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He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by Pollypat: 2:28pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
i was with my boyfriend for 3 years.He dumped me for this girl and gave me an excuse that he was not happy being with me lately. After broke up i found out that i'm pragnant.I told him and he wanted me to abort the baby but i decide to keep it.He was with me at my house while we broke up for 2 month and the last month he left and went with other girl(diferent one from the start) the reason he left because i kicked him out. he stayed with her for 3 weeks and now he accepted that i will keep the baby. Recently he was sick and i was with him at the hospital.And now he told me that he wants to get back with me.He's missed me after he gone.He made a mistake and blah blah blah, I still love him but i dont know what to do because i dotn know if i can really trust him.And i still want to the what would be the real reason that he wants me back |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 2:31pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
why did u "take in" in d first place? |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by Adonica(f): 2:32pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
There isn't much you can do at this point since you are knocked up. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by dani1luv: 2:38pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
oo Pollypat: blah blah blah blah w3at a pity |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by MrCrackles(m): 2:39pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
rampagain: she couldnt resist the hot Akamu!! |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by spikedcylinder: 2:41pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
In a different situation I would have said you shouldn't take him back but seeing as there's a baby involved and you want to keep it, you might want to think hard about it. Problem remains that he might leave you again and raising a child alone cant be easy. Ok, I haven't said anything meaningful. Sorry sha. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by mekk(m): 2:45pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
Pollypat: tell him to go to hell. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 2:50pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
mekk: dont say that, frm experience i can tell u he will be more loving than b4 now. take him back |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by amyliajane(f): 2:52pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
tell him to go to hell and then what happens to the baby |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 2:54pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
idupaul: idupaul that is not always true u know? |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 2:55pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
rampagain: @ poster pls disregard question @rampaagain i said from experience. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 2:58pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
idupaul: this regard what?seriously r u alright?a girl takin in for a man who's not even sure he wants to end up wt her,what will she do now if d man leaves her,bring the child into the world,or abort the innocent blood,is that not stupidity of the highest order? your experience is not true,so tell that to d birds |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 3:05pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
rampagain: |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 3:08pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
idupaul im done wt u,all i have to say is grow up,its men like u that leave them orange sellers for sugar mummies and then want to come back after draining the woman u sandstorm is d smallest boi this forum has ever produced infact u thinking im lonely clearly shows that you're not only a kid,but you're also full of shits ciao |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 3:20pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
@ rampaagain(bustaaa) wats ur problem with kids and small boys, u seem to have a morbid haterd for them. Agbaya |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 3:23pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
idupaul: he thinks im busta.ROTFLMSGBO OH GAWD |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 3:26pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
i dont think ur anyone, meant to write busy body twas an error |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by tRoOE(f): 3:27pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
[size=13pt]some ole bullshit Do what's best for you and your baby Don't you have a mother or someone like motherly figure that can advice you Seriously Nland is not the place to get help[/size] |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 3:31pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
tRoOE: @ poster exactly wat i was saying hw can u come and take advise from some lonely and broken hearted person, abeg take troes advise go an see ur mum. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by arramyjay: 3:33pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
Sweetie i think you shud let him go,What if u werent in the hospital with him wud he hv said he wanted you back?think abt it,u are pregnant,the last thing u need is a 2nd heart break,he is just a very confused guy and dnt go back to him,he will ruin you again.and who told you you cant survive on your own.let me go.u will find some1 else. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 3:34pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
tRoOE: seriously sweetie uve said it all,sm nlders are full of only gawd knows what,sm aren't even up to 20 years,they have nothing upstairs,d poster should go wt u but she has to admit that she made a very stupid mistake by takin in,i don't hide my mouth,d truth is painful but she has to accept it maybe dis experience will open her eyes,and make her wise in future,cos shes not |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 3:38pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
seriously sweetie uve said it all,sm nlders are full of only gawd knows what,sm aren't even up to 20 years,they have nothing upstairs,d poster should go wt u @ poster its true worse still is that some are more than 40 and still dont have more sense than a flea. pls take our good advise and go and see ur mum. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 3:40pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
*yawns* taaataaaataaaa |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 3:42pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
mumbles** agbayas*** |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by sistawoman: 3:45pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
Sweety, Think twice before you decide to be a single mom, the pay sucks, the hours are long and there is no pay off for at least 18 years. But for real it is a really hard job. If he wants to come back i would say welcome him back just do so with both eyes open knowing he may leave again. Or tell him you want to get married but only if you love him and believe that you are able to look past his faults, deal with his pet peaves and love him desipte it all. i wish you, your child and the father of that child lots of love and luck. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by rampagain: 3:46pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
ROTFLMSGBO idupaul abeg your stupidity dey make me laff,cpntinue showing off your pikinhood,its allowed coward,just to pass msg across one time naim u change your id to sandstorm,onye ara oh gawdddddd,i sabi say u be crace person so your replies no dey affect me one bit.first na busta,cadet,d-reloaded,many more and them moi u r known as a weakling,u is sick honey ,see person wey dey call e agabaya i berra remain agabaya dan small pikin maturity no be age,i sure say wetin i use senior u go be a few years,but your head still be like my little niece of 5yrs own |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by Godalone(m): 3:47pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
Nairaland is not the best place to seek advice on an issue like this,consult the elderly ones. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by jemima2007(f): 4:10pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
the main reason he want you back is because the new gf has him to move out or dump him.pls dont make the same mistake i made pls |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by superstan(m): 4:23pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
Pollypat: what have u got to lose? take him back asap. the most important thing here is you still love him. afterall, love conquereth all. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 4:37pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
jemima2007: jemima ma don they give advise, na waoo from heart broken to prime advisor all in 6 days. |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by idupaul: 4:42pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
rampagain: i dont even understand a bit of what u sai here, only God knows who sandstorm was, i did nt have a finger in dat, agbaya keep on chasing shadows eeenmnnn . |
Re: He Wants Me Back After Dumping Me For 3 Months by opsydudu(m): 5:37pm On Sep 15, 2008 |
well i'm disappointed when instead of contributing to a thread some nairalanders pick up fights here and there. make una cool down oh! at poster take him back, you made a big mistake by getting pregnant for him and worst still you allowed him to live with you all along. He is a broke ass muthafucka (sorry), if he can't get his act together then you have to learn to live with him the way he is for the rest of your live. it will be difficult for any man to accept you after one child or more difficult if you want to be a single mother. goodluck |
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