What happens when you are head-
over-heels in love with your girl and
she just breaks up with you out of the
blue?
A lot of guys have been a victim of such
but her saying it's over does not
necessarily mean it has to be.
Instead of pining and living in misery over
the break up, how about you try these
simple tips below to get your ex-girlfriend
back.
Let her go : This may seem like you are
doing the opposite of what feels natural,
but women enjoy the process of the chase
as much as men do. A post-break up
woman will need validation that you are
heart broken over her. By acting like you
are over the relationship, this will
naturally arouse her curiosity in you. If
she is curious about you, then she is
thinking about you, and this is always the
first step. Women also do not like men
who are indecisive. If you show that you
have made a conscious decision and that
you have followed through in getting over
her, then she will keep thinking about you
to try and figure it out. Yes, this means
stop all texting, calling, Facebooking,
emails etc. Do not act like your life is
over. Act like everything has gone back to
normal but just that little bit better. Yes,
avoid drunk dialling or drunken texting.
Remember, women are not attracted to
guys that ‘need’ them.
Have fun : If you are seen having fun,
then she will definitely know that you are
over her, and will be curious about you.
Keep in mind that most women have
friends, and if they see you having fun,
then it will be reported back to your ex
girlfriend. She will remember what it was
that originally attracted her to you. Keep
in mind that ‘having fun’ does not
constitute substance abuse – getting too
drunk, too loud, or too rowdy. A lot of
men fall into this trap, and it just reads as
being pathetic. Have fun with confidence
and she will notice.
Tease her: When you do get the chance
to speak with her, then tease her a little –
nothing too drastic, the point is not to
insult her. The thing is women usually
react to what they cannot have. If you
appear emotionally unavailable and throw
her a few insults, you will be surprised
with the result. Women say they like nice
guys, but really, they are not attracted to
them. Start with something like, “I like
your dress… I’ve been 3 other girls
wearing the same one today.” Get the
idea? Women are used to guys being
overly nice to them. Do not do what they
are doing.
Self Improvemen t: Pick up those
weights, that guitar, learn that new
language. Any endeavour into self
improvement is not only a serious boost
of confidence for you, it shows her that
you look after yourself/are cultured etc
and have other, interesting activities that
you’d much rather put your time into.
Again, this attitude may feel unnatural,
but if your ex girlfriend sees what you
could have been up to instead of
spending time with her, this will arouse
her curiosity, and give you a killer new
hobby that will make you into a more
learned, more creative, or fitter person
(i.e more attractive person).
Never , ever, ever, ever bring up the
possibility of getting back together again.
Do not make the first move. Let her make
the first move. The trick is to not to get
your ex girlfriend to come back to you. It
is to make it so that she cannot stay away
from you. This can involve a lot of
patience, but the pay off is always worth
it.
Move on : Hey, if all of this doesn’t work
out at the end of the day, then take the
lessons that you’ve learned and move on.
Dating other women is a good option. It
boosts your confidence while making your
ex girlfriend jealous, and could be the
pathway to finding a relationship that
works better than your previous on

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THE ONLY WAY; DON'T LOSE HIM/HER IN THE FIRST PLACE !!!!

Ok

And it surprises me how most some girls already know these tricks, and still fall for it..

I don't think it's a good idea dating your ex again. Because in most cases, the reason why u broke up with him/her the first time, might still pop up again. And u break up again..lol

why would I go back to my ex? ain't a vomit eating dog

The first thing you need to do is stop contacting your ex in any way whatsoever. A temporary no contact period is absolutely essential right now -- though only for a certain specified period -- because you need to get complete control of your emotions. This will give you the greatest chance of getting back together.

Here's a youtube video to help you:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9jiJ2NOYtw

How to Get Your Ex Back After You Cheated