Hello NL, ok I nd my frend(name withheld) are deep in argument dis late nyt. She has a bf whom she knws cheats on her all d times. Ok she claims to love dis guy bt now she does nt want to love d guy anymore mostly of his cheating xteris.ok I gave her d option of stoping all sexual activities wit dis guy, dat it wld help her reduce d love, bt my dear frend does nt agree wit me. Note she does nt want to leave dis guy totaly nt does nt want her feeling nd emotions been played wit, dats why she feels she can stop loving him nd still be wit him. Pls NL is u guys tink its possible pls pass on ur ideas. U can ask questions in d process I wld provide d ones I knw abt. Tanks. Abeg mature answers only

So in other words, she wants to stay with him because of the "levels" he adds to her life.
This is also why she cannot dump him. Her "love" for him is mostly just her "lust" for his popularity, money, etc.

I'm sure his presence in her life upgrades her in some way and it is that upgrade she attributes to whatever she is feeling.

Onyé ibéribé!!!

190: OP we know u're the girl in question

GBAM

#BitterTruth
She cant leave him because he knows how to Bleep.

She needs two things:
1) Self control
2) Time

@op ur frnd doesn't knw wat sh wants...... Lemme tel u sumtin, most guys likes gals dat wil confront n tel dem to dier face to stop d n*nsense dey r doin....... Ur frnd is nt even bold at all n sh wil continue to hurt ha self for a guy dat doesn't giv a sh*t abt ha..... Tel ha kip ha pride 4 sum1 dat values it.....

Nwanneamakah: She needs two things:
1) Self control
2) Distance/space
3) Time

Fixed...

I dont think she needs help from anyone.

You cant force a horse to drink water when it doesnt want to. In this case, let her be. Life will teach her not to love him. And knowing life, it will do it very well.

Its either she's a fool, under a spell or the guy is too rich. Her problems lies in any of the above mentioned.

LOL...I know this girl dating one rough guy, she's so much into this guy but the guy doesn't care about this girl, I told her to forget this rough guy because she knows the character of this guy and she keep falling into him instead of adding some spicy to herself not to look cheap, I really feel pity for her cuz she's the very emotional type.

I don't know why girls keep dating and falling for this rough badazz guys when they know they are bad and players, they start running back to the good guys after the bad guys doesn't care about them...girls should study a guy before dating him if he's a bad guy add some spicy to yourself don't look cheap before him and ignore his rough azz the good reasonable guys are out there accept them.

tintingz: LOL...I know this girl dating one rough guy, she's so much into this guy but the guy doesn't care about this girl, I told her to forget this rough guy because she knows the character of this guy and she keep falling into him instead of adding some spicy to herself not to look cheap, I really feel pity for her cuz she's the very emotional type.

I don't know why girls keep dating and falling for this rough badazz guys when they know they are bad and players, they start running back to the good guys after the bad guys doesn't care about them...girls should study a guy before dating him if he's a bad guy add some spicy to yourself don't look cheap before him and ignore his rough azz the good reasonable guys are out there accept them.

Hmm...u beta tell dat gal ow u feel b4 it's 2 late

She doesn't need help at all.

Another case of confused women? Nice

donigspain: Fixed...

without self control, she can't "give him space"...so I think self control covers distance

She needs to love another guy, a better one this time. . .


. . .who would take her past cloud 9.

@op, d truth is u can't stop anybody frm loving someone, sometimes people nid to make deir mistakes and fool demselves so dat they can learn and b beta for it...........since mere words aren't enuf for ur friend, let her be and in time, she would cum to herself.

Tanks ya all. One is similar to all ur post her love for the guys money! I dnt rlly knw much abt dat, but I knw dis guys spends on her normally sha, lyk there was a time he got gifts of abt 170k at a time for her. She rlly claims some part of her loves d guy truly while some dnt. Now d question is, is there anytin she can do so dat remaing part wld stop loving him. Rmber I hv told her to stop having sex wit him. But she claims she can't stop it, dat is she ok sexing som1 she does nt love

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ronalmagic10:


Hmm...u beta tell dat gal ow u feel b4 it's 2 late

Oh we are very good friends

Perfect example of a gold digger, he treats u like poo and u still want to stay. The guy's magic strong gan

kamdyjenny: Tanks ya all. One is similar to all ur post her love for the guys money! I dnt rlly knw much abt dat, but I knw dis guys spends on her normally sha, lyk there was a time he got gifts of abt 170k at a time for her. She rlly claims some part of her loves d guy truly while some dnt. Now d question is, is there anytin she can do so dat remaing part wld stop loving him. Rmber I hv told her to stop having sex wit him. But she claims she can't stop it, dat is she ok sexing som1 she does nt love

Tell her I said she is now a prostitut€. There is nothing different between her and a full-time prostitut€. In fact, the latter can be considered to be better for having already accepted her form of life as a trade.

ronalmagic10:


Hmm...u beta tell dat gal ow u feel b4 it's 2 late

Hahaaaaaahahahahah. Hw u tek knw

Funny question....you want to stay with someone and you don't love him? Where's the sense in that?

tell your friend that she'll only end up wasting her time over some ediot who isn't worth her space and might miss out on who she shld really be with.

she shld dump his sorry cheating a'ss, move on with life and be happy ojare, when its not like she's shackled to him.

kamdyjenny: Tanks ya all. One is similar to all ur post her love for the guys money! I dnt rlly knw much abt dat, but I knw dis guys spends on her normally sha, lyk there was a time he got gifts of abt 170k at a time for her. She rlly claims some part of her loves d guy truly while some dnt. Now d question is, is there anytin she can do so dat remaing part wld stop loving him. Rmber I hv told her to stop having sex wit him. But she claims she can't stop it, dat is she ok sexing som1 she does nt love

hmmmm, she's definitely in love with him for his money......well..... She cannot have her cake and eat it, some chicks prefer to cry in a Bentley than to leave a guy that makes them unhappy....wish her all the bestest.

kamdyjenny: Hello NL, ok I nd my frend(name withheld) are deep in argument dis late nyt. She has a bf whom she knws cheats on her all d times. Ok she claims to love dis guy bt now she does nt want to love d guy anymore mostly of his cheating xteris.ok I gave her d option of stoping all sexual activities wit dis guy, dat it wld help her reduce d love, bt my dear frend does nt agree wit me. Note she does nt want to leave dis guy totaly nt does nt want her feeling nd emotions been played wit, dats why she feels she can stop loving him nd still be wit him. Pls NL is u guys tink its possible pls pass on ur ideas. U can ask questions in d process I wld provide d ones I knw abt. Tanks. Abeg mature answers only

Your friend is confused.

kamdyjenny: Tanks ya all. One is similar to all ur post her love for the guys money! I dnt rlly knw much abt dat, but I knw dis guys spends on her normally sha, lyk there was a time he got gifts of abt 170k at a time for her. She rlly claims some part of her loves d guy truly while some dnt. Now d question is, is there anytin she can do so dat remaing part wld stop loving him. Rmber I hv told her to stop having sex wit him. But she claims she can't stop it, dat is she ok sexing som1 she does nt love

She isn't actually in love with the dude. She is in love with the money.

You are in love with his money!