There are better ways to deal with constant break ups than harboring them. You tried moving on yet you still get hurt. Always remember the “magnetic principle”- unlike bodies attract while like bodies repel. So it is only normal for you to experience a little hardship in finding someone like you that you won’t have to repel after all.
Evaluate yourself, what do you really want and what you don’t want. Don’t ever settle for less because you deserve to be happy. Unless you accept the fact that nobody is responsible for your happiness but YOU, you will keep living a life of regrets and sorrow. Don’t you ever pity people at your expense, run away from any relationship that is undermining your potential and intelligence.
Don’t be scared about what lies ahead of you, be more focus and concerned about your happiness. One thing that is constant in life is change. So people come and go, what matters most is the lessons learnt!
Negative partner should be cut loose; they have no place in your life. You need to appreciate this fact and plan your life towards joy and peace. Nobody can deprive you of your happiness but you; you hold the keys to the doors of your happiness.
Any partner that brings hurt and sorrow into your life should be driven away; it is always not easy especially when they have gotten a bigger part of you. But I tell you, you just have to. A relationship full of regrets couple with self-pity is a very miserable one. Be strong and always let go, don’t be scared.
P:S (For the ladies)Don’t engage in sexual act with your new partner until you are very sure they are true and is what you want; psychologically, having sex with someone gives a part of you to them, and when he eventually decides to leave, you feel worse, used and empty. But if you could hold back, not that you won’t feel it at all but it will be less.
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