Mazi_Omenuko:

@topic: consider this: She lived a virgin, died a virgin; what she refused men, the worms had for free...

jmoore:

Worms have sex with people, huh? smh

Mazi_Omenuko:

Metaphors! Read it up; Google is there for you.

jmoore:

Worms have sex with people, huh? smh

IamDejman: Did u go to school @ all?......how old are u sef?....

martronilla: Choosing to remain a virgin until marriage is a
respectable personal decision for either sex. There
are many good reasons for pledging to wait until
marriage to have sex, including protecting your
sexual health, preserving the sanctity of sex, and
honoring a special commitment to someone who is
significant in your life (your spouse). If you have
come to a well thought-out decision about your
virginity, this article will help you stay true to
your principles.
1- Know why you made that decision Your
basis for making your choices could be
motivated by anything from practicality to
theology. Because it is your body, you
are allowed to have whatever justifications
you'd like about your personal choices.
Knowing that you are virgin saves you a
lot of a stress, including worrying about
whether you are pregnant or have an
STD, paying for contraceptives, facing
the possibility of needing an abortion or
being forced to start a family before you
are ready. On the other hand, many
people feel as though the Bible dictates
that your virginity should be a gift that
you give to your spouse after marriage.

2- Be comfortable with your decision Understand your own reasons for choosing to wait until marriage to have sex, and affirm why those reasons are important to you by writing them down. It may help to post an abridged list on your fridge or desk wall so you can look at it to remind yourself why you made your decision. Posting the list in personal places that you frequent will make it convenient for you to re-affirm your beliefs in times of doubt or temptation. You don't need to justify your choices to the people around you. Let people know that you are only informing people about your decision so that they can be respectful towards your beliefs; you are not trying to lecture them about how they should live their life or to get their approval.

3- Avoid temptation Don't be alone with
someone of the opposite sex in situations
where sex would be very tempting. When
passion or sexual tension pervades in an
environment, you may hastily make a
decision that you will later regret. Make
your own life easier by choosing to avoid
those situations to begin with when you
are in an unclouded mental state. The
most important thing is to make a decision
before you are tempted by sex, because if
you have not set limits for yourself, then
you will do what feels right at the time.
That may be a decision that you will
regret later.
Keep meeting and dating. Do not be
desperate, but don't feel you need to
remain alone. A good night kiss, a hug,
or holding hands with a person you
enjoyed being with is quite appropriate.

4- Reaffirm your decision Many people have
made the choice you have made, so don't
give up hope. You will meet friends and
potential romantic partners who feel the
same way as you do, so don't be afraid
about being yourself.
Understand not everyone will agree.
Respectfully agree to disagree with
people who have made different sexual
choices. You may want to discuss your
reasons for making your respective
choices, and you may even get into a
friendly debate questioning each other's
values. But at the end of the day, both
you and your friends should realize
that each person is allowed to decide
whatever they want with their body
and that neither party should attempt
to convert or condemn the other for
their choices.
Recognize that many people brag
about how many sexual relations they
have had, but don't let that make you
feel inferior. Remember that you have
different values from those people, and
that the number or frequency of
intercourse one engages in is not a
universal measure of success.

jmoore:

1 month.

olumaxi: Never-mind..my mum is a virgin and she's taught me evritin