kain881:

because i think the only reason why they don't want to be together is because of the guilt they have, for me,

kain881:

rhino, i wish it was easy, i wish bro,

kain881:

What do you do when your best friend love the one you truly love,

That's what im living right now,  the story is long so im going to make it short,  there is this girl ,  i saw her,  bam love at first sight,
kind of,  unbelievable but i did fall for her,  took me 5 month before i could get her email,  being able to talk to her out of nowhere like a stranger
we started to know each other and what i felt is,  i was loving someone who will never love me back,  but i always though there is a chance
for me to be with her,  and now,  my best friends pops, out,  when me and her had a big fight my best friend always talk to her,  and he told me
he fall for her during all these talking between him and her,  but what can i do now??,  it kills me to see my best friend loving the girl i TRULY love,
after a year,  still same feelings,  i feel like,  being betrayed by my best friend,  im totally lost,  im mad, for what hes doing to me, and,

i don't know now, what the hell am i supose to do, what i though was,  llook,  if they love each other,  well i can't help it but let them go together,
but what i hate is, i asked her first to go out iwth me and things like that, and now my best friend ask her and he told me she's thinking bout it,
hate to see that his chance to be with the girl i love, is higher than mine,  feel like totallly betrayed,  i feel like,  someone backstabbed me, striaght in my heart,  so i though,  if they love each other,  i can't help it but let that happen if the girl i love ,  tells me,  that she finds him the one, to give her the happiness,  anyway in the end,  did i just waste my time, ? but i love her ,  i would do anything for her, 

in the end if they really happens to go out,  welll i just though i would leave them,  i leave my best friend,  i leave her no more contact,  nothing
so they can be happy together because i got the feeling that ,  i take part,  of the big problem in this,  that im the one,  that wont let them be together,
in the end,  that quote ''nice people never win'' ,  i guess its true,  was always nice in my whole life,  what did i gain,  nothing but getting hurt .

now im asking all of you,  to give me your suggestion,  i need help there,  and when i say i leave my best friend,  which my best friend is more like,
the leader of our little group of friends ,  like a small gang u know, always chilling together well  im leaving that small gang , i just feel like being betrayed.

i think im going to explode of tears,  its too much for me,  what would you guys do,  if you were me,  i will love to hear what you have to say.

davidylan:

lol get over it. One of my closest friends met his now wife through me, i went to seek his advice about asking the chic out and then bam within 3 weeks he had moved in and stolen the girl away. We stayed incommunicado for 2 weeks and eventually realised there was no point fighting over something we both couldnt help. He's married to the girl now and i couldnt be happier for them both.