Dear readers, this is a serious issue and I consider it above me because I'm lost.
I met a girl about 6 years ago; and I really liked her and loved her at the same time. I asked her out then and she 'agreed partially' but all through that period, it was a living hell for me because she would remind me that we weren't dating but would always expect the best from me. She treated me badly then, like I didn't matter, probably because her phone was always brimming with callers, of which all are guys.

Fast forward to late 2012...

All through the years, I was in pain and I couldn't think straight. It did take me a lot of time to get over her. Until late last year... She started frquenting my house, even when I'm not around. She played nice to my mum and younger sister just to get closer to them. After discovering her motive, her stylishly told her I have a lady I'm about getting married to, which is true, just to ward her off. Surprisingly, she didn't step away from me, rather, she moved closer than ever. I got irritated by her presence that I'd call my fiance just to make her know I'm taken but she wouldn't bulge still.
She still frequents my house, believing I'll change my mind and accept her but I can't because I don't love her anymore. I don't want her close to me and I don't want to sound rude.
I really need advise on this.

can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her

Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?

Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o

Enegod: can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her

broda i second ur motion

Dyt: Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?

Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o

i've never touched her before... Thanks though.

born_to_be_gr8t: broda i second ur motion

I would want to believe that's one of the things she wants, she's been humming marriage to my ears and I know that I cannot afford to get close to her.

Dyt: Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?

Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o

is that all you gat to say

Dyt: Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?
Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o

is this even an advice ?
@ OP this is ur time to revenge,am sure u knw wat i mean

woky: is that all you gat to say

Talk ur own na
*straight face*

born_to_be_gr8t: is this even an advice ?
@ OP this is ur time to revenge,am sure u knw wat i mean

U tell me if it is
OP mada loun o

Enegod: can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her

will bleeping help the matter??


reason with ur head and not ur armpit, boy!!

Sanchez01:
I would want to believe that's one of the things she wants, she's been humming marriage to my ears and I know that I cannot afford to get close to her.

Don't touch her o
Na trap
If u chop u must vomit o
Jst ignore all her passes

Seriously, jst ontroduce both of them to eachother
She wld change
We ladies don't like to b put below another
Try it

Sanchez01:
i've never touched her before... Thanks though.

talk true

born_to_be_gr8t: is this even an advice ?
@ OP this is ur time to revenge,am sure u knw wat i mean

what is the gal is your sister??



Mango!!

Dyt:

Don't touch her o
Na trap
If u chop u must vomit o
Jst ignore all her passes

Seriously, jst ontroduce both of them to eachother
She wld change
We ladies don't like to b put below another
Try it

Thanks so much; I'd definitely try this out.

Dyt:

Talk ur own na
*straight face*

i will dear..

OP if u are gona take any advice,pls use a guys' advice,cos na only men knw hw men dey think...take a womans advice at ur own detriment jus straff d babe nd free her abeg.

Dyt:

Don't touch her o
Na trap
If u chop u must vomit o
Jst ignore all her passes

Seriously, jst ontroduce both of them to eachother
She wld change
We ladies don't like to b put below another
Try it

you talk sense

woky: what is the gal is your sister??



Mango!!

Sanchez01:
Thanks so much; I'd definitely try this out.

it won't be that easy shaaa


the lord is ur strength

born_to_be_gr8t:

go stand for sun

woky: go stand for sun

jonzin man like u

born_to_be_gr8t: jonzin man like u

chai

born_to_be_gr8t: OP if u are gona take any advice,pls use a guys' advice,cos na only men knw hw men dey think...take a womans advice at ur own detriment jus straff d babe nd free her abeg.

I don't think that will be a good idea either... Thanks still.

woky: what is the gal is your sister??



Mango!!

Even yur english is suffering.

kelvinclint:
Even yur english is suffering.

if you use ur brain, you will undstnd wat i mean..



Nobody is above mistake

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you need to be as harsh as possible to her so she can understand that there is no chance in hell for you to get with her. Even go as far as telling your mom whom she got close to to tell her to stop coming around. You have a woman already and you should never make your self available to even have a phone convo with this potential home wrecker.

25omega: POSTER

you need to be as harsh as possible to her so she can understand that there is no chance in hell for you to get with her. Even go as far as telling your mom whom she got close to to tell her to stop coming around. You have a woman already and you should never make your self available to even have a phone convo with this potential home wrecker.

Thanks Bro... I really find this useful. Just that my mum and myself have a familiar trait; we don't get hostile to those who come around us. I already told my mum the whole issue just that she believs that I can figure out things for myself. Maybe I'm just too nice, I'll definitely try out the advice. Thanks a lot.

Enegod: can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her

a wise and sharp guy will find a way to discharge a desperate gal like her,DAT gal get motive and sex will only create wahala from stage to stage

Find her someone to date, seems she doesn't have a boyfriend?

What she's doing seems like stalking if your story is true.

tpia@:
Find her someone to date, seems she doesn't have a boyfriend?

What she's doing seems like stalking if your story is true.

How can I find a lady someone to date, I don't think it sounds right.

Hook her up with one of your single friends.

Don't people matchmake all the time?

You never know if it will work.