190: crazy a.s.s beeches always thinking they can control everything


send her a text back that yes the football is more important if she wan pack her load make she pack

jammyunn: We've been dating for some time now in a platonic relationship. She called last night while i was watching football and i told her i was gonna call her back cos it was noisy. Next was a text from her that 'your footbal is more important than me abi?'. I was very angry. She has been saying that lately. I made her understand and feel so. This is a girl i call everyday and leave my work early to spend time with her. She forgot that sometimes when i call she'd be busy with one thing or the other like making her hair. It'll be foolish to suggest that her hair making is more important than me. I'm pissed off by that logic.

Okiki_Oluwa:
That girl is selfish!
She ll soon find a reason to leave you.

190: crazy a.s.s beeches always thinking they can control everything


send her a text back that yes the football is more important if she wan pack her load make she pack

jammyunn: i tell you...i'm really pissed!

Wait, OP, are you looking for a solution to the issues you are having or D'ya want help to fuel your "pissedness" (sic). You see, the reason I ask is because I'm a specialist in both.......my advice above portrays the solution giving Miz D'ya wanna see the other side?

jammyunn: actually, i did send her that reply in anger.

then yuh did the right thing

I hope shes cooled off now shes got it

MizMyColi: 1. Methinks there might be a subtle difference you two are yet to settle or get over and as such no matter the calls and attention you give her, she still feels this distance between you two. You on your part might have gone from calling her for the pure joy of listening to her to simply calling and doing other stuffs to fulfill all righteousness.

2. She might be the kind who loves attention and TLC (Tender Loving Care). It's very possible that the way you are to her now isn't the way you used to be.

3. A woman will give you her all and be fiercely loyal to you if you give her, her preferred security and I suspect that in your girl's case, she needs emotional security. It may take sacrifice and compromise on your part but I can assure you, if she's good and trustworthy, she'll make you the happiest man alive


Errmmm.....make I press pause for here. *my food must not burn*

MizMyColi: Wait, OP, are you looking for a solution to the issues you are having or D'ya want help to fuel your "pissedness" (sic). You see, the reason I ask is because I'm a specialist in both.......my advice above portrays the solution giving Miz D'ya wanna see the other side?

190:

then yuh did the right thing

I hope shes cooled off now shes got it

jammyunn: actually, i did send her that reply in anger.

Adaeze003: If she's really young then don't blame her but if not? I can't bliv grown a$$ ladies still think like this...

jammyunn: she cheated on me and i found out but i forgave her and still love her. She's probably feeling insecure.

Hian! Matter don tie George Wrapper oo. Anyhoo.....just follow your heart okay. You two can make it work if you try. True Love always wins

king_bella:

I am replying, not as a woman but as an objective onlooker. The reply you sent her shows a lot about your character and about the nature of your relationship. An emotionally mature man who has high regards for a woman will NEVER tell hee that "football is more important than her". For her to ask that question in the first place, your actiona muah have shown her that she dosent occupy an important position to you. Her asking was her insecurities creeping in, your replies further proved her instinct right. You inadvertently hurt her much more than you can inagine. My advice, if she does mean something to you, try and show it by little things. Dont be selfish and try and make a little more sacrifice.




On a second thought she may just be jokin/seeking for you attention and then she got more than she bargained for.

jammyunn: lol...we haven't spoken since last night

Ignore her.. till tomorrow morning then go and see her
dnt text her back just go and see her tomorrow morning ie if she doesnt txt you
if she does, then tell her u didnt like what she did yesterday concerning the football and
its just a game which men love bla bla bla and she should learn to accept the simplest of things from u
but if shes a stuborn beech like u said and ignores u then go see her tomorrow after today's games
seat her down and speak senses into that her coconut head

jammyunn: she's 19 anyways.

Shes a baby then u got nuture that one

and here was i thinking she was like 24-26 sef

3D_CYCLOPS: Had xame ish once..the biatch alwayx complainin on me nt callinq her more often like b4...never cared to know why I xtopped callinq frequently..she wax juxt too clinqy n selfish...msthw wtf..called her one day she came over..f^cked her all I wanted...and tha wax d laxt time I dialled her numba..

Xhe xtill calls @times to pour me insults thouqh....who cares.

Is this english or columbian

king_bella:

I am replying, not as a woman but as an objective onlooker. The reply you sent her shows a lot about your character and about the nature of your relationship. An emotionally mature man who has high regards for a woman will NEVER tell hee that "football is more important than her". For her to ask that question in the first place, your actiona muah have shown her that she dosent occupy an important position to you. Her asking was her insecurities creeping in, your replies further proved her instinct right. You inadvertently hurt her much more than you can inagine. My advice, if she does mean something to you, try and show it by little things. Dont be selfish and try and make a little more sacrifice.




On a second thought she may just be jokin/seeking for you attention and then she got more than she bargained for.

190:


Shes a baby then u got nuture that one

and here was i thinking she was like 24-26 sef

jammyunn: she has dated twice before me.

and so that doesnt mean she's experienced

shes still a baby abeg

190:

and so that doesnt mean she's experienced

shes still a baby abeg

jammyunn: she's 19 anyways.

jammyunn: We've been dating for some time now in a platonic relationship. She called last night while i was watching football and i told her i was gonna call her back cos it was noisy. Next was a text from her that 'your footbal is more important than me abi?'. I was very angry. She has been saying that lately. I made her understand and feel so. This is a girl i call everyday and leave my work early to spend time with her. She forgot that sometimes when i call she'd be busy with one thing or the other like making her hair. It'll be foolish to suggest that her hair making is more important than me. I'm pissed off by that logic.

king_bella:

I am replying, not as a woman but as an objective onlooker. The reply you sent her shows a lot about your character and about the nature of your relationship. An emotionally mature man who has high regards for a woman will NEVER tell hee that "football is more important than her". For her to ask that question in the first place, your actiona muah have shown her that she dosent occupy an important position to you. Her asking was her insecurities creeping in, your replies further proved her instinct right. You inadvertently hurt her much more than you can inagine. My advice, if she does mean something to you, try and show it by little things. Dont be selfish and try and make a little more sacrifice.




On a second thought she may just be jokin/seeking for you attention and then she got more than she bargained for.

ERTHAENIGMA:
for the sake of your sanity,dump her.