So myself and a close friend recently had a discussion about him dating a woman much younger than he is, about 14years age difference. They are both educated.But the parents are against the relationship because of the age difference. She is 22 and he's 36. According to my friend she is emotionally and mentally matured and displays wisdom far beyond her age. In addition she is level-headed, very responsible and focused. So i am throwing the question back to nairalanders. Please matured, deep and wise responses would be very much appreciated. Thank you.

I don carry seat enter come sidon dey wait

Nothing wrong... Just dat when he was 20 she was 6

yorex2011: Nothing wrong... Just dat when he was 20 she was 6

lol
So? what's your point?

i wouldnt do it

i'm in love with a man 15years older than i am and our relationship is wat i would call perfect even though there isnt really a perfect relationship.

dat age difference is okay and is even d best to me. she got to mke her parents see reasons, for those who married a man close to their age, how many of dem are happy in their marriage.
marriage is all about maturity and d readiness to be a wife or a husband

bumax:


lol
So? what's your point?

D point is dat... When he was 22, she was 8

AfricanApple: i'm in love with a man 15years older than i am and our relationship is wat i would call perfect even though there isnt really a perfect relationship.

dat age difference is okay and is even d best to me. she got to mke her parents see reasons, for those who married a man close to their age, how many of dem are happy in their marriage.
marriage is all about maturity and d readiness to be a wife or a husband

Many are happy

Na wa o

AfricanApple: i'm in love with a man 15years older than i am and our relationship is wat i would call perfect even though there isnt really a perfect relationship.

dat age difference is okay and is even d best to me. she got to mke her parents see reasons, for those who married a man close to their age, how many of dem are happy in their marriage.
marriage is all about maturity and d readiness to be a wife or a husband

good point african apple, thanks.
But, just out of curiosity how old are you?

@farano:
Na wa o

@farano, what is ''wa'' about the matter huh?

AfricanApple: i'm in love with a man 15years older than i am and our relationship is wat i would call perfect even though there isnt really a perfect relationship.

dat age difference is okay and is even d best to me. she got to mke her parents see reasons, for those who married a man close to their age, how many of dem are happy in their marriage.
marriage is all about maturity and d readiness to be a wife or a husband

Bebe, I'm inspired! I loved you at first sight jare

I am planning to marry a lady that is 30 yrs older than I am. That's my choice

MizMyColi: Bebe, I'm inspired! I loved you at first sight jare

14 years ooo

Its all abt choice

well for me i think it's o.k.it doesn't really matter much as long as the love is there & they are both matured enough to carry each other along in the relationship #my take#

ifex370:
14 years ooo

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LoL @ 14 yrs. Since when is it a crime to say that.

I'm not one and I don't judge those who are.

AfricanApple's the first chic I noticed on NL.....She had never disappointed. No, not in this NL life or the former one with the same Moniker (Miz), So, Yes, I Love Her. *Oya, Let the handcuff(ers) roll in*



Oh & BTW......I've just stalked you

#my opinion# to me age is a "number" as long as they are both matured, love and understand each other. it's o.k

Like aliyah sang in one of her hits, age ain't nothing but number. Whatever rocks your boat sister.

bumax:

good point african apple, thanks.
But, just out of curiosity how old are you?

i no gree o, tell u my age ke

MizMyColi: Bebe, I'm inspired! I loved you at first sight jare

tnx dear, d feeling is mutual

AfricanApple: tnx dear, d feeling is mutual

MizMyColi:
*edited*

LoL @ 14 yrs. Since when is it a crime to say that.

I'm not one and I don't judge those who are.

AfricanApple's the first chic I noticed on NL.....She had never disappointed. No, not in this NL life or the former one with the same Moniker (Miz), So, Yes, I Love Her. *Oya, Let the handcuff(ers) roll in*



Oh & BTW......I've just stalked you

i comment my reserve

AfricanApple: tnx dear, d feeling is mutual

Tell them Good Morning Sweets....Hava fun Day.

bumax: So myself and a close friend recently had a discussion about him dating a woman much younger than he is, about 14years age difference. They are both educated.But the parents are against the relationship because of the age difference. She is 22 and he's 36. According to my friend she is emotionally and mentally matured and displays wisdom far beyond her age. In addition she is level-headed, very responsible and focused. So i am throwing the question back to nairalanders. Please matured, deep and wise responses would be very much appreciated. Thank you.

africans and their stupid mentality. If na the woman be 36,i sure say all hell go don break loose

dere's notin wrong wit dat...
but make d gurl no kome hia dey complain wen tyme don reach for ur friend to hang his golden-boots while she go still feel like playing d champions league oooo

Just look at Hugh Hefner and his wife, there's a
60 year age gap, she's 27 and he's
87....and they found "true" love.
If they made it work,then why can't
others with smaller age gaps?

mascot87: I am planning to marry a lady that is 30 yrs older than I am. That's my choice

Lollz....you kidding right?

Hopefully like dumb B out there
You will not come and called him old man

There's nothing wrong with it.
As long as the girl is not underage

cococandy: There's nothing wrong with it.
As long as the girl is not underage

Your user account is very new
So what other user name do you have on NL?

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