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Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Abroad1987: 2:12pm On Apr 28, 2018
Pls friends.. I seriously need ur advice n don't insult or criticize me.. I am into this at the moment... I met Dis guy in school way back 2012 ..we dated till I 2015 we went for service year.. I love him so much dat I cudnt cheat on him.. we separated in service year Dats year 2015..yl dating him back in school I aborted twice for him..he called me a bad egg n dats lead to our quarrel n we separated.. from 2015 till 2018 I cudnt love or date or stay in any relationship cs I was so much in love dat I cudnt give anybody a chance.. my friends later advices me dat sins I love him dis much y can't I just drop my ego den go back to him.. I called him.. we spoke for weeks n he agreed for us to come back together.. I traveled to meet him.. I was so happy I ad him back cs he said he just broke his last relationship.. we were both happy... we had sex n boom I am pregnant.. I called him.. he said we wud kip d baby n now he is saying I shud go flush it.. Dis is d third one.. I can't abort.. he said two other girls are pregnant for him at the moment too ..he told me it is left to me if I wana kip d baby cs I won't find him by dem.. he said he is not coming to see my parent either n he is not ready for any marriage... Pls nairalanders I need ur advice
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by SUPERPACK: 2:15pm On Apr 28, 2018
get a screwdriver and tighten the borehole between your leg simple.

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Preshy561(f): 2:16pm On Apr 28, 2018
shocked sorry about your condition darl. How many weeks/months pregnant?
just keep the baby,I love babies.embarassed

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Abroad1987: 2:19pm On Apr 28, 2018
it's just a month... I seriously dunno Wat to do.. Ca I don't think I can bare this.. my parent already despise me.. am alone
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Timekeeper: 2:19pm On Apr 28, 2018
Abroad1987:
Pls friends.. I seriously need ur advice n don't insult or criticize me.. I am into this at the moment... I met Dis guy in school way back 2012 ..we dated till I 2015 we went for service year.. I love him so much dat I cudnt cheat on him.. we separated in service year Dats year 2015..yl dating him back in school I aborted twice for him..he called me a bad egg n dats lead to our quarrel n we separated.. from 2015 till 2018 I cudnt love or date or stay in any relationship cs I was so much in love dat I cudnt give anybody a chance.. my friends later advices me dat sins I love him dis much y can't I just drop my ego den go back to him.. I called him.. we spoke for weeks n he agreed for us to come back together.. I traveled to meet him.. I was so happy I ad him back cs he said he just broke his last relationship.. we were both happy... we had sex n boom I am pregnant.. I called him.. he said we wud kip d baby n now he is saying I shud go flush it.. Dis is d third one.. I can't abort.. he said two other girls are pregnant for him at the moment too ..he told me it is left to me if I wana kip d baby cs I won't find him by dem.. he said he is not coming to see my parent either n he is not ready for any marriage... Pls nairalanders I need ur advice



Y have sex without no condom? After two abortion, he called you bad egg, he reconciled with you and still open yansh down again for sex without no protection. He is rich bA? you sef you like abortion.. Na your thing, keep aborting till you abort your life.... Better join the league of baby mamas

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by obi4eze(m): 2:20pm On Apr 28, 2018
Mumu2.

Na you do yourself. So na you sabi.

You went back to sleep with a guy for whom you had twice aborted and you call that love.

You don't even love yourself in the first place not to talk of loving another person. Maybe you just liked the way he gives you sexual satisfaction and you thought you were in love.

Well, carry your pregnancy and learn your lesson the hard way.

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by ezebrightike: 2:21pm On Apr 28, 2018
This life self, na shit u wan flush
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Abroad1987: 2:21pm On Apr 28, 2018
super pack if u had nothing to say u could have just keep quite n say a silent pray that wetin go make u dey in delima shud not happen to you

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Preshy561(f): 2:23pm On Apr 28, 2018
Abroad1987:
it's just a month... I seriously dunno Wat to do.. Ca I don't think I can bare this.. my parent already despise me.. am alone
nawa,seems the guy is a badluck.
if you have the finances,just keep the baby.
best wishes though.
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Timekeeper: 2:24pm On Apr 28, 2018
Abroad1987:
super pack if u had nothing to say u could have just keep quite n say a silent pray that wetin go make u dey in delima shud not happen to you


Wait, I addonblivit, you are advising someone when you are in a deep poo... Na sorry be your name.. Correct guys came for you, u no want, u say na bad guy u want, well u finally got it....

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by propanet(m): 2:27pm On Apr 28, 2018
You were born 1987, so you are no more a kid.
Be responsible for your actions and inaction
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by mrtomola(m): 2:28pm On Apr 28, 2018
Just keep the baby...better days ahead

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by MhizzAJ(f): 2:28pm On Apr 28, 2018
cheesy cheesy

All these girls that like spreading their legs like pliers for small small unserious boys ehn


Keep the baby oo....He's responsible for it,so hold him tight...I don't support abortion or flushing

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by spencekat(m): 2:29pm On Apr 28, 2018
Abroad1987:
it's just a month... I seriously dunno Wat to do.. Ca I don't think I can bare this.. my parent already despise me.. am alone
I beg you to keep the baby.The baby deserves to live.

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by vhatpweetygurl(f): 2:30pm On Apr 28, 2018
Honestly you shouldn't have gone back to him no matter wHat.If he had been the one that came back you won't be in this situation.Am pro life so I advice you keep the baby it's not gonna be a smooth ride but with God on your side things will just be fine.

