Gudeverning my fello NL,I met this guy on NL close to a month now,we not seen,we call each other,and ping too,exchange pix,mind u am 34 his 36,am so use to him even though we ve not see in person,he tell me about furtuer,he even tell me he love me,that I will come to know where he stays in okoko area of lagos,I agree,NL now the problem is for two days now we he refuse to ping me if I dt,when I ask him he said. I embarass him. When he ask me WHAT kIND OF mAN Do I want for husband. I told him when I c d man. I will know. He got angry for two days now we not talk. D problem worrying me now is I miss his call,ping,even when we not see in person. Wht an is ur advice for me. Pls sincere ans. Ve not been myself. Pls tanx all

You are 34 and still doing online dating? Issokay!

I dont understand one bit

Luv nti ike? U're pix and his pix or i wil not comment? Women and dia internet horse-band lol.

princessono: Gudeverning my fello NL,I met this guy on NL close to a month now,we not seen,we call each other,and ping too,exchange pix,mind u am 34 his 36,am so use to him even though we ve not see in person,he tell me about furtuer,he even tell me he love me,that I will come to know where he stays in okoko area of lagos,I agree,NL now the problem is for two days now we he refuse to ping me if I dt,when I ask him he said. I embarass him. When he ask me WHAT kIND OF mAN Do I want for husband. I told him when I c d man. I will know. He got angry for two days now we not talk. D problem worrying me now is I miss his call,ping,even when we not see in person. Wht an is ur advice for me. Pls sincere ans. Ve not been myself. Pls tanx all

wel my advice is, since you guys have not met each other before, try and persuade him so you guys can hang around maybe in a resturant or any public relaxation centre so you'll get to meet each other and also know each other well. Thats my advice. Hope it helps

princessono: Gudeverning my fello NL,I met this guy on NL close to a month now,we not seen,we call each other,and ping too,exchange pix,mind u am 34 his 36,am so use to him even though we ve not see in person,he tell me about furtuer,he even tell me he love me,that I will come to know where he stays in okoko area of lagos,I agree,NL now the problem is for two days now we he refuse to ping me if I dt,when I ask him he said. I embarass him. When he ask me WHAT kIND OF mAN Do I want for husband. I told him when I c d man. I will know. He got angry for two days now we not talk. D problem worrying me now is I miss his call,ping,even when we not see in person. Wht an is ur advice for me. Pls sincere ans. Ve not been myself. Pls tanx all

my advice just 4 get him, u!re 34 rememba?

I am so sorry for u! Hmmmmmm! Babe shine ur eyes. I take God beg u. Biko. Gudday.

Sorry, did you say you're 34?



YOU DON OLD PASS THIS KAIN THING NA!!

Cry FOWL!!

Lool... NL, funny peepz!

Bck to topic... Op, don't waste ur tym on dis dude. 4christ sake,u neva even c am fr eyes sef! Remember u no get much time b4 "menostop" o make haste while d sun shine abi na how dem talk am

Technically you 34 and seem so desperate,reason why? Cus your high hope on getting married to that guy you met on here is cutting off short and dude never loved you but got ulterior motive like flinging with you but your desperation is making him respect you thereby breakinq it up with you the soonest so its not late...ima advice you forget about him act right in places you ought to do wrong and trust me you gonna get a man

na wa ooo.....it seems am the only one without a nairaland boo o...

Nairaland......connecting people since 2005#

I see you are already carried away with fantasies at 34. Are u sure this guy is not married?

U need to be in a sensible relationship not this type of guy that is egocentric before physical contact

U re 34, single nd still doing internet romance, continue. There is God in everything we are doing.

I find it hard to believe you are 34 and yet you still act like this, wake up from dream land joor, if you don't want to remain single start with building up yourself first then look out for serious guys not internet romance that will end on the net.

firstEVA: You are 34 and still doing online dating? Issokay!

issorai

Butoneday2: my advice just 4 get him, u!re 34 rememba?

