I just broke up with my girl of close to two years. I figured out settling down with her would spell doom for us so I put it out straight to her. I gave her many window periods to see if she would change but it was obvious she wouldn't.
We broke up on the 26th of this month and it went pretty ugly.
I have been pained with my actions but she never helped matters on that day.
She travelled that same day (the trip had nothing to do with the breakup) and since I haven't been myself as all efforts to apologise for how badly I treated her ON THAT DAY proved abortive.

So I ask, who hurts more after a breakup, is it the guy or the girl and why?

Mostly it is the lady but sometimes it is the guyz

It depends on who broke the relationship, if its the girl then the guy will probably be the victim and vice-versa

Lionbite: It depends on who broke the relationship, if its the girl then the guy will probably be the victim and vice-versa

Thanks for your response but in this case I did but I still hurt the more.

Nonso23: Who hurts more is the same person that loved more during the course of the relationship. It doesn't depend on gender.

This explains very much how I feel.
Nice one bro.