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Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 9:58am On Jul 25, 2014 |
in a case where you cheated on your hubby, boy or girl friend can u go to him/her with it and confess? Well i am on two pages about it but wanna hear your opinion 1st |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Tallesty1(m): 10:07am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Never cheated, never will but methinks some things are better left unsaid, especially whn u r sure that s/he is never gonna find out. Person wey no dey lie to his woman no get respect for her feelings . 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by MissSlimbody(f): 10:12am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Never cheated, never will but methinks some things are better left unsaid, especially whn u r sure that s/he is never gonna find out. Person wey no dey lie to his woman no get respect for her feelings . Bros, its not all women dat like been lied to. Some of us still prefer †ђξ truth, even if it hurts t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ hear it. Hw do Ɣ☺ΰ̊ respect my feelings by lying to mε̲̣̣̣̥ |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Who cares? As long as am not married to u, you are free like a bird but when I am married, I won't tolerate a cheating man and might walk out of the rltnshp once I discover u cheated. |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 10:19am On Jul 25, 2014 |
[quote author=Tallesty1]Never cheated, never will but methinks some things are better left unsaid, especially whn u r sure that s/he is never gonna find out. Person wey no dey lie to his woman no get respect for her feelings...wow am kinda flabagasted at ur point of view...tnk its kinda weird n at d same tym cool. U r definitely on one of ma pages...real nigerian |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 10:22am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Hw do Ɣ☺ΰ̊ respect my feelings by lying to mε̲̣̣̣̥[/quote] tht ma sis is d weird part.lol |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 10:26am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Naetochukwu: Who cares? As long as am not married to u, you are free like a bird but when I am married, I won't tolerate a cheating man and might walk out of the rltnshp once I discover u cheated.u r makin me scared now. How can u nt care? Na d way u train ur sef whn u r nt married b d way u go b whn marry. If u tolerate a cheatin bf u wud tolerate a cheatin man gbam. Lastly trust me on ths one to walk out on marriage in naija is crack n knack so dnt ever wish tht on ur sef 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Tallesty1(m): 10:35am On Jul 25, 2014 |
MissSlimbody:I'm not talking about chronic liars, what I meant was telling one lie to avert a huge problem, you grab. Let's say you went to a party, took a few shots of alco, one thing led to the other and then shit happened, do you just run home and tell your wife? Hell NO. What to do is, regret, forgive yourself and repent. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 10:40am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Tallesty1: I'm not talking about chronic liars, what I meant was telling one lie to avert a huge problem, you grab. Let's say you went to a party, took a few shots of alco, one thing led to the other and then shit happened, do you just run home and tell your wife? Hell NO. What to do is, regret, forgive yourself and repent.pointer u knw say some peeps live in naija as if they r americans |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Nobody: 10:41am On Jul 25, 2014 |
buchostags: u r makin me scared now. How can u nt care? Na d way u train ur sef whn u r nt married b d way u go b whn marry. If u tolerate a cheatin bf u wud tolerate a cheatin man gbam. Lastly trust me on ths one to walk out on marriage in naija is crack n knack so dnt ever wish tht on ur sefSeriously I don't care if my BF cheats on me, he has his life and I have mine to live and you don't expect me to stalk him just so he wouldn't cheat. Well you might be right that if I don't care while dating I might not care while married but truth be told, marriage itself is not a do or die affair. I believe that a man sees smth worth it in me that required him taking me to the altar so if he nolonger values the rltnshp and decides to cheat I might as well walk out... Can't trust a cheating hubby |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 10:51am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Naetochukwu:u ll agree wt me tht this nt nt in d western world unless u reside in one of em countries. Whn u r married it bcums diffrnt n keepin