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Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by bettydee(f): 1:47pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
A friend of mine dates two guys....It started while in the university,d first guy came along but just wanted companionship,it was a mutual thing,the second one also came along,she agreed because she believed d first will soon leave but till now none of them has refused to go oooo.The both have them has really invested a lot in her,d first has been a dear friend providing moral n spiriyual support while the second one has been financially active over the years...Now they have both proposed marriage,she has had sex with both of them also and lost her virginity to the second.She loves the first so much and wants to marry him but she doesn't want to hurt the second one. Pls,nairalanders what should she do,cos this don pass my wisdom oooo. *matured advice please,tnx.* |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by pickabeau1: 1:48pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
what is she doing now |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by bettydee(f): 1:52pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: what is she doing nowI don't get d question o,do u mean if she is working or wat |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by pickabeau1: 1:53pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
bettydee: yep |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by lomaxx: 1:53pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
She's a confused soul. |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
since she has been handling the both for years without letting anyone go...and she has allowed both to invest so much in her...i think she shud b ready to accomodate and marry both of dem.....dats one reason y i hate double-dating...... 12 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by bettydee(f): 1:58pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1:She has a very good job with a big pay |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by bettydee(f): 2:00pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
temigracie: since she has been handling the both for years without letting anyone go...and she has allowed both to invest so much in her...i think she shud b ready to accomodate and marry both of dem.....dats one reason y i hate double-dating......Babe u harsh o....m rili tired of seeing ha depressed. U know she can't marry the both of them and she doesn't want to loose d first one. |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Had sex with both dudes, Accepts any ‘help’ from both dudes, Been playing with both dudes, Want to marry both dudes? Love both dudes? .. Mehn She must be one greedy, selfish soul. Remind me what help she needs again. wtcheew! 12 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by pickabeau1: 2:02pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
bettydee: Ok... good so finances should not be an issue for then though one cant say maybe she did not use them Maybe they want their investment. Can she do a pro vs con analysis of each of the suitors... positives and negatives Lets continue from there |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Mehn, this your friend wicked ooo , well back to that. Weather she wants to hurt the second one or not, she has already hurt him. Hence she loves the 1st dude she have to tell the 2nd guy everything, and let him go. She should tell him that she loves another dude, and cannot continue again. Then she must tell the 1st dude too, all about it, to avoid future complications. 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Mynd44: 2:04pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
"These bîtches ain't loyal" 13 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by bettydee(f): 2:05pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1:Kk,I ll talk 2ha abt dat.tnx pickabeau. |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by ednut1(m): 2:06pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
that friend is 'u' 9 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
bettydee:...okay,i hope she ll b able to handle the situation maturely..mayb she shud call d oda one n explain reasons y dey cant b togeda.....if not,she ll cause heartbreak for d one she doesnt feel anything for....well,i think she shud go for d one her heart truly desire....but,she s wicked oooo |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by pickabeau1: 2:13pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
bettydee: Yep..let her consider the following guide.. Not prescriptive but a guide from the Late Mrs Odukoya Marriage is no bf/gf game... she may not even marry any of them 1. WHO AM I? 3 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Chai, So she has been actively dating two guys and enjoying benefits from both of them while servicing them. And both you and your friend cannot see anything wrong with that. I thought that was cheating but then in Nigeria; anything goes. I would advise her to keep both of them while waiting for a third guy ok. Three guys isn't too much! And the two guys sef are very silly. Whoever she choses to marry will be the ultimate loser, because this kind of lady will forever have a back-up boyfriend. She would always want/need something from another man because her husband cannot have it all. 15 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by dayleke: 2:18pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
I thought you were gonna say she lost her virginity to both of them ni? On a more serious note,it's neither of them. Let her search her mind. |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by pickabeau1: 2:22pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Nashville: Chai, Yes... you are right and that was my first line of thought... i however feel she may be contrite.. She may have not known the relationships will last that long I also wondered how the guys cope knowing each other.. normally they will both dump her There must be something special about the girl.. her well paying job perhaps? 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by barackodam: 2:22pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
All these b.itches sha, when they are enjoying things, they wunt be worried, buh wen it turns sour they'd now be crying for help 3 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Acidosis(m): 2:23pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Sharp runs girl... Tell her to get the bride price from Mr A & B na... Funny thing is: Both A & B also have side chicks If she chooses A, there is a high probability that A will end up marrying his side chick. If peradventure, she ends up with A or B; her marriage would be filled with troubles Yeye woman, Only you chop 2 d*cks concurrently, chop spiritual and moral help, chop finance, and now you're confused on whose bride price to chop Make she go marry her papa na... 11 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Oyetboy(m): 2:25pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
HAD SEX WITH BOTH OF THEM?? some girls can be so stupid sha 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by kullozone(m): 2:34pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Sex is overrated. I nor qoute anybody ooh! 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Nashville: Chai, Well said. |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Contrite and you have been dating both of them since University. Abeg tell me another story. Nothing special about her as she gets financial help from the second guy. She just feels she is smart and can play both of the guys together. At this point, the two guys may not want to feel like losers so they both will continue doing everything for her. But trust me, I wouldnt be surprised if the one she marries brings the whole thing up after marriage. Guys hardly forget these things. If she is wise, she should leave both guys and find another mugu. 3 Likes |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by mencade5(m): 2:49pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
too many biiitches in my country nigeria. I pray non of them marry you. Useless girl. You are a dog, a wicked lady, you are no different from a witch. Blood suck biiitch. Get the fvck out of my sight. Who.re! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by pickabeau1: 2:50pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Nashville: She is about to settle now... contrition is not out of it On the financial help.. she may or may not be getting it anymore as she supposedly has a good job if the guys are so into her, though aware of each other.. that presents a very intriguing male thought pattern Lets see and get more info... i believe in second chances |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by mencade5(m): 2:52pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
barackodam: All these b.itches sha, when they are enjoying things, they wunt be worried, buh wen it turns sour they'd now be crying for helpthey are the ones disturbing pastors for prayers to get husband. 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by barackodam: 2:54pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
mencade5: they are the ones disturbing pastors for prayers to get husband. Exactly |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by bettydee(f): 2:55pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
chai....all diz comments you all are commenting,Diaris God ooooo. Even Mynd44 and Acidosis sef talk |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: It is not contrition; she cannot marry two people so she has to choose one. So she is in a dilemma. If she could legally marry both, I am sure she will but now she is looking for the smartest thing to do. |
Re: Dilemma Of Two Boyfriends by kliq(m): 3:02pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
She needs deliverance 1 Like |
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