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The “Nice Guy" is someone who believes that he should go out of his way to always be sweet, nice, generous, and understanding, no matter what the circumstances.

Nice guys don't draw boundaries, they don't stand up for themselves, and they don't say "no" very often.

Usually, Nice Guys harbour a secret belief: That they're better than everyone else because they’re so "nice"

Of course, nothing could be futher from the truth, when you're being nice to ladies in order to get something back, you're being manipulated

Nice guys have idealistic fantasy of meeting a woman who just falls for them for who they are… without them having to actually do nothing.

Most of these guys go months without dates, which isn’t at all surprising.

The common ending to this story is that they meet a girl they think is all kinds of fun… and she realizes after not too long that she’s dealing with a Wussy who wants to kiss her ass and be Mr. Super Nice Guy… and she hits the road or makes his life hell.

"Nice Guys don't get laid"

they re fake, illussional and hide bhind the facade called nice

well i guess that's the way the cookie crumbles. girls like bad boys and ignore the nice, polite gentlemen (that's off course until they are ready to get married)

I posted this because i found too many topics identifying nice guys here, everybody wants a girlfriend. They always described themselves as nice, cool, God fearing, sometimes handsom e.t.c. But is too bad for them that attraction is not a choice.

Hey ! ! ! whats wrong with being a nice guy? ? ?

_{thought that what you ladies liked? ? ?}

ladies dont like them becuase they are too easy to find, they are seen everywhere, and they tells them the same thing all the time, like you're too beautiful, has anybody told you how beautiful you are, can you please go out wiht me, I am lucky to have you, e.t.c. If you do this, stop it!!!

Try and tell a nice man that you wanna cut off his head and come back and tell me, if he wont say NO.
Nice guys finishes last

Syma:

like you're too beautiful, has anybody told you how beautiful you are, can you please go out wiht me, I am lucky to have you, e.t.c. If you do this, stop it!!!

But all these are really nice things to say . . . .don't it? ? ?

But all these are really nice things to say . . . .don't it? ? ?

Yes they are, and stop saying them if you do.

Most of these 'nice guys' only pretend. We know that and we dont fall for their crap. Besides, we know they are just being manipualative; so why give them the satisfaction of falling

Ujujoan:

Most of these 'nice guys' only pretend. We know that and we don't fall for their crap. Besides, we know they are just being manipualative; so why give them the satisfaction of falling

i agree

I cannot speak for the Bobo Nice guys.
But what if women see you as nasty and a heart breaker, would you be the hard guy?

Nice guys dont need to get laid!
They derive enough joy and excitement from being nice

Thats a LIE. Nice guys get laid.


what is the definition of "nice"?

Do you mean born again xtians? Whose only form of socialization is church ?

Pls define nice.

Every human being has a ounce of evil in them.

hope all the nice guys will read this

Newsflash - Nice guys now get laid.

Almost every woman will tell you that they want a "real man", and this is where the nice guys fail it. Real man are not easy to find, but nice guys are everywhere. Believe me, woman don't usually end up with what they say they want, but what they respond to.

Real men are those who doesn't do the following:

Trying to get approval by giving it
Calling, visiting, writing often to prevent the woman from seeing other men
Giving too much, creating imbalance
Selling too far in advance
Become jealous and afraid of loosing a woman that they don't even have
Sharing feelings too early
Allowing the emotional infatuation to trigger obsessive behaviors and communication

The above list is the nice guys characters

All these definitions are confusing me, most women think nice guys are just guys who don't play games.

Nice guys are those who act by list above

Are you kidding me?
Nice guyz get laid o

Syma:

Almost every woman will tell you that they want a "real man", and this is where the nice guys fail it. Real man are not easy to find, but nice guys are everywhere. Believe me, woman don't usually end up with what they say they want, but what they respond to.

Real men are those who doesn't do the following:

Trying to get approval by giving it
Calling, visiting, writing often to prevent the woman from seeing other men
Giving too much, creating imbalance
Selling too far in advance
Become jealous and afraid of loosing a woman that they don't even have
Sharing feelings too early
Allowing the emotional infatuation to trigger obsessive behaviors and communication

The above list is the nice guys characters

Can you be so kind as to post what the "real men" do?

I happen to be a nice guy,

But WTF!!!!

don't mess with me, the only problem I find with myself is, any lady I happen to like, is bound to be loved, thats all, and I have only had 1 in like 8yrs,

Not that I am some sissy or something, just that, i strongly believe it's a waste of precious time scoping girls you only value their face, whatever anyway,

abeg lets stick 2 reality. . . . . . .nice guys dont get laid ionly in series and chickflicks

But do I get laid,  regurlarly,  by my sweetheart,

But do I by just any girl? Of course not!!!!,  not because I am Nice,  but because I spend less than: 50 days outside my crib in 365 days!!!, which means I can count the number of girls I have met in the last 2-3 years,  lets say: 5 girls,  excluding my employees, I can't remember the last time I even went to church,  I belong to NO group, I have never been to a night club except once, I am not a member of any social or political group, even all of my friends are usually thieves like me, and 95% of my friends are guys,  maybe 1-2 girls,   and I sincerely don't value the idea, it's a typical waste of time,

Plus as always,  I am classified as over generous,  so I tend to be careful were I place my riskiest investment,  at least,  my girl as a crib, a car and a driver,  and I doubt I want to do that for every tom, privates and harry, just because she's fine,

Problem with me I think is,  I only bond,  I don't play,  simply bond,

Is it possible for me to get laid by any passing chick,  hey,  I don't know oh,  that one na another tory,

So, do nice guys get laid,

Well, define the kind of nice guys,

I have met girls, I could easily take advantage of, but like I said, it's a waste of resources, do you guys know the kind of work it takes to even service a woman, it's a whole lot of energy that can be transformed to other productive energies, which will produce outstanding results!!!!!!

If I like a girl, can I get her, absolutely, at least, I can try, all my old skool methods,

so, @ poster, define your typical nice guy, there are nice guys and there are nice guys,

use to be nice(blind) but now i see (

I don't really understand what we are talking about here. I'm confused! are we trying to say that nice guys are BAD and that bad guys are GOOD. I don't just understand. This is simple ENGLISH. May be we should just go to the dictionary and get the meaning of the word NICE and stop mixing it up with relationship issues. A nice person, be it guy or lady is someone who is caring, receptive, understanding, kind and generally likeable or loveable.

Whoever is nice is NICE and whoever is bad is BAD. This is different from when a guy is weak, possessive, lacks understanding of how to talk to or approach a lady, lacks confidence etc. A bad guy could know how to do so many things and yet lacks the knowhow to talk to or approach a lady. The same goes to a nice guy.

I have a friend is who very bold and confident, infact he is regarded as one of the happening guys in my area but when it comes to women issues, he is just not there. I have equally seen very nice guys that are smooth talkers. I think the issue of being weak, not knowing how to woo a lady etc is an attitude problem and not a matter of being a NICE or BAD guy. Mind you, some of these so called NICE guys may turn out to be extremely BAD. After being jilted or maltreated by ladies they come back for revenge and when they do, they turn out to be VERY VERY BAD. They usually have this attitude of USE THEM and DUMP THEM.

I don't mean guys should be bad ladies, what i am trying to say here is that, is not good to be too nice to women.
Red the bellow:

"In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…"


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