter the kind of mood swing u have is it not enough reaason to want a separate bedroom? Doesn't seem logical to me @ all
The moment u get married things like personal space are no more,cos in church you re joined 2gether as one,right?

I deal with my mood swings alone.Family and friends understands and knows when to back out and let me be.As long as itdoesn't stop me from performing my wifey duties,and long as my husband is okay with me keeping a seperate room.PERIOD!

We must share one master bedroom.
I want a companion as a wife and not a secretary.

Dygeasy: If Calling You Same Would Translate To Calling You A B*tch, I Think I'll Pass.

That's A Female Dog!

let it go ok

i can never share a room wiv my husband..i cld sleep in his tho,bt dat wld b it

^ ^ ^
you too? Why would that be?

lynpetra: YOU ARE STILL A BINGO.EKUWKE!

Point Made. Swerve Please

pweetixandy: i can never share a room wiv my husband..i cld sleep in his tho,bt dat wld b it

Thank u for speaking ur mind jare.Some Pple think say marriage na rice and beans with gbegiri served with big stout.

No matter how sweet ur marriage,there wud be arguments once in a while.Sometimes even your husband needs a little space whenever he needs to fight his own demons,after which you wud sit him down and ask him wat is going on.There are times when you just want ur kids to leave you the hell alone to think clearly.

I am not saying I wudnt share my husband's bed,I just need a personal room.The day e make me vex I enter my room go sleep,if I wake up in d middle of the night with a cool head,I go back and join him.