vizkiz: i cnt still believe this is happening...i love her so much but she broke my heart...we have been together for four years and she threw it away like its nothing.

I have been crying my heart out since yesternight...my cloth is soacked with tears cuz i cnt stop crying.

i need to take this like a man but its hard to move on...please guys help me out. I need help!

Meestique: We should help u out in crying or what?

Eberex:

What happened to cause her to break up with you, in details please.

vizkiz:

she's going out with someone else...

vizkiz:

she's going out with someone else...

vizkiz: i cnt still believe this is happening...i love her so much but she broke my heart...we have been together for four years and she threw it away like its nothing.

I have been crying my heart out since yesternight...my cloth is soacked with tears cuz i cnt stop crying.

i need to take this like a man but its hard to move on...please guys help me out. I need help!

vizkiz:

Am not in good mood...But i think you know what you should have typed

or3gon: hmm, my guy, i feel u. it's not going to be easy. just give am time, you'll get over it. trust me i know

What should i do bro...believe me,i have been calling her a hUndred times

@farano:
Una no go hear. Reserve your romantic love for your wife alone.. Don't cry ur eyes out of their sockets o

Eberex:
This person she is going out with, do you know him? Is he better looking? Is he rich? What makes him different from you? and lastly how did she break the news to you?

Meestique: Aww! My bad! I thought u had joined Andyblaze nd yungwizzy with their never ending tales.

nitrogen:

Choi! Nawa o, kpele take heart, hope for the best, and please, don't make any attempt to hurt yourself o, go meet a friend and unwind (I mean tell that person everything) so you can be light a bit.

@farano:
Una no go hear. Reserve your romantic love for your wife alone.. Don't cry ur eyes out of their sockets o

vizkiz:

so am i at fault for showing "romantic love" to the girl i wish to marry?

@farano:
Yes! Why u no marry am since.

vizkiz:

You talk like marriage is something anybody can rush into

Eberex:

There was something you did joor!!! she cant just run off with someone else. talk true jare

vizkiz: i cnt still believe this is happening...i love her so much but she broke my heart...we have been together for four years and she threw it away like its nothing.

I have been crying my heart out since yesternight...my cloth is soacked with tears cuz i cnt stop crying.

i need to take this like a man but its hard to move on...please guys help me out. I need help!

Eberex:

There was something you did joor!!! she cant just run off with someone else. talk true jare

vizkiz:

are you saying it was my fault she left?

striktlymi:

It's okay to cry. If you feel like crying some more, please do and don't bottle everything in there lest you explode.

Fallen in love is always a 'good to have', it can make one see the world from a whole new perspective, a better perspective I must add.

However, it is very common for one to mistake their feelings for love. Feelings or emotions are quite powerful and this is one reason we MUST put them in check, though not easy.

To be really in love with another simply means that you are ready to do everything good for that person, within the bounds of reason; which is quite different from doing everything for the person.

In your case, what I think would be a good thing to do for her is let her make her own choices, even when it comes to her choice of whom to be with, irrespective of whether she decides to be with you or not.

I admit that it's quite difficult to accept the choice of someone else for her, instead of you but if that is what she wants then the loving thing to do is allow her decide without compulsion.

You cry now because you have grown too emotional attached to her and probably gotten used to the idea that you can't do much without her. This is a lie most of us tend to believe. We can actually have a very rewarding future with someone else other than our ex's.

My advice to you would be to cheer up first of all. Be around people you are comfortable with, especially those who can make you laugh. Have no grudge against her. Though difficult, still remain her friend. Do not judge every lady ased on your past experience. When you are ready, start dating again knowing that everything will be alright.

thanks boss....but how can i forget and get over the feelings if am still being a friend to her

Eberex:

Yes it is. By the way have you had time to ask her why she left? Believe me, you'd like to know so you don't fall victim again.

vizkiz:

Thanks....i'll do just that. But i am not feeling alive now

vizkiz: i cnt still believe this is happening...i love her so much but she broke my heart...we have been together for four years and she threw it away like its nothing.

I have been crying my heart out since yesternight...my cloth is soacked with tears cuz i cnt stop crying.

i need to take this like a man but its hard to move on...please guys help me out. I need help!

vizkiz: i cnt still believe this is happening...i love her so much but she broke my heart...we have been together for four years and she threw it away like its nothing.

I have been crying my heart out since yesternight...my cloth is soacked with tears cuz i cnt stop crying.

i need to take this like a man but its hard to move on...please guys help me out. I need help!