andyanders: Any man that does that by reporting the woman to her husband no matter how close he is with the family is just not right. If you think you want to correct the woman, call her and counsel her and not to destroy her home. I as a person cannot tell my friend any such thing. I have caught a friend's wife cheating, I NEVER told the husband who is very close to me.We even stayed in this same apartment together before we got married and see every other day, but I never told him. I called the lady aside and told her not to do that no matter what the problem is. If anything wrong happens through my telling the guy,I will stand to be a reference point in every discussion as far as this issue is concerned. So, I cannot tell my friend no matter how close we are.

Hence I wasn't there when they contracted their relationship, I cannot be the one that will destroy the relationship. Let the man find out himself if he is smart. Only a woman knows who owns the baby in her stomach.

leisuretym:


What if he's not smart?? Ah!

A man came back home hearing strange noises from his bedroom up stair, he rushed up stair and found his five sweating in bed?
What's wrong dear? The husband asked, the wife replied, water water ! Give me a glass of water!
He quickly gave her the water and rushed down to asked why his little son was crying around the house? The kid pointed up stair and said "uncle

Where is your uncle ? The kid then pointed to the closet in the bedroom,
He opened the closet to see his brother naked hiding there, he then said in a loud voice"
Mike, I don't know when you will have sense, my wife is shocking in bed, you are here naked hiding around the house scaring the kid!!!

one word for this man!

dwilliams: Are u really convinced she is cheating if yes, confront her about it, threaten 2 expose her but try and have a few witness . And if she does not desist lock up, wen d husband discovers atleast you have witnesses that will atleast vouch for you. Or you can can warn her and if she continues tel ur friend tru a 3rd party. But there are some secrets better left unsaid because this *truth* of yours might break that home.

josite:

to you this man is not smart.it doesnt occur to you that the man is being wise.whatif he deliberately provides a way of escape for the uncle.imsure u dont know how many husbands got killed for unwisedirect confrontation with their wife fucker.

uboma:


If I approach the cheating wife, she may just become discreet in her extra marital affairs. I doubt she will change for the better

zeb04: You wld be dazed when you bear the burnt of your amebo

teeo: And the women are shouting MYOB, don't MYOB. Just imagine yourself in his shoes and what you would do if you would do if you found out he knew your wife was cheating and he didn't tell you.

Imagine you being exposed to all forms of STDs, I find it shocking that the same women that shout heaven and earth when it's a man cheating are now forming MYOB. Talking of double standards

imas:
Haba Oga? 30% ? where the statistics come from?

eldoradoxx: "Mind Your Business" ? Did I just hear that ? Don't you know that it is an abomination for a woman to sleep around while still being married everywhere in Africa. Since foreign religions have taken over our culture and destroyed the good aspect, our generation has become lost, premature and mysterious deaths every where. I know that in my community once a "properly" married woman sleeps with another man, and cooks for the husband and family, both the husband and male kids will become mysteriously sick and it takes trained and cultured elderly eyes to dictate early enough before death occurs. Some men become hit by ill-luck, sorrow everywhere. That is why every African owes a duty to expose illicit affairs of any married woman to her husband because you might just be saving lives. Please if you build water tight case, present your evidence to the friend and save him from a predator of a wife.

[size=18pt]DON'T YOU KNOW THAT IS IT AN ABOMINATION FOR ANY MARRIED PERSON, MALE OR FEMALE, TO BE SLEEPING AROUND?? STOP ACTING LIKE A BRAINLESS LIZARD. YOU ARE ONLY FURTHER INFECTING THE YOUNG AND SMALL MINDED WHO FREQUENT NL.[/size]

Mintayo: A cheating spouse is more or less like a murderer,cheating is even murder in disguise. When the opportunity present itself,a cheating spouse will not hesitate to kill his/her partner.

1st ola: Anyone I can call a friend must be someone I really like and i see like a brother. If I don't tell him such thing, I feel that I'm also cheating on him.

1stola: #Yoruba proverb
A woman that can cheat on her husband is capable of killing the man.
Op, do you want your friend dead?

Truckpusher: Tell him straight and wait for the consequences.

I did it once and ended that ugly union ,the lady swore to watch me beg for my life and I swore to see her age and die in shame ,in fact I cursed her and right now she is on wheel chair.

A cheat is a killer ,only waiting for the perfect opportunity to present itself then your friend is gone forever.

mujiboy: Does the wife knows you know about her cheating? If she does be extra careful, you might just be set-up.. However is your friend and his wife both happy.. As in i mean not like they Quarrel or fight eachother, If they are happy.. You should chill down with your info.. You re in a dangerous Zone anyway..

Ishilove: Its a very small thing. Simply by a new sim card, register it and send anonymous text msgs giving the husband details of his wife's cheating. Drop names, locations, numbers where possible. (A family member of mine used this medium to expose a cheating partner.) Give your friend very detailed information of his wife's indiscretions and leave the rest. Tell him in the message that you are destroying the sim card, but if he has a brain, he should better investigate the matter properly. End it with 'a concerned friend'

Exodus#2k:
What God has joined together let no man put assunder

uboma:


I'll take this advise. Thanks

uboma:


Hmmmm! Will I be guilty of the above by reporting to my friend?

andyanders: Any man that does that by reporting the woman to her husband no matter how close he is with the family is just not right. If you think you want to correct the woman, call her and counsel her and not to destroy her home. I as a person cannot tell my friend any such thing. I have caught a friend's wife cheating, I NEVER told the husband who is very close to me.We even stayed in this same apartment together before we got married and see every other day, but I never told him. I called the lady aside and told her not to do that no matter what the problem is. If anything wrong happens through my telling the guy,I will stand to be a reference point in every discussion as far as this issue is concerned. So, I cannot tell my friend no matter how close we are.

Hence I wasn't there when they contracted their relationship, I cannot be the one that will destroy the relationship. Let the man find out himself if he is smart. Only a woman knows who owns the baby in her stomach.

uboma:



And what if she doesn't change for the better after confronting her?

Ngokafor:


...i guess there are more murderers than sane folks then,cos cheating amongst married men in our society has gotten to an epidermic level ..women are still learners in the game till tomorrow..

...@op you can go ahead and expose the cheating wife as per 'close pals leve'l however way you deem fit if the husband in question is not a cheat himself...otherwise simply mind your business and leave the cheating couple to their devices.

Ishilove:
Uwc. If after you do this and your friend doesn't take action, then your conscience is clear that you tried to warn him without directly getting involved.

Ishilove:
Did God tell the woman to use her hands to defile what He joined? See, uboma, I would be mad with my friend if she was aware that my spouse was cheating on me without informing me. What are you friends for if you can't tell each other the truth? Since it is a marital issue, the best would be not to be DIRECTLY involved.

Instead, be codedly involved for conscience' sake, you dig?

uboma:



And what if she doesn't change for the better after confronting her?

teeo: And the women are shouting MYOB, don't MYOB. Just imagine yourself in his shoes and what you would do if you would do if you found out he knew your wife was cheating and he didn't tell you.

Imagine you being exposed to all forms of STDs, I find it shocking that the same women that shout heaven and earth when it's a man cheating are now forming MYOB. Talking of double standards

Ishilove: Its a very small thing. Simply by a new sim card, register it and send anonymous text msgs giving the husband details of his wife's cheating. Drop names, locations, numbers where possible. (A family member of mine used this medium to expose a cheating partner.) Give your friend very detailed information of his wife's indiscretions and leave the rest. Tell him in the message that you are destroying the sim card, but if he has a brain, he should better investigate the matter properly. End it with 'a concerned friend'