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If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he
didn't know and make out with her almost immediately, it
can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem
like it's magical or out of reach - a special ability or
super-power that someone is born with.
But it's not. And it can be broken down into a few simple
steps you can follow in order to make the same thing
happen for you. In this article, I'm going to break down
those steps.
The first step is to realize that about 90% of the
difference between someone who's really good with women
and someone who's not so good or mediocre with women, is
the ability to spot a woman who's ready to make out.
I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it's true. If
you walk into a bar and go up to any woman without
knowing what signs to look for, your odds of success go
WAY down.
You must know how to spot that woman who's already in
this "make-out ready" state, so you can walk up and be
"that guy."
Don't buy into the myth that women don't want this to
happen.
Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are.
Most of the time, this "turbo" make-out session never
happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And
when this doesn't happen, the girls end up going home alone
or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the
bar/being resentful and angry because no one's
approaching them.
There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in
a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready
for an instant make-out session.
What To Look For
The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a
woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions.
Let me explain... When we look in different directions, we
access different parts of our brain. These are called "Eye
Accessing Cues." When a woman is in a bar setting and
looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain.
If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back
up again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you
looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she tilts her
head down as well (and doesn't just use her eyes to look
down), she's physically dropping herself a little bit lower
and showing submission.
This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant
man.
Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn't look away, this
could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she's
meeting you head on, and not showing immediate
submission.
Women who you're going to be able to walk up to and make
out with in 40 seconds or less should automatically take
the submissive role as a woman. That's one quality which
shows you'll be able to quickly make out with her.
Another quality is that she's actively looking around to
make eye contact. This is crucial. So instead, if you see a
woman who is in a conversation but she's constantly
looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot
of people, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity
for you and that's a woman you can walk up to and
immediately become sexual with.
Other traits are revealed in the way they're moving and
how they're dressed. Let's say she's standing with her
feet about shoulder-width apart. It's less likely that a
woman standing like this is going to be available for you to
walk up and dominate. That's because she's standing in a
dominant position, with stronger body language and she'll
probably be a lot more resistant.
Instead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space.
She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside
of a group, looking around a little bit.
Another thing is the way she's dressed. If she's dressed in
a way that's super flashy and attracting lots of attention,
she probably isn't the kind of girl you can walk up to and
make out with in 40 seconds.
This kind of women is looking for attention - not for
someone to dominate them. What you want is someone
who's in between "I don't care" and "Stare at my ****,
*****!" Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with an
elastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really
beautiful and sexy with a really low-cut shirt. You want to
find someone who's in between those two extremes.
A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm.
They don't want to over dress or under dress, and don't
know how the bar atmosphere is going to be. They'll usually
come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to
make connections. This is an excellent situation for you
(and her, of course).
That's what to look for and how you spot her in the first
place. If you see some of those, you want to watch her for
a second. If you think that she is the kind of person you
can walk up to and do this, then proceed.If not, I'd
actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what
happens.
Signs That It's Working
Is she looking at your lips? If she's looking at your lips,
you have a green light to go forward. If she's looking at
your eyes, you may want to wait a second, or turn around
and turn back again and try it again.
This resets the meter in her mind, so to speak. When you
turn around and turn back again, most people consider this
to be a fresh start in a conversation. It's a strange loop-
hole in psychology.
For some reason, that's how we are as humans. When
someone turns away then turns back, we give them another
chance moving forward. So if you're getting some
resistance, turn around, turn back, smile, and continue. If
she gives you resistance again, you probably should back
off and find another woman.
If she's looking at your lips and seems to be very
comfortable and excited, then proceed. You'll move in very
closely and speak almost directly into her ear.
!Important!
In a loud environment like a bar, you'll want to speak
louder, but don't raise your voice. Make your voice very
low so that you have to be very, very close to her ear for
her to hear.
Then you're going to keep talking... What I usually say is,
"No one is going to see this. It's just going to be our little
secret. I promise I won't tell anybody only if you promise
that you won't tell anybody either."
As I'm saying this into her ear, I make sure that she's
feeling my breath on her neck. So I'm sort of breathing
out a little bit more than normal as I'm speaking so she
can feel that hot air on her neck.
This usually gets a very visceral, deep, sexual response
from women when you do this.
As you're speaking really close to her ear, you'll, very
slowly, press your cheek against hers as you're talking.
Then you'll move you head over so that your mouth is
closer to hers, and then... you'll start kissing her.
And if you do this right, you start out with just one soft
peck... then go straight into making out. It may not seem
like it in this description, but 40 seconds is a long time.
This process can happen in a lot less than 40 seconds -
I've done it in less time, and I've seen other guys do it,
too.
You must read "The Tao Of Bad ***" by Joshua Pellicer.

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*In elvon Jarret's voice*

Rubbish. Absolutely rubbish!