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13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Safari29: 10:29am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Well I found this stuff on the internet and i think think it will will be will be of help _________________________________ Happy Sunday Folks , I wanted to introduce you to a piece my brother wrote after his frustrations of dating baby mamas . Please remember it ’ s just one man’ s point of view of why he Avoids Dating Single Mothers and does not reflect the views of NecoleBitchie. com or Blogxilla . 13 Good Reasons are under the hood 1) Baby Damage – Birth has a traumatic effect on the female form . Pregnancy leaves stretch marks, saggy breasts, and c - section scars . I ’ ve also heard that the nookie is even stretch out and it isn ’ t the same anymore . Then there ’ s the weight gain. Most women NEVER LOSE IT or they never get their former hot shape back. - 2) “ I Can ’ t Find A Baby Sitter ” – Women will use this as an excuse to get out of date with you or they may legitimately can ’ t find a baby sitter . Either case it isn ’ t your problem and you shouldn ’ t have to deal with it . - 3) Babies Interrupt Sex – I ’ ve had this happen to me . I was banging a woman and her kid interrupted my sex . Needless to say I was pissed. If some kid is going to interrupt the meanest head you ’ ve ever gotten, that kid should have your last name. - 4) Baby ’s Daddy – When your dealing with a woman and your getting know her , you shouldn ’ t have to deal with kid ’ s father . Some guys can ’ t get over the fact that their ex has moved on . Before he was an un - attentive jerk and didn’ t give a jolly goddamn about her . Now that you ’ ve entered into the picture , the dude wants to be the ideal boyfriend and a “ father of the year , ” nominee . ” The guy stars stalking her and wants to fight you . Even if the woman and guy are on good terms, the guy feels as if he can always smash . He knows her . He knows what she wants to hear and what makes her happy. The next know you your having this conversation - “ I ’ ve decided to try and make it work with Jimmy ’ s dad” . Best way to avoid the situation is to avoid single moms . - 5) Rent- A -Daddy – Realizing her mistake , realizing that kids (especially boys need fathers , ) The woman gets desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “ daddy. ” You ’ re out trying to get some , not inherit a family. - 6) The Kids Are Still Up - This is only a problem if your trying to pursue something other than a booty call . Wanting to spend time with you , but not wanting to bring strange men around her kids, you find yourself only seeing this female after 10 or 11 PM . You want to move forward , but she has to make sure your the “ one . ” This could take months . I suggest dealing with women that are readily available to hang out . - 7) Double Heart Break - You are with the woman , then everything falls apart . You not only do you have to deal with losing the woman , but you ’ ve formed a bond with lil’ Jimmy . You and Jimmy play HALO together , watch the Wizards ’ hoop it up , go to the zoo , and things dads do with sons or daughters . On top of maybe missing the woman , you miss the kid . Your Not My Dad . - You hook up with the woman , eventually the issue of discipline is going to come up . Some kids being resentful or just being a bratty prick is going to eventuallly pull the “ YOU CAN’ T TELL ME WHAT TO DO !!! YOUR NOT MY DAD !!!” card. Personally if I did date single mothers and some dumba $$ kid pulled that stunt on me , I would say , “ Your right . I ’ m not your father . Since I have no authority over you and you refuse to listen to me , you need to pack your sh* t and go live with your dad. ” This would be a deal breaker for me. In addition some mothers or the dad would have problem with you disciplining their kid . I ’ m sorry, if some kid broke my laptop , I ’ m whooping his a$ $ . - 9) You Know What She Going To Do – She already has one kid, if you knock her up , it ’ s safe to assume she ’ s going to have another one . - 10 ) Bad Judge of Character – This female got knocked up by somebody that she was “ supposely in love with . ” Not only is she a bad judge of character, she ’ s GROSSLY irresponsible . The same guy that’ s an a$ $hole now , is the same guy she thought the world of and had unprotected sex with . 11 ) Unnecessary Expenditures - Eventually you ’ ll get to meet the kid( s . ) Soon those dates turn into family outings . Instead of paying for two people , your paying for three or more . The same goes if you move in with her . 12 ) You’ll Never Be 1 – When your trying to build a relationship with somebody, you should be the focus of the woman ’ s life. It should be about you and her . If she has a kid, you ’ ll NEVER BE 1 !!! That ’ s not a bad thing either, but it ’ s something I don’ t want to deal with . Neither should you . 13 ) Tag , Your It ! - This should be the BIGGEST deterrent to EVER dealing with a single mother . In some jurisdictions , I think California is one of them , if you start dealing with a female with kids, move in with her and things go south. THE FEMALE CAN SUE YOU FOR CHILD SUPPORT !!!! She can claim that the her and child have “ become accustomed to you supporting the child . ” YOU COULD END UP POSSIBLY PAYING CHILD SUPPORT FOR A KID THAT ISN ’ T EVEN YOURS ! Imagine being extorted money because you were doing what you thought was the “ right thing . ” The state doesn ’ t give a rat ’ s a $ $ about the relationship being over or you being a “ good guy . ” They just don’ t want the chick on welfare . So as far as your concerned, it’ s “ TAG, YOUR IT !” http://necolebitchie.com/2008/01/13-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/ they are always looking hot but with baggage and wahala in in the in the long run Guys be wise. don't live a miserable life. 3 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Danhumprey: 10:58am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Who made those girls/ladies/women,babymamas? MEN ofcourse! If all men avoid them like plague,who will date/marry them? 1 Like |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 11:52am On Jul 20, 2014 |
They come with too much baggage. Better to go for brand new ones 4 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Freewoman(f): 12:13pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
