Hello NLers,

Being in a relationship is one of the best things of life but sometimes pple tend to turn it to a nightmare. I have a girlfriend whom I love so much. She tld Me am her first love ever so I thought it wise to play cool..bt the problem is she rarely calls or txt.To even say 'I love U' na serious fight and has resisted many of My attempts for a kiss.She claims she loves Me bt to express the love has bn d problem since we started 3 yrs ago.I ve bn spending on her ever since and I feel its one sided and has to stop.
Fellow Nairalanders should I wait tl she starts expressing her love? pls help a brother out for the love I have for her has blindfolded my reasoning. Pls no insults wea in our mid 20's so We matured. Thank You

Guy Run, three years wasted already

If she's Nigerian, Run for your life!!

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If she's Nigerian, Run for your life!!

Lol..aint you a nigerian?

Please don't be a learner now Runnn...brother, I say runnn...you have been scammed!!

Frm d comments above, I guess u already no wht to do...3yrs! Not even a kiss muchless 'drilling'... Her love for u is nt even up to d size of a mustard seed....plz flee!

cbrass:

Lol..aint you a nigerian?

I'm a Nigerian with a difference. Fear Nigerian girls.

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I doubt she likes you let alone love

She is using ur head cos she noticed u love her.how can she not kiss u for good 3yrs of relationship,whats her reason?is she a virgin?even a virgin wld have given in if she really loves u.like u said,u spend on her nd that is the reason she is in it but guess what she will be telling her frnds(that u are a big fool,for 3yrs u have not touched nd her u keep spending)all these advises here will not even make u leave her that's for sure but be ready to come back nd tell how she left u after 5yrs of spending on her without a even a kiss.

U r her mugu. I bet she is giving someone else d hugs, kisses n maybe d koko.
Don't let her go, just let her b a side kick. Give her little or no attention, maybe den she might start taking u serious. For now, u r giving her way too much attention; less is more

Please do not end the relationship because your mumunity is already certified

Guy man, nawa ooo, 3 years no clearance and no drilling, and yet u keep investing. This bank account u opened does nt have withdrawal or is it just a beer beer account. Well withdraw from her and see her response. If no improvement den u just go back to d way it was den switch her to d play zone, den u look for anoda babe dat wud carress ur hrt, guy just hang on and put pressure one day she wud yield( when I say pressure not d one u wud be pitying for the kpekus, ask for it like ur life depend on it). After she yield, den start the closing process ceremony.

Just tell her what you've written out on here, you've only been dating a few months and before it gets any further I guess you're gonna leave her. Don't pro-long it, it wouldn't be fair on her.

sugar baby

evanscheck: Guy man, nawa ooo, 3 years no clearance and no drilling, and yet u keep investing. This bank account u opened does nt have withdrawal or is it just a beer beer account. Well withdraw from her and see her response. If no improvement den u just go back to d way it was den switch her to d play zone, den u look for anoda babe dat wud carress ur hrt, guy just hang on and put pressure one day she wud yield( when I say pressure not d one u wud be pitying for the kpekus, ask for it like ur life depend on it). After she yield, den start the closing process ceremony.

badoo!!!!!

Love is meant to b recriprocal n nt one sided, tel her ur mind n just give her time, if she refuse to change den leave her n move on.

If you are not happy in a relationship and you staring to grow apart you should end the relationship, but try to end it in a good note and try not to hurt their feelings much.

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treftax: Hello NLers,

Being in a relationship is one of the best things of life but sometimes pple tend to turn it to a nightmare. I have a girlfriend whom I love so much. She tld Me am her first love ever so I thought it wise to play cool..bt the problem is she rarely calls or txt.To even say 'I love U' na serious fight and has resisted many of My attempts for a kiss.She claims she loves Me bt to express the love has bn d problem since we started 3 yrs ago.I ve bn spending on her ever since and I feel its one sided and has to stop.
Fellow Nairalanders should I wait tl she starts expressing her love? pls help a brother out for the love I have for her has blindfolded my reasoning. Pls no insults wea in our mid 20's so We matured. Thank You

My brother I fully understand what you are passing through. She does not love you and is using you to cater for her needs thereby fooling you. I advice you let her go and move on with your life.

3years? Boss you try o. How manage na? 3years and no kissing. U don fuc* up.....9ja gurls bad sha...make I hear say I no nack within One week

karbridals:
She is using ur head cos she noticed u love her.how can she not kiss u for good 3yrs of relationship,whats her reason?is she a virgin?even a virgin wld have given in if she really loves u.like u said,u spend on her nd that is the reason she is in it but guess what she will be telling her frnds(that u are a big fool,for 3yrs u have not touched nd her u keep spending)all these advises here will not even make u leave her that's for sure but be ready to come back nd tell how she left u after 5yrs of spending on her without a even a kiss.

am into same relationship oo
i hug her just once since we have been dating for about 1and half year. But i no take am serious until my friends start to tell me am a fool and her friends too start telling me she doesnt love me that she barely talk about me but she always talk about another. I for don leave the relationship but i was asually using the relationship 4 my music future career. I want real life tinx to sing about.