ochi-aha:


@Poster, you are either :

1. A Tomboy, because you have male siblings ahead of you whom you looked up to when you were a young child (were you playing football with them? )

2. Your profession is a male-dominated one (e.g the military) , that might explain why you come across many of them.

3. You might be a very practical person who does not care about the pettiness or fashion-consciousness of your fellow women and so find it more relaxing being with men.

So, which of the above best describes you

Ujujoan:

All of the above!!!

But basically I know I don't care what people think about me. I'm more concerned with what I think about something and if I have no qualms woth it, I go right ahead and do it.

@ Ayomiful and Carmelily, sorry am answering this question late but I felt self concious because one mischevious guy kept on making jokes about it all through.

ifyalways:

hehe Uju
The 3rd line is contradicting the 2nd line
you were conscious because you care a bit about what the guy said whatever you are not so comfortable with . . _{count your teeth}
whatever girl,just tread with care and caution.

In fact only one is still unmarried and[b] i don't think that he will ever get married.[/b]

lol . .you wicked



@poster . . . I can't mingle with married men

gamechange:

@ poster

Read over your post and correct errors so it is easy to digest.

There always has to be an odd one out (you in this case). When you do marry, then it will be another thing like - how come i'm always surrounded with married people with their kids, keep that brain working.

Angolobabe:

its doesnt sound good to me,if u want to have male friends do that with single male not married ones,if u knew them beofre marriage u can have a casual friendship with them with limits and boundaries.no going to parties alone with them.

Angolobabe:



i do trust my hubby but as  a married woman i can't allow my husband having a SINGLE female friend and partying alone with them without me.

Angolobabe:

ur steering up problems between him and his wife.

Angolobabe:

not healthy why destroy a happy home,

Angolobabe:

,u don't even care about his wife´s feeling

Angolobabe:

how would u feel if the case was reverse?

fyneguy:

I don't think it's healthy hanging around married men. You may end up causing frictions in their homes. Wives getting suspicious n stuffs, even when you are just friends. Would u like to see your husband hanging around some single gurls? he tells you "honey, don't worry she's just a friend"


As per ladies being spiteful and ''bitchy", you all complain: "i prefer male friends jare, ladies are bitchy". , hence you are the complainant and the accused! may be you all should work on yourselves rather than blame the lady next door.

I have heard ladies say "theres nothing wrong in keeping one's ex as a friend" would u allow ur boyfriend to do same?

OMO IBO:

if i put 2 and 2 together, i believe threadstarter and who ever supports her aren't particularly young (late twenties even thirties). but thats not the point.
your so called association with married people let alone your 'male friends' should be under check ones they get married.

being a tomboy and having men as work colleagues is cheap excuse to hang around married men.
people move on in life. u better move on when ur 'male friends' get married.

what has that got to do with anything anyway