I don't believe this, is not alwayz true, mistake can happen in a relationship but women bear the height of it all, guyz go as if they are innocent |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by AtheistD(m): 1:55pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Only the ex issue is a serious issue. All other issues are null and void. So what about the child support? By extension the child is yours. 1 Like |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Danhumprey: Who made those girls/ladies/women,babymamas? MEN ofcourse!DON'T MIND THE IDIOT.HE IS TALKING AS IF THOSE SINGLE MOTHERS IMPREGNATED THEMSELVES. BUT THANKFULLY NOT EVERY MAN IS AS STUPID AND MYOPIC AS HIM |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by ramselly(m): 2:35pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Owk. |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by herald9: 2:36pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
dhammyg:Hey... I rarely sight u dis dayZ... Wats up? |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
herald9:am gud and u |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by herald9: 2:55pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
dhammyg:It's hard to be gud buh am trying ma best Hope went to church today to shake Wat ya mama gave yo unto the Lord |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by bionicdude(m): 2:58pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Very true write-up. Baby mommas are just not d deal for me. 1 Like |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Cool write up. Baby mama's are more trouble than the single female. 3 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by ERTHAENIGMA(m): 3:10pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Like seriously? Posts like this make me ashamed to be put in the same category as these idiots who call themselves 'men' . Smfh. Where is the love? 2 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
herald9: I COULDN'T GO.MUM'S CAR DIDN'T WORK,AND THE CHURCH IS PRETTY FAR |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by neuljosh(m): 4:00pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
I strongly agree with the op especially #1 and #10. Dated this babymama chick few years back. I actually had S*x with her the first day we met.I dumped her bcus she was too insecure, always thinking am gonna end up like her babydaddy plus she keep adding weight..had to move on with single ladies. 4 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by dytbabe: 4:12pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Ur nos is so so wrong, didn't bother reading the rest U need see this hawt lady here, ur jaws will so drop Nonsense lists Mtchewwwwwww 1 Like |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by herald9: 4:49pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
dhammyg:Ooh... Cheer up...u still got other sundays to shake it... The Lord is your strength |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by herald9: 4:50pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
dytbabe: Ur nos is so so wrong, didn't bother reading the restwhere is she? #Searching around# |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by remsonik(f): 5:14pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Nonsense post!! Who put them in such situation?? You gave 13 reasons for not dating a single mother. I can give you a 100 reasons for not dating a single father!! |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by R0seMaryM(f): 5:15pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
9) You Know What She Going To Do – She already has one kid, if you knock her up , it ’ s safe to assume she ’ s going to have another one . So if u knock her up,she must have an abortion? 1 Like |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
herald9:OK |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Yemlizzy(f): 5:24pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
What a harsh criticism! Its often not right judging things from the physical onset. It has happened,yes! Those ladies are now babymamas like they tag them as. Is that supposed to be the end of the world for them? Why paint them evil like they made wishes for themselves? 3 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by SpaceGoat: 5:33pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
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Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
They are ladies who couldn't make a relationship work out with their lover. They are often stubborn girls to deal with when they were younger.. 1 Like |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by eghos12(m): 7:38pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
question to ladies bashing op will you give all u heart to your blood younger or elder brother who is single to marry a baby mama OR after you get married and have grown up children and you son comes to present his fiancee is a baby mama? 2 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by SELENAqueensy(f): 8:21pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Senseless thread.... No reasonable point made... |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
AtheistD: Only the ex issue is a serious issue. All other issues are null and void.by hight tension the child is not mine biko! Blood is not water. 2 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by muaa(f): 3:26am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Men and shallow way of reasoning sha... Na only God go help una matter |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by AtheistD(m): 7:30am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Jenams: by hight tension the child is not mine biko! Blood is not water. Any child that stays in your custody for any period of time should be awarded all rights as a child of yours. This has to do with discipline, financial support, emotional support, fairness etc. I dont see where blood comes into it. We must prevent the cinderella syndrome by expecting to treat only our blood as "special". |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by publicenemy(m): 9:02am On Jul 21, 2014 |
No 14: she values her kids more than you. And can kill you just to make them happy. And why not ? She can always find another guy. 2 Likes |
Re: 13 Reasons To Avoid Single Mothers Like A Plague by Nobody: 9:13am On Jul 21, 2014 |
okparaugo: They are ladies who couldn't make a relationship work out with their lover. This is the only post I agree with, some of them are so stubborn they couldn't make a relationship work. |
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