denzel swt:

So do nice guys really finish last? This subject has been the big topic of discussing since ages and almost every guy out there wants to know whether nice guys do finish last. You see there are a lot of misconceptions on this topic but the facts are only known to a select few. Now you are being introduced to the real facts. Read on to discover what the real answer is and put an end to the mystery forever,

Yes it's true- Well in one simple line yes nice guys do finish last and there are several reasons for that. You see nice guys make several mistakes due to which women are repelled.

They adapt to anything- They are willing to change themselves according to the woman which means they will do anything to be around the kind of woman they want to be around which is a very strong sign of weakness and women don't like weak men. They want to be around someone who is a strong decision maker.

They are highly insecure- This is one of the biggest reasons why nice guys always finish last. You see the problem with most nice guys is that they are some what insecure about themselves and they are not sure about their own opinion about themselves that's why they go around asking for someone else's opinion. At the same time they feel they are just not good enough and they will never find the kind of woman they desire therefore they try to be overly nice when they do find one. They have a loser like attitude which women dislike and that's why they finish last.

MRbrownJAY:

please dont misunderstand a "nice" guy with a "desperate" one. . . . . .  the one you just portrayed is a sucker who should be ran away from by all women. this is the kind of men that will pretend to be someone/anyone to get woman and then becomes his true self with time. . . . . . .  by then, the poor gal will realize that she is dating/married to a sucker thus the reason for breakup. just a waste of time!

i think you are referring to insecure guys which has absolutely NOTHING to do with nice guys.
where did you get this degree of yours?! you got robbed bro!

let me help you: one of the reason why nice guys "finish last" may be because some women are attracted to bad boys and think they can "tame them therefore overlooking quality.
also some women DONT want nice guy and if YOU think that a nice guy will always win the good gal then you are living in lalaland and dont have a clue about women.
it could be that nice guys finish last with bad gals and that they only finish first with top gals. . . . . . . . . .  dont be blinded by all the wolves in sheep clothing out there, not all that glitters is gold.
also it could be that what YOU perceives as a top gal might not be the kind of gal that "nice guy" is after. . . . . . . .  after all "nice guy" will only settle for the best!

.NET:

You're about 85% correct with your analysis.

From my recent personal experiences, women are most often attracted to guys who are confident in where they are gong - not neccesarily the "NICE" guys.

madlady:

^^^   Why would you be banned , I wondered why I had not seen you around.
         I look forward to to reading more of your replies, so does justjane2

MRbrownJAY:

well Nairaland didnt see fit/appropriate to give me a reason as to why i was banned. . . . . . . . . they just locked my profile, wrote on it that i had sent a "spam like" msg (whatever that is) and threw away the key lol!

slyfoxxjoe:

what peeps fail to understand is that there is a difference between being nice and being a dullard (ode) the characteristics u described in the post are not that of a nice guy but that of a dullard. there is nothing wrong with being nice to a lady ( i.e helping her in time of need, comforting her etc) but going around agreeing to EVERYTHING she says and requests for, even changing your personality to siut her makes u look week and easy. no woman (or nobody for that matter) likes things too easy. a guy who is to easy is bound to get the woman bored overtime and thats when she starts looking for challenges elsewhere. my advice is be firm when u guys have a fight and u know for a fact that she was wrong DO NOT appologize no matter how long the fight drags on for. make it clear to her that u love her but will not kiss her a.s.s for NOTHING. always point out that there are tonz of girls out there u can get involved with if she shakaras too much (this i true no matter how much of a run down guy u are ) a woman loves suspence and a little bit of uncertainty in a relationship. u dont have to be rude to do this as a woman wants a man who will take charge not one who she can roll over. the formular to keeping a woman is to be nice to her, show her u love her, but command your respect and authority at all costs. sorry to bore yall with this long message but its the gospel truth.

MRbrownJAY:

well Nairaland didnt see fit/appropriate to give me a reason as to why i was banned. . . . . . . . . they just locked my profile, wrote on it that i had sent a "spam like" msg (whatever that is) and threw away the key lol!

Same thing happened to be. My profile has just been un-banned after 3 days. This is beginning to irritate me. Just banning people for no reason.

madlady:

@Topic NO nice honest decent guys do not finish last, they win in the end, they get a REAL life.
 
   A girl may play with a bad guy but when it comes to marrying or running business with a guy the HONEST guy wins.

So, she'll play with the bad guy and then the good guy gets the remnant? lmao

I've always known this and that's why I'm a bad guy now that I'm younger. When I want to settle down, I'll be good

I win both ways

Faher:


So, she'll play with the bad guy and then the good guy gets the remnant? lmao

I've always known this and that's why I'm a bad guy now that I'm younger. When I want to settle down, I'll be good

I win both ways