Why Some Men Are Not Ready To Marry?. And why Those One In Marriage Are Looking For A Wayout?

Some men are not ready to marry because they've made a conscious decision that they:

- wanna continue messing around whilst they're young and have all the time later to settle down
- wanna be financially stable first
- wanna not give into cabin fever, but explore the world of females out there, make new friends, get to know more people before they marry the best of a bad bunch

The ones that haven't gotten married are at least honest enough to know that they aren't ready, this is a good sign to be honest. If you've been with someone for more than 8 years and he's still not ready and can't give a reason, believe me the guy got used to having you around, and that's why he's with you (or he's commitment phobic), if he loves you he would marry you, it really is the next logical and natural step (for most).

As for the ones in marriage, those guys were probably in self denial when they got married, believing the marriage would solve their problems and issues, or solve the commitment problems, but really if you don't work on the source then other things will not change the person.
The men who continue to search for other partners whilst married, are those who never believed in the sanctity of marriage in the first place, they don't see it as a covenant, they see it more as just a title, a name, a ring, so they are able to push the idea of their wife aside and continue doing life as it was before the wedding,

Just my ideas - thought I'd reply since no one else has.