What sort of advice is this ? Will she marry herself at 34 ?

Lady, just act cool and get him back to his normal behaviour then ask to meet him only in a public place like bank or restaurant.

Take it off from there.

Look at all these ladies criticizing the OP. You really don't know how it feels to be a 34 year old woman who is single and searching. The internet is an easy way for her to find a suitor. Plus, there are serious guys online too.

Princessono, you made a statement that hurt him. Just apologize and get your relationship back on track.

You guys need to have a proper meeting too.

princessono: Gudeverning my fello NL,I met this guy on NL close to a month now,we not seen,we call each other,and ping too,exchange pix,mind u am 34 his 36,am so use to him even though we ve not see in person,he tell me about furtuer,he even tell me he love me,that I will come to know where he stays in okoko area of lagos,I agree,NL now the problem is for two days now we he refuse to ping me if I dt,when I ask him he said. I embarass him. When he ask me WHAT kIND OF mAN Do I want for husband. I told him when I c d man. I will know. He got angry for two days now we not talk. D problem worrying me now is I miss his call,ping,even when we not see in person. Wht an is ur advice for me. Pls sincere ans. Ve not been myself. Pls tanx all

The guy is on nairaland and u still want answers here... Dear.. Marriage is not a do or die thing...

Elantracey: I find it hard to believe you are 34 and yet you still act like this, wake up from dream land joor, if you don't want to remain single start with building up yourself first then look out for serious guys not internet romance that will end on the net.

Very good advice... And the guy is even seeing all dis... Well.. Age na number

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firstEVA:
You are 34 and still doing online dating? Issokay!

kai! Peeps and bath mouth

When someone tells d truth,it becomes a problem....everyone capitalizing on her age.....ure 34 dis ure 34 dat.....she doesn't even look 34 from her pics,but babe dnt be too desperate,just be urself,ure own Man l come.....

Sisi u say if u don't ping him= he wouldn't ping u & he called that embarrassment.Kia nawa . Anyway I can't say how the relationship is but don't look desperate.

Why not just call him outrightly and arrange to meet one on one and not all these pm's. When you guys meet you can take it up from there

princessono:
Gudeverning my fello NL,I met this guy on NL close to a month now,we not seen,we call each other,and ping too,exchange pix,mind u am 34 his 36,am so use to him even though we ve not see in person,he tell me about furtuer,he even tell me he love me,that I will come to know where he stays in okoko area of lagos,I agree,NL now the problem is for two days now we he refuse to ping me if I dt,when I ask him he said. I embarass him. When he ask me WHAT kIND OF mAN Do I want for husband. I told him when I c d man. I will know. He got angry for two days now we not talk. D problem worrying me now is I miss his call,ping,even when we not see in person. Wht an is ur advice for me. Pls sincere ans. Ve not been myself. Pls tanx all

Maybe that is the reason he is 36 and not married yet. He seems like the type of man who would meet a woman and flirt for few months then move on to the next victim. Open your eyes.

Princessono, Pls don't get urself all worked up for a man u've never seen, who knows u might be very disappointed when u get to meet him in person, I personally don't see anything wrong in the answer u gave him as to the kind of husband u wish for urself. Just act cool and don't pick up the phone to call him, he must be very arrogant and would wanna capitalize on ur weakness by emotionally blackmailing you.

He knows at ur age u're simply looking for a relationship that would lead straight to the altar, so he would wanna bend u and do all sorts of things to make u unhappy, becos he knows u might come back begging him for love.

Be urself my dear, try and be friendly, make more responsible male friends and don't be Sexually attached or financially dependent on them, men would pursue you.

I'm telling you as long as those men don't get to see ur womanliness and u don't get to be financially dependent on them, within 18 months u would definitely have not less than 2 responsible suitors.

aggiel:


He knows at ur age u're simply looking for a relationship that would lead straight to the altar, so he would wanna bend u and do all sorts of things to make u unhappy, becos he knows u might come back begging him for love.

Very well said