So you have been dating for say two years and you have both started planning your future together. You both know you are gonna get married eventually. You are even talking about fixing a date for the wedding. He talks about marrying you like it's a done deal but there's just a little problem. He has not officially popped the question! You know, the big question we all expect in a dramatic way. He goes down on his knees and asks, 'Will you marry me?' Maybe on your birthday during the surprise party. We all picture the romantic proposal that makes our hearts flutter and you just want to shout, YES! YESS!! But it doesn't happen like you picture it.
Note: You are absolutely certain he's serious and wants to marry you but he just doesn't think the big grand proposal is necessary.

What do you do?
Is it really necessary?
Does he really have to ask?

Yes and Yes

I don't understand

bestestgirl: Yes and Yes

So what do u do if he doesn't? Don't forget he really wants to marry you.

That question 'Will you marry me' scares me

Does he intend to give an engagement ring?..or its str8 to the church?

you can simply hear him out by bringin the discussion up....

Must man do everything for them ??

mz mariah: That question 'Will you marry me' scares me

but yu will surely answer it one day.. (if not already)

Mehn_ It's better to lock up and start preparing for the wedding than to ask that question directly.

At the last minute, something might just trigger her brain and she might say No.

A word is enough for the Wise.

jobsat34:

but yu will surely answer it one day.. (if not already)

I've not answered it, I know I will one day but I'm even scared of answering it.

mz mariah: I've not answered it, I know I will one day but I'm even scares of answering it.

do yu have any choice ??

jobsat34:

do yu have any choice ??

No. my fear is 'who will ask me the question.

mz mariah: No. my fear is 'who will ask me the question.

my own fear is who will i ask d question

mz mariah: That question 'Will you marry me' scares me

will you marry me?

mz mariah: No. my fear is 'who will ask me the question.

comot d fear, I don ask already, again will you marry me?

or3gon: comot d fear, I don ask already, again will you marry me?

Now I'm going to faint

wasak:

my own fear is who will i ask d question

God will provide

The thing is people change when they marry. some men will turn to beasts and women to Jezebels. its complicated

woky: I don't understand

You have understanding problem abi

How's that NL problem? When you were busy using your school fees for agege bread and akara, and running to your girlfriend's house till school dismiss, you forgot that one day you'll be ask to read and understand simple sentence in English.

mz mariah: Now I'm going to faint

abeg O! fainting is not permitted, no time 4 that

D lion'sheart:


You have understanding problem abi

How's that NL problem? When you were busy using your school fees for agege bread and akara, and running to your girlfriend's house till school dismiss, you forgot that one day you'll be ask to read and understand simple sentence in English.

Lol!!

Even if I know we'll get married, he must ask o.

Ask officially and it shall be done.

If I need him to ask quickly, our chats will be on proposal talks, like "oh baby do you see how cutely that guy asked her hand in marriage?"

I go show am pictures, movies, etc but if after all these he remains the same, I go withdraw gradually then that time he go do the needful.

Pesin no go fit use me come shine! Naaaah.

or3gon: abeg O! fainting is not permitted, no time 4 that

The proposal sef does not guarantee marriage. I know people that have been wearing rings around for years. It just scares other guys away and 'marks' you. That in itself is scary! If you are gonna propose to me, you had better have a wedding date fixed too.

mz mariah: No. my fear is 'who will ask me the question.

are yu looking for a special "trait" in the who ??

jobsat34:

are yu looking for a special "trait" in the who ??

My fear is that people change jobsat34 Marriage................

mz mariah: My fear is that people change jobsat34 Marriage................

I gerrit.. Everythin changes my sis...

oamronnie:
So what do u do if he doesn't? Don't forget he really wants to marry you.

Then ask him! you need him to clarify by asking.
at the end of most relationships, guys usually say 'after all, I never asked you to marry me or told you that I'll marry you'.

So if it was me, I'll simply say 'Honey, you've been making plans for our future but have not yet asked me to marry you. so please ask now or I'll consider myself a free agent'








easier said than done sha

jobsat34:

I gerrit.. Everythin changes my sis...

Its not about the ring o, its about whose giving it to you. serious prayers suppose dey involved before you tell any man 'yes' and before any man proposes to any 'woman' because the rate at which people change is surprising.

My secondery school mate got married last year November 7th last year and the marriage crashed march this year.

mz mariah: Its not about the ring o, its about whose giving it to you. serious prayers suppose dey involved before you tell any man 'yes' and before any man proposes to any 'woman' because the rate at which people change is surprising.

My secondery school mate got married last year November 7th last year and the marriage crashed march this year.

you know, i told a colleague last week, that most guys nowadays want a partner but not ready to take responsibility..
she gave me a "no be because yu grew up in the street dey make yu think like that" look...

most guys don't even plan for their marriage life....

Ceasar1: Mehn_ It's better to lock up and start preparing for the wedding than to ask that question directly.

At the last minute, something might just trigger her brain and she might say No.

A word is enough for the Wise.

Bless you bro. They are unpredictable beings.

Ask and you shall receive btw I won't put on that ring until six months to the wedding

jobsat34:

you know, i told a colleague last week, that most guys nowadays want a partner but not ready to take responsibility..
she gave me a "no be because yu grew up in the street dey make yu think like that" look...

most guys don't even plan for their marriage life....

Hmmmm...abi o.