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What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 2:02pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dear readers, this is a serious issue and I consider it above me because I'm lost.
I met a girl about 6 years ago; and I really liked her and loved her at the same time. I asked her out then and she 'agreed partially' but all through that period, it was a living hell for me because she would remind me that we weren't dating but would always expect the best from me. She treated me badly then, like I didn't matter, probably because her phone was always brimming with callers, of which all are guys.

Fast forward to late 2012...

All through the years, I was in pain and I couldn't think straight. It did take me a lot of time to get over her. Until late last year... She started frquenting my house, even when I'm not around. She played nice to my mum and younger sister just to get closer to them. After discovering her motive, her stylishly told her I have a lady I'm about getting married to, which is true, just to ward her off. Surprisingly, she didn't step away from me, rather, she moved closer than ever. I got irritated by her presence that I'd call my fiance just to make her know I'm taken but she wouldn't bulge still.
She still frequents my house, believing I'll change my mind and accept her but I can't because I don't love her anymore. I don't want her close to me and I don't want to sound rude.
I really need advise on this.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Enegod(m): 2:11pm On Dec 30, 2013
can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her

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Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Dyt(f): 2:12pm On Dec 30, 2013
Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?

Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by borntobegr8t(m): 2:16pm On Dec 30, 2013
Enegod: can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her
grin broda i second ur motion
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 2:19pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dyt: Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?

Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o
i've never touched her before... Thanks though.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 2:21pm On Dec 30, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: grin broda i second ur motion
I would want to believe that's one of the things she wants, she's been humming marriage to my ears and I know that I cannot afford to get close to her.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dyt: Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?

Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o
is that all you gat to say
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by borntobegr8t(m): 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dyt: Are u sure u don't touch her when she comes?
Call ur woman, introduce them, say swt words to ur woman, kiss her, do all sorts and after this if she no gree go then I dunno o
is this even an advice ? undecided
@ OP this is ur time to revenge,am sure u knw wat i mean wink
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Dyt(f): 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2013
woky: is that all you gat to say

Talk ur own na
*straight face*
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Dyt(f): 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: is this even an advice ? undecided
@ OP this is ur time to revenge,am sure u knw wat i mean wink

U tell me if it is
OP mada loun o
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:25pm On Dec 30, 2013
Enegod: can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her
will bleeping help the matter??


reason with ur head and not ur armpit, boy!!

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Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Dyt(f): 2:26pm On Dec 30, 2013
Sanchez01:
I would want to believe that's one of the things she wants, she's been humming marriage to my ears and I know that I cannot afford to get close to her.

Don't touch her o
Na trap
If u chop u must vomit o
Jst ignore all her passes

Seriously, jst ontroduce both of them to eachother
She wld change
We ladies don't like to b put below another
Try it
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:30pm On Dec 30, 2013
Sanchez01:
i've never touched her before... Thanks though.
talk true grin
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:31pm On Dec 30, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: is this even an advice ? undecided
@ OP this is ur time to revenge,am sure u knw wat i mean wink
what is the gal is your sister??



Mango!!
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 2:32pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dyt:

Don't touch her o
Na trap
If u chop u must vomit o
Jst ignore all her passes

Seriously, jst ontroduce both of them to eachother
She wld change
We ladies don't like to b put below another
Try it
Thanks so much; I'd definitely try this out.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:32pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dyt:

Talk ur own na
*straight face*
i will dear..
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by borntobegr8t(m): 2:33pm On Dec 30, 2013
OP if u are gona take any advice,pls use a guys' advice,cos na only men knw hw men dey think...take a womans advice at ur own detriment undecided jus straff d babe nd free her abeg.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:34pm On Dec 30, 2013
Dyt:

Don't touch her o
Na trap
If u chop u must vomit o
Jst ignore all her passes

Seriously, jst ontroduce both of them to eachother
She wld change
We ladies don't like to b put below another
Try it
you talk sense
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by borntobegr8t(m): 2:35pm On Dec 30, 2013
woky: what is the gal is your sister??



Mango!!
undecided
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:35pm On Dec 30, 2013
Sanchez01:
Thanks so much; I'd definitely try this out.
it won't be that easy shaaa


the lord is ur strength
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:36pm On Dec 30, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: undecided
go stand for sun
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by borntobegr8t(m): 2:38pm On Dec 30, 2013
woky: go stand for sun
grin jonzin man like u grin
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 2:40pm On Dec 30, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: grin jonzin man like u grin
chai
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 2:43pm On Dec 30, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: OP if u are gona take any advice,pls use a guys' advice,cos na only men knw hw men dey think...take a womans advice at ur own detriment undecided jus straff d babe nd free her abeg.
I don't think that will be a good idea either... Thanks still.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by kelvinclint(m): 3:07pm On Dec 30, 2013
woky: what is the gal is your sister??



Mango!!
Even yur english is suffering.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by woky: 3:14pm On Dec 30, 2013
kelvinclint:
Even yur english is suffering.
if you use ur brain, you will undstnd wat i mean..



Nobody is above mistake
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by 25omega(m): 3:30pm On Dec 30, 2013
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you need to be as harsh as possible to her so she can understand that there is no chance in hell for you to get with her. Even go as far as telling your mom whom she got close to to tell her to stop coming around. You have a woman already and you should never make your self available to even have a phone convo with this potential home wrecker.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 3:34pm On Dec 30, 2013
25omega: POSTER

you need to be as harsh as possible to her so she can understand that there is no chance in hell for you to get with her. Even go as far as telling your mom whom she got close to to tell her to stop coming around. You have a woman already and you should never make your self available to even have a phone convo with this potential home wrecker.
Thanks Bro... I really find this useful. Just that my mum and myself have a familiar trait; we don't get hostile to those who come around us. I already told my mum the whole issue just that she believs that I can figure out things for myself. Maybe I'm just too nice, I'll definitely try out the advice. Thanks a lot.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Bizibi(m): 3:44pm On Dec 30, 2013
Enegod: can't you see she is h0rny... bleep the f**** outta her
a wise and sharp guy will find a way to discharge a desperate gal like her,DAT gal get motive and sex will only create wahala from stage to stage

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Re: What Should I Do With Her? by tpia5: 3:51pm On Dec 30, 2013
Find her someone to date, seems she doesn't have a boyfriend?

What she's doing seems like stalking if your story is true.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by Sanchez01: 3:56pm On Dec 30, 2013
tpia@:
Find her someone to date, seems she doesn't have a boyfriend?

What she's doing seems like stalking if your story is true.
How can I find a lady someone to date, I don't think it sounds right.
Re: What Should I Do With Her? by tpia5: 3:58pm On Dec 30, 2013
Hook her up with one of your single friends.

Don't people matchmake all the time?

You never know if it will work.

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