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Truckpusher(m): 2:31pm On Apr 28, 2018
MhizzAJ:
cheesy cheesy

All these girls that like spreading their legs like pliers for small small unserious boys ehn


Keep the baby oo....He's responsible for it,so hold him tight...I don't support abortion or flushing
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by samigben(m): 2:37pm On Apr 28, 2018
Abroad1987:
Pls friends.. I seriously need ur advice n don't insult or criticize me.. I am into this at the moment... I met Dis guy in school way back 2012 ..we dated till I 2015 we went for service year.. I love him so much dat I cudnt cheat on him.. we separated in service year Dats year 2015..yl dating him back in school I aborted twice for him..he called me a bad egg n dats lead to our quarrel n we separated.. from 2015 till 2018 I cudnt love or date or stay in any relationship cs I was so much in love dat I cudnt give anybody a chance.. my friends later advices me dat sins I love him dis much y can't I just drop my ego den go back to him.. I called him.. we spoke for weeks n he agreed for us to come back together.. I traveled to meet him.. I was so happy I ad him back cs he said he just broke his last relationship.. we were both happy... we had sex n boom I am pregnant.. I called him.. he said we wud kip d baby n now he is saying I shud go flush it.. Dis is d third one.. I can't abort.. he said two other girls are pregnant for him at the moment too ..he told me it is left to me if I wana kip d baby cs I won't find him by dem.. he said he is not coming to see my parent either n he is not ready for any marriage... Pls nairalanders I need ur advice
I Beg You in the Name Of Jesus Christ Don't Abort the baby it could be the Greatest of all you will Have.
Please Don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please Don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by NwaAmaikpe: 2:38pm On Apr 28, 2018
shocked


I won't advice him to see your parents either because they are the ones who brought up a piece of wayward scum like you.

I'd advise you to just start buying baby items now and find it in your heart to thank your now exboyfriend for being kind enough to donate his sperm to you

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Abroad1987: 2:46pm On Apr 28, 2018
nwaa.... I just laughed cs I see no sense in u... advice not insult..
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by hazandino(m): 2:48pm On Apr 28, 2018
ma sista, if u knw u have d resources to keep diz baby .i think u should juzt let d soul be .......
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Abroad1987: 2:50pm On Apr 28, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I won't advice him to see your parents either because they are the ones who brought up a piece of wayward scum like you.

I'd advice you to just start buying baby items now and find it in your heart to thank your now exboyfriend for being kind enough to donate his sperm to you
u need to ask ur mum if u a product of a leaked condom cs ion know Wat ur problem is

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by hazandino(m): 2:52pm On Apr 28, 2018
ma sista, if u knw u have d resources to keep diz baby .i think u should juzt let d soul be ....... d soul will as well increase d bond btw u and dat ur so call mean boy fwend.... (women? confusionist! !!!!)
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Abroad1987: 2:52pm On Apr 28, 2018
samigben:

I Beg You in the Name Of Jesus Christ Don't Abort the baby it could be the Greatest of all you will Have.
Please Don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please Don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thanks u made my day

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Adasun(m): 3:13pm On Apr 28, 2018
Abort at ur own peril,u gals can be heartless
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by thorpido(m): 3:21pm On Apr 28, 2018
I'll advise you keep the baby though it won't be a smooth ride.
Tell your parents and if you know where your guy's parents live,tell them too
You can then start to sort yourself from there.
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 3:28pm On Apr 28, 2018
If not for the inadequate healthcare system in Nigeria, abortion, carried out properly shouldn't be stressful or pose any danger to fertility.
But condoms are relatively inexpensive. You should know better, having had 2 prior incidents. It's your body, your decision, don't let anyone pressure you
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by ufuosman(m): 3:36pm On Apr 28, 2018
Be strong, kip the child
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by rex444(m): 4:58pm On Apr 28, 2018
Justin bieber was a product of this same situation n he turned out good
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:21pm On Apr 28, 2018
Keep the baby
The boy Issa slim daddy
At least you will be consoled by the fact that he is handsome

ISSA CUTE BABY SOMETHING
ISSA FINE BOY SOMETHING
ISSA HEALTH CARE SOMETHING
ISSA BABY FOOD SOMETHING
ISSA BABY WEARS SOMETHING

MAKE YOUR TOTO REST TOO FOR 9MONTHS

some bitches deserve this
Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Avedonn: 5:33pm On Apr 28, 2018
Op, please don't mind those mocking you. What they failed to realize is anyone can find him or herself in such mess.

You've made a mistake by going back to him for the second time, but the deed has been done.

Here's my advise.

Don't allow the mistake ruin your life so abort the pregnancy and move on with your life.

I don't know your financial status, but if you are struggling and you keep it, life might be so difficult for you afterwards.

Don't mind those that'll advise you to keep the pregnancy because they'd be the same set of people to castigate you in the feature by calling you baby mama and also advise others not to marry a single Mom.

As for your ex boyfriend, I think he's lying by claiming two ladies are pregnant for him. He just want you to abort the pregnancy.

Please cut all ties with him and resist the temptation of going back to him.

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by bomasek(m): 5:45pm On Apr 28, 2018
If u v the resources for ante n post natale I'll advice u keep the baby,u may not be able to conceive in the future if u flush it,mind u its the third foetus u r carrying.

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Re: Abortion Again.. No Way.. Pls I Need Advice by Mr2wealth: 5:55pm On Apr 28, 2018
I am looking for the fruit of the womb. Give birth and give the baby to me. Don't abort. undecided

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