I wonder why am just unfortuate when it comes to relationship.. I have been in series of relationship with men but they end up breaking up with me until i met this special young man early this year. Although am a year older than him,we still ended up dating cos he made me believe age was not a barrier when it comes to love. He was my brother, my befriend and the man i love so much.. Until this love came to and end after 9 months when he told me he want us to beak up because i dont respect him.. Is it a crime to love and apologise even when u are or not wrong just to allow peace reign in a relationship.. Although i say things atimes but those things are said jokingly because i see him as my befriend but but he read meanings to them in a different way. I feel so depressed right now seeing my love life with the Man i so much Love ,Cherish and Adore crumble again..... Pray i have the heart to carry on.......

u obviously must carry on and dn't take life too seriously.....nobodi cums out of it alive, peace.

shegxi: u obviously must carry on and dn't take life too seriously.....nobodi cums out of it alive, peace.

thanks shegxi

Sorry,bt y do I hav dis feeling dat u dnt love him as much as u claim,,he said u dnt give him enof respect abi? I tink dias an iota of truth in this no matter hw hard u try to deny,,d problem is wit u first.u tink u love so much bt ur falling short of many tins.until u dedicate ursef to be truly caring lovin and respectful,men wil continue to dump ur ass,sory for using dat word though

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sweetestguy: Sorry,bt y do I hav dis feeling dat u dnt love him as much as u claim,,he said u dnt give him enof respect abi? I tink dias an iota of truth in this no matter hw hard u try to deny,,d problem is wit u first.u tink u love so much bt ur falling short of many tins.until u dedicate ursef to be truly caring lovin and respectful,men wil continue to dump ur ass,sory for using dat word though

[b][/b][i][/i] bro.......u can't just conclude, u dn't even knw her frm anywere or somtin.. and who says caring nd respectful ladies dn't get dump? in as much as she must work on herself, she also has to b careful wit d kind of fgyys she rolls wit

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ur rite babe....deir wil always be potholes on dis road called life.

sweetestguy: Sorry,bt y do I hav dis feeling dat u dnt love him as much as u claim,,he said u dnt give him enof respect abi? I tink dias an iota of truth in this no matter hw hard u try to deny,,d problem is wit u first.u tink u love so much bt ur falling short of many tins.until u dedicate ursef to be truly caring lovin and respectful,men wil continue to dump ur ass,sory for using dat word though

Thank u for you comment. I respect him and have realized that some of the things i say jokely are taking too serious by him.

U shld have meeting with urself,some bad characters needs to be deleted before things can work out.when something happens once,twice,thrice then its ur fault.

kar bridals: U shld have meeting with urself,some bad characters needs to be deleted before things can work out.when something happens once,twice,thrice then its ur fault.

I agree and will definitely do that dear.

babesexy: I agree and will definitely do that dear.

i can see u hav d rite attitude towards d issue....just cheer up and u will be alrite.

I think the guy was insecured because of the age difference...cos had it been that he was older...I am quite sure he won't have attached much meaning to ur harmless jokes...well such is life and its one of those things...now stop crying over spilled milk, go out there and buy yourself a powdered milk that you can scoop back in the tin should incase it spills again (you get ma drift right)

Don't be tired of life. Always believe that as long as u living, u gon keep winning. Let go, free ya mind and be hopeful that u'll find a betta dude.

shegxi: [b][/b][i][/i] bro.......u can't just conclude, u dn't even knw her frm anywere or somtin.. and who says caring nd respectful ladies dn't get dump? in as much as she must work on herself, she also has to b careful wit d kind of fgyys she rolls wit

I didn't conclude,I jus said I hav a FEELING

babesexy: Thank u for you comment. I respect him and have realized that some of the things i say jokely are taking too serious by him.

k u joke too much and a lot,dat he doesn't knw wen ure serious. My ex used to behave like dat, notin gets ha angry,she jokes abwt everytin,I mean everytin dat I dnt knw wen she's serious,sometimes I wonder weda d "I love u" she tells me is nt also a joke...u hav to cut down on dat,dia are times for joke and times to be serious,,dnt jus tek everytin as a joke,be serious wen there need to be,and mek som1 knw wen ure jokin or nt

sweetestguy: k u joke too much and a lot,dat he doesn't knw wen ure serious. My ex used to behave like dat, notin gets ha angry,she jokes abwt everytin,I mean everytin dat I dnt knw wen she's serious,sometimes I wonder weda d "I love u" she tells me is nt also a joke...u hav to cut down on dat,dia are times for joke and times to be serious,,dnt jus tek everytin as a joke,be serious wen there need to be,and mek som1 knw wen ure jokin or nt

