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Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by ojjp: 4:58pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
Some past could be so dirty and irritating. Is it really necessary to tell your fiance/fiancee about your dirty past? |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by DavidKissinger(m): 5:12pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
Some would say "some things are better left unsaid" but if I intend making it a long term relationship, Then Yes, I deserve to know because they would always pop up in future. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by ojjp: 5:56pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
David_Kissinger: Some would "some things are better left unsaid" but if I intend making it a long term relationship, Then Yes, I deserve to know because they would always pop up in future.wht if u knw sayin it might cause break up? |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
If it'sapadt that might hunt and hurt both of you in future, then, by all means say it. If she ever asks you, for any reason, DON'T LIE TO HER! If dose 2 tins are nt der nd it's a really messed up but totally gone past, leave it where it is! |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by passionate88: 6:35pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
It is a must!. I don't want no past springin up to disturb me future. We must come clean and if she decieded to lie jst to protect smtin and I discover it in the future, #goodbye should b expected. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Castos(m): 7:04pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
Tell her the ones she should know or you might find out that she'd prefer you never told her that. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Castos(m): 7:07pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
passionate88: It is a must!. I don't want no past springin up to disturb me future. We must come clean and if she decieded to lie jst to protect smtin and I discover it in the future, #goodbye should b expected.There are things that are better not said. I support you being entitled to hear the ones that might jeopardize the relationship in the future or rather at the moment. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Teespice(f): 7:18pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
I feel that all details gory or not should be told to one's partner. But what happens when all you have said is used against you later or one person who cannot come to terms with your past decides to walk away? Let it all out, he who would stay would stay. He who wants to go should let the door hit him on his way out. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by DavidKissinger(m): 8:30pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
ojjp: wht if u knw sayin it might cause break up? I still would, gone are those days when you work your a.ss off to get someone to stay with you. If she can't handle 'your past', Then fine! she's free to go. That aside, someone above said something really thought-provoking, "what if the past is one that can be used against you?" And that leads to my sincere take on this issue, I'm someone who would wanna know how bad you've been and hopefully forgive & forget it all, but unveiling mine? hmm! It's a "camel passing through a needle eye" situation. Yeah, you may think that's selfish. But Hey! After all said and done, who proves to be the understanding one? Me of course! |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
Not matter how bad ur past is, its only right you let your partner knw abt it. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Enegod(m): 9:57pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
Suffer with your guilt and take it to the grave - alone... 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by 190: 9:59pm On Dec 10, 2013 |
which one be PAST AGAIN The person nor get PAST too |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by ojjp: 7:28am On Dec 11, 2013 |
Qhal: Not matter how bad ur past is, its only right you let your partner knw abt it.wht if he/she neva asked abt it? |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Popowaa: 7:36am On Dec 11, 2013 |
If it's necessay he knws then i will come clean but not everything must be known even if he ask.Some guys will ask you nicely then later use it against you,there are some things i wont even disclose at gun point.What you dont wont kill you. |
Re: Reasons Why One Must Tell His/her Partner About His/her Past by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 11, 2013 |
ojjp: wht if he/she neva asked abt it?That's a different issue |
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