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What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Missmossy(f): 1:40pm On Jun 28, 2014
What would you do if you found out your spouse had a child out of wedlock?


For me,i'd be shocked and disappointed at first but since the deed has been done i'd just want to know how the kid is faring. All that has to do with the mother and child in question are of immense importance.

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by pasqal09: 1:51pm On Jun 28, 2014
My trust for her would die totally, for ur spouse to hide such from you? Hmmm

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by jnrbayano(m): 2:03pm On Jun 28, 2014
My trust for her will shatter.
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by daveP(m): 2:22pm On Jun 28, 2014
What! When she had 5000hrs to tell me,nw waiting till the 'aisle hour' yawa go gas!
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by crackhaus: 2:24pm On Jun 28, 2014
It's highly unlikely that a woman would keep such information from her spouse, men are more culpable of this.

However for the sake of your question, I guess i'll just tell her to keep hiding the kid wherever she's been hiding him/her and not try to force the kids' fatherhood on me.
That ship already sailed when she decided to hide the existence of her child from me before we got serious.

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by dre11(m): 2:33pm On Jun 28, 2014
She get pikin and she no talk......

That one fit kill person oooooo

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Tyche(m): 2:37pm On Jun 28, 2014
I will open a thread about it on NL and ask for advise embarassed embarassed embarassed

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by durella4(m): 2:50pm On Jun 28, 2014
B4 both of u even get married u must ve known everytink about urself But if he/she tells u after wedlock mehn me I will feel sad if only ve ask her about it n she still say No.
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Tolexander: 3:36pm On Jun 28, 2014
Missmossy: What would you do if you found out your spouse had a child out of wedlock?


For me,i'd be shocked and disappointed at first but since the deed has been done i'd just want to know how the kid is faring. All that has to do with the mother and child in question are of immense importance.
that is good riddance!

Why would she have a baby and wouldn't inform me before getting married?

Only God will settle that case in heaven o!
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jun 28, 2014
Tyche: I will open a thread about it on NL and ask for advise embarassed embarassed embarassed





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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:05pm On Jun 28, 2014
First, I will thank God for a proof of fertility grin.

She should have made it a secret forever because telling me doesn't mean I will keep the child in my house. undecided
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jun 28, 2014
Tyche: I will open a thread about it on NL and ask for advise embarassed embarassed embarassed
grin
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise: First, I will thank God for a proof of fertility grin.

She should have made it a secret forever because telling me doesn't mean I will keep the child in my house. undecided

do you have an extra marital child? undecided

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Tyche(m): 4:17pm On Jun 28, 2014
Odilafta:





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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:19pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: do you have an extra marital child? undecided
Nope. Do you?
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
Nope. Do you?
nope
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:22pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: nope
Sure?
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
Sure?
are you sure?
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:25pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: are you sure?
I asked first undecided
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
I asked first undecided
im very much sure, because if i did would have given birth before. How sure are you that you really don't have one?
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:29pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: im very much sure, because if i did would have given birth before. How sure are you that you really don't have one?
I don't have. My sperm is not that dumb undecided
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
I don't have. My sperm is not that dumb undecided
pics of you not having extra marital children or adonbilivit grin
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:31pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: pics of you not having extra marital children or adonbilivit grin
Which of the pictures do you need? My virginity pictures? grin
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
Which of the pictures do you need? My virginity pictures? grin
post em grin
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:35pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: post em grin

Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise: .
is that skydeep grin
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:45pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: is that skydeep grin
Lol. Nah!
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
Lol. Nah!
so who were you looking at shocked
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jun 28, 2014
Tyche: I will open a thread about it on NL and ask for advise embarassed embarassed embarassed
grin
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by xynerise(m): 4:54pm On Jun 28, 2014
Mondisweets: so who were you looking at shocked
I was doing my morning exercise cool. I didn't notice her presence
Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jun 28, 2014
xynerise:
I was doing my morning exercise cool. I didn't notice her presence
chineke see lies grin

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Re: What Would You Do If You found Out Your Spouse Had A Child Out Of Wedlock? by Lorlaahlozz: 7:12pm On Jun 29, 2014
D 1st thing dah'll come to my mind is about killing d prsn

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