Thanks sweetestguy

What do you want in guys?That will go a long way in determining what can of guys you will get.
If I may ask,how old are you?

thorpido: What do you want in guys?That will go a long way in determining what can of guys you will get.
If I may ask,how old are you?

30years old

babesexy: Thanks sweetestguy

ure welcome

Poster your topic makes it seem like you are contemplating suicide. I hope thats not true.
relationships have ups and downs but it seems like through out your failed relationships you have not learned anything about yourself and why the men you "love" suddenly break up with you.

sorry for being harsh but the common denominator is you. What is it about you thst is off putting that makes a man break up with you. Could be the things you say or things you do but you need to look back and think of how things broke down. This way on your next relstionship you would know to avoid those things.

sorry you are hurting right now but things will eventually get better

babesexy: 30years old

Don't get desperate.I know at this age you'll be so eager to marry.Unfortunately,it might make you pushy.
I believe there is a man for a woman and at the right time he will come.

babesexy: 30years old

My dear, do not give up just yet. Your past disappointments would be a stepping stone to something lovely.

Pray and seek directions from the Almighty and the right man would come and when he comes, do not play hard to get.

Well I don't me any offence but don't you think you need some kine of spiritual help and guidance Cos from what I read in your post you always try ur best to keep the relationship but at the end of the day you still end up hearth broken. If I may ask are you a Muslim or Christian?
Cos I have a suggestion

Thanks

You need to slow things down,I know how u feel but you gotta know this life is about ups and downs.Takes some time out to have fun,hang out and worry not about a thing,trust me,you need your happiness more and I believe every other things will fall in place.Be happy sweety!

Another relationship gone south.

Babes don't b harsh on yourself. U obviously put in ur all to make it work; dude wasn't worth u afterall so he chickened out. It means he wasn't for u. And pls always keep d humour, d jokes. B yourself, brush up d wrong characters and I'm sure the one man who deserves u and values ur jokes will find u and u all will v a happy ending.

Cheer up sweets its Christmas nothing can dull us

Sometimes there is nothing you could have done he is no longer interested in you that's all. Keep your good sense of humour, take care of yourself and the right man will show up.

You just have to move on,,,the right man will come at the appropriate time..

Nne, you're lucky it only cumbled, what if it had crumbled nkor? Just like you managed to remove the "r" in the crumble, we could help you remove the remaining letters and make things right

babesexy: 30years old

You deserve all the happiness you desire. I must be honest with you. Common, for you not to have been able to hold down a stable relationship till this period shows that you could be doing some stuffs wrong. What are you doing that you are attracting such kind of men that never wish to go all the distance with you? Do you easily yield your scared body to them? If you finally attract a guy like me into your life, what's that stuff you gat going in your life that could make me stay regardless of your other human weaknesses? Are you comfortable in your own skin? Or you wanna seek completeness in a man? What lessons have you been able to learn from previous relationships? What practical steps have you taken to be that lady that if you r probably a guy you die to be with her?

You deserve to be with your own knight in shining armour. Start taking practical steps to making your dreams a reality. All things are possible. Please whatever you do, don't sound desperate or lonely so no one gonna take undue advantage over you. I wish you all the very best in your quest to happiness.

2sizzlin: Nne, you're lucky it only cumbled, what if it had crumbled nkor? Just like you managed to remove the "r" in the crumble, we could help you remove the remaining letters and make things right

if I catch you!!!!!

Chubhie:

You deserve to be with your own knight in shining armour. Start taking practical steps to making your dreams a reality. All things are possible. Please whatever you do, don't sound desperate or lonely so no one gonna take undue advantage over you. I wish you all the very best in your quest to happiness.

thank you

shegxi: u obviously must carry on and dn't take life too seriously.....nobodi cums out of it alive, peace.