GentleMimi: Right now,i do all house chores without help from anybody,and i'm working. I find it difficult to beg too. If i ask u nicely for something and u refuse.i might ask u a second time if i really love u. But there will never be a third time.
I'll simply do the best i can to tidy up and do other chores. The one wey i no fit do,i leave am jejely. If it becomes too much for me to handle,i'll consider a male house help. Female help is out of bound in my home...lol!

Kanwulia: Please, stop making them to feel 'all important'!
I DO IT MYSELF!
A husband's role is for PROCREATION only.
The rest, I can do FOR/BY MYSELF!

I nor sen am o! Hiahnn!

Kanwulia: Please, stop making them to feel 'all important'!
I DO IT MYSELF!
A husband's role is for PROCREATION only.
The rest, I can do FOR/BY MYSELF!

I nor sen am o! Hiahnn!

claireshan: Lol its still the same thing, No difference

Kanwulia:

Name one chore wey pass chore!
Only a matter of choice.
Abi man dey carry belle?

Make man push pickin from im blokos na abi?

VenusBetty: Then your husband must be wicked, you'll break down sooner than expected. Aint you for pro creation too?

VenusBetty: House big pass house

GentleMimi: Right now,i do all house chores without help from anybody,and i'm working. I find it difficult to beg too. If i ask u nicely for something and u refuse.i might ask u a second time if i really love u. But there will never be a third time.
I'll simply do the best i can to tidy up and do other chores. The one wey i no fit do,i leave am jejely. If it becomes too much for me to handle,i'll consider a male house help. Female help is out of bound in my home...lol!

fijiano202: whats wrong with female househelp if u marry a Godfearing man you have nothing to be scared off..thats why i usually tell my married friends to always package themselves always even at home especially when their husband is out home...all u have to do is to discover new things abt urself and always bring something new to ur relationship

fijiano202: whats wrong with female househelp if u marry a Godfearing man you have nothing to be scared off..thats why i usually tell my married friends to always package themselves always even at home especially when their husband is out home...all u have to do is to discover new things abt urself and always bring something new to ur relationship

GentleMimi:
Fijiano my bros,prevention is better than cure. My bro,i've seen and heard. I've got married aunties,friends and family members. When it comes to men and libido,i cannot bet my life on it. E better make d man sef dey mess up outside,than get tempted with house help.
I lived for a few yrs with a family that i love to pieces. I got close to the ''help''. This girl decided to leave one day,but refused to disclose reasons. I begged her to the point of tears cos i really liked her. When she disclosed her reasons,i felt weak! Oga has been up to no good.
Even someone i trusted with my life disappointed me. Yet u want me to get female help? God forbid. I'd rather slave it through!

GentleMimi:
Fijiano my bros,prevention is better than cure. My bro,i've seen and heard. I've got married aunties,friends and family members. When it comes to men and libido,i cannot bet my life on it. E better make d man sef dey mess up outside,than get tempted with house help.
I lived for a few yrs with a family that i love to pieces. I got close to the ''help''. This girl decided to leave one day,but refused to disclose reasons. I begged her to the point of tears cos i really liked her. When she disclosed her reasons,i felt weak! Oga has been up to no good.
Even someone i trusted with my life disappointed me. Yet u want me to get female help? God forbid. I'd rather slave it through!

mascot87:

What if ur husband says he does not want a male house help too,what do u do

Ninapha:

No be small 'hiahnne.

Me i dont like chores-loving hubby oo. He can wash his cloths dats aright but as in cleaning d house or running around in the kitchen, i no fancy am.

I love to wow him wit my cooking and loves to see him smile when he sees his scatter-scatter has been arranged. But i love the treat dat follows shaa. Even if i ask dat time, i shl recieve double.

GentleMimi:
Then he should be ready to make his input. I'm not the type to talk too much or nag about home matters. I have a job and career. I believe in contributing towards family finances. If he thinks being a provider is an excuse to be lazy,then i'm allowed to be partially lazy.
I'm not gonna ever ask my hubby to cook or scrub the toilet. Infact,i find it difficult to be impressed by another person's meals. All i'll ask for his help in some heavy duty back-breaking work. If possible,he can help wash some clothes in the washer and iron,weed,arrange the sitting room,garage,store,wash the cars....i can handle the kitchen,room,toilet and bath,cook,market stuff...blablabla. Just an example. Is it too much to ask?
No reasonable and loving man will see his wife down on her knees,slaving away,and still sit his azz on the couch!

oskaaay:

na wa life shaaaaaa------with different phase......

fijiano202: i concord..Life is a lesson we live thru experience though

dokson: The man can help out in domestic chores provided it is not a command or authoritatively frm d wife.

teeo:

So you're saying its the man that creates all the mess in the home. As for me I would try to assist But she should know it's her duty to do the chores.

dokson: The man can help out in domestic chores provided it is not a command or authoritatively frm d wife.

moderatorr: If she can't keep my house heavenly clean and still cook a very nice dish on top of it while i watch TV, then she should leave and let a woman who can do it take her place.

I need to eat and leave the plates there, remove my shoe in the palour then go to my room on barefoot
Play with my kids and scatter everywhere!
Only to wake up the next morning and see everywhere clean again. If she can't do it, she should leave.
Do you know what we men face everyday? And you expect us to comeback to the house and start helping you with chores again, why did i marry you in the first place? If na s*x, ashawo full every where nah.

While we were young, you were using all your money for samsung galaxy S39 and brazillian hair, blackberry nails, long eye lashes and dating multiple older men. while we were reading motivational books, investing in series and series of failed business just to get the experience, being an apprentice for years with all the insults involved just to make it, boycotting parties and shows to save time and money, learning painful computer language after language, learning to pastor a church, lead a team, work all night, solicit for funds, perfecting our use of spoken and written english etc
Now when we finally make it and marry you, you want us to come and help you with house chores, if i suuulaaaaaaaaaaaaap you!

This is how many marriages fail
Option 1
Woman == Lazy with house chores
Man doesn't care
Woman invites househelp
Man gets househelp pregnant!

Option 2
Woman == lazy to cook
Man == eats at the cafeteria everyday after work
Man impregnates cafeteria woman's daughter!

Option 3
Woman == lazy to fork
Man == realizes his secretary is actually s*xy
Man impregnates secretary!

moderatorr: If she can't keep my house heavenly clean and still cook a very nice dish on top of it while i watch TV, then she should leave and let a woman who can do it take her place.

I need to eat and leave the plates there, remove my shoe in the palour then go to my room on barefoot
Play with my kids and scatter everywhere!
Only to wake up the next morning and see everywhere clean again. If she can't do it, she should leave.
Do you know what we men face everyday? And you expect us to comeback to the house and start helping you with chores again, why did i marry you in the first place? If na s*x, ashawo full every where nah.

While we were young, you were using all your money for samsung galaxy S39 and brazillian hair, blackberry nails, long eye lashes and dating multiple older men. while we were reading motivational books, investing in series and series of failed business just to get the experience, being an apprentice for years with all the insults involved just to make it, boycotting parties and shows to save time and money, learning painful computer language after language, learning to pastor a church, lead a team, work all night, solicit for funds, perfecting our use of spoken and written english etc
Now when we finally make it and marry you, you want us to come and help you with house chores, if i suuulaaaaaaaaaaaaap you!

This is how many marriages fail
Option 1
Woman == Lazy with house chores
Man doesn't care
Woman invites househelp
Man gets househelp pregnant!

Option 2
Woman == lazy to cook
Man == eats at the cafeteria everyday after work
Man impregnates cafeteria woman's daughter!

Option 3
Woman == lazy to fork
Man == realizes his secretary is actually s*xy
Man impregnates secretary!

GentleMimi:
Fijiano my bros,prevention is better than cure. My bro,i've seen and heard. I've got married aunties,friends and family members. When it comes to men and libido,i cannot bet my life on it. E better make d man sef dey mess up outside,than get tempted with house help.
I lived for a few yrs with a family that i love to pieces. I got close to the ''help''. This girl decided to leave one day,but refused to disclose reasons. I begged her to the point of tears cos i really liked her. When she disclosed her reasons,i felt weak! Oga has been up to no good.
Even someone i trusted with my life disappointed me. Yet u want me to get female help? God forbid. I'd rather slave it through!

GentleMimi:
Lol. No be small tin.
Bro,it hasn't been a very good experience ooo. That stuff affected me for yrs. Even now,i find it difficult to trust. As if e never do,the person i respected the most on this earth failed me too,on top the same matter. But the consolation be say good men are out there. I've met a few.

GentleMimi:
Lol. No be small tin.


Bro,it hasn't been a very good experience ooo. That stuff affected me for yrs. Even now,i find it difficult to trust. As if e never do,the person i respected the most on this earth failed me too,on top the same matter. But the consolation be say good men are out there. I've met a few.