duni04:
Abi. D op's so called honesty is suspicious. Sounds like a scammer looking for gals 2 scam. Next tin he'll b asking d unlucky gals 2 send 50k to his acct cos a family member just died n deres no money 4 burial

Stop4: Hello Nairalanders , I don't know the right section to post this as i need matured response...don't want to post in Romance section as I assume I won't be getting what I want.
I'm a guy, 32yrs old in need of a serious relationship, though I'm not financially stable...a[HND accts] graduate who's is trying to find his feet, I work as security presently (I call it hussling, not those dressed-up-liked you see in Banks ooo) that pays btw 60 - 70k per month, free lunch at work, make use of company's staff Bus daily, (pay less on T fare) etc. I'm not a Gold digger, just need the right gal to marry....must be a graduate as well, managing something for a lively hood[not a total dependant], average in height, must be btw the age of 25 - 31yrs, Christian.
If you are that Lucky woman..... add me 752B88B8, text/call 08183956555. Need further clarification, lemme know.

alutacontinua: If no be say i no fit some of op's criteria, i for call him!

I like his sincerity! keep it up!

Stop4:
I just want to be original, I don't care what girls/women think about my personality. If they doesn't want to settle for less, no Biggy, I know there are some ladies out there (not the desperate type) who still understand my point. I can tell all sort of lies that can make anyone fall for me BUT will that be the best thing to do? I'm not looking that bad anyway.

kulyie: @ op you are suffering from MISPLACED PRIORITY.your focus shouldnt be about getting a wife,i care less whether you are 32 or 60 and still a bachelor,your drive now should be getting a stable job,establishing your feet on the ground and getting the kind of job that enables you take care of a wife,kid,pay rent etc.i dont think you know how expensive being a married man is and maintaining a home.it is when you add VALUE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO ADD VALUE TO OTHERS.EVEN IF YOU ARE A BACHELOR AT 50 AND DONT HAVE A STABLE INCOME I DONT EXPECT A MAN WHO HAS FOCUS TO BE SEARCHING FOR A WIFE WHEN HE IS SUPPOSED TO ME STRUGGLING TO MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR HIMSELF
even if you see a wife today now.how do you plan sustaining a home? Or you 2 plan to live a life of misery/squalor and in anycase i woner which lady will agree to marry a hustler in this day and age.

The truth about life is when you are a man,no matter how old or young,ugly or handsome you are,once you have money,there will be an influx of women rushing you that your problem will be choosing who to marry among them,but if you are a hustler and you want to marry


i wish you best of luck

kulyie: it is just what i feel.poverty and mama ngozi pls i wan buy 50 naira garri and pampers,i will give you the money next week,next week the seller comes to harass borrower for her money and shes like mama ngozi,give us time,we just pay landlord money,i will pay later is avoidable.how can a man who can hardly sustain himself take care of a family.remove sentiments,sho mogbon wa.

I am not in any way saying the man has to be super rich or a billionnaire before he settles down for marriage or find a wife,my point is that at least,he should first establish his feet on the ground.you are a married woman yourself and you should know that lack of finances causes friction in the home except you decide to pretend like you dont know.

My dear,i love you does not pay the bills o.tell him the HOME TRUTH

jay bee:
I'm recommending the e-you duhhhh

Baby mama:

You make 60k a month probably living in a "face me I shoot you " and you wan marry?
Chai
Women don suffer
Do you know how much SMA gold costs
Diaper Nko?

Kemmy210: don't discourage dis young man 4rm getting marry,his salary isn't too small 2start a family.

alutacontinua:

You're just being too 1920
It's not like he'll start giving out his ATM pin or something to some online person!
It also pays to get to meet the person early enough in the relationship!
Sustaining the relationship online might not be a good idea but meeting online ain't that bad!
Babes, welcome to 2013!

kulyie: first of all sorry for the way i talked to you,i felt provoked or upset when you said ' young lady be wise',thats what i found rude and i didnt like that but sorry all the same


i have been saying and i will still keep on repeating till you people stop misinterpreting what i mean


2 of them should put something on the table.no one should be a liability on the other at the same time he doesnt have to be a super rich guy before he settles down but since chaircover has cleared the air that he has a steady income,then nothing is stopping him.i thought initially that he didnt have a steady income and wanted to marry (probably with the aim of gold digging the girl) thats what caused my first post.however,so far as its rub my back i rub your back and not a selfish kind of relationship then he is good to go

alutacontinua: If no be say i no fit some of op's criteria, i for call him!

I like his sincerity! keep it up!

kulyie: what triggered anger in me was when he said 'be wise young woman' that statement made me feel as if i am bereft of knowledge or i am not in my right senses or as if he is scolding the last born in their house

to the question,yes i add value to EVERYONE AROUND ME,PERIOD!

Creamish:

Good!

greatgod2012: @baby mama, my sister, you fall my hand o, should marriage be based on the fatness of the pocket? I think the guy should even be applauded for being honest with what he earns, what if he has sugarcoated his mouth and claim to have everything haveable in life, will you have agreed that he's marriageable then? Remember, we shouldn't despise humble beginnings.
"oni la ri, ko si eni to m'ola".
May God help us all

leavestory: did u read the part I said "he should not make it look as if he is desperate"I did not say he is desperate am only advicing him not to make it look like desperation,or may be i am speaking the wrong english because am confused!!!lol

Toaskarity: I think "I need a wife in 2014" sounds better.
The word 'wife' already covers 'getting married to'
Lets stop making English hard for us...

Toaskarity: I think "I need a wife in 2014" sounds better.
The word 'wife' already covers 'getting married to'
Lets stop making English hard for us...

kulyie: @ op you are suffering from MISPLACED PRIORITY.your focus shouldnt be about getting a wife,i care less whether you are 32 or 60 and still a bachelor,your drive now should be getting a stable job,establishing your feet on the ground and getting the kind of job that enables you take care of a wife,kid,pay rent etc.i dont think you know how expensive being a married man is and maintaining a home.it is when you add VALUE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO ADD VALUE TO OTHERS.EVEN IF YOU ARE A BACHELOR AT 50 AND DONT HAVE A STABLE INCOME I DONT EXPECT A MAN WHO HAS FOCUS TO BE SEARCHING FOR A WIFE WHEN HE IS SUPPOSED TO ME STRUGGLING TO MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR HIMSELF
even if you see a wife today now.how do you plan sustaining a home? Or you 2 plan to live a life of misery/squalor and in anycase i woner which lady will agree to marry a hustler in this day and age.

The truth about life is when you are a man,no matter how old or young,ugly or handsome you are,once you have money,there will be an influx of women rushing you that your problem will be choosing who to marry among them,but if you are a hustler and you want to marry


i wish you best of luck

deols: Op, y u remove picshure now??! e neva reach 24hrs!!

I dislike being the one missing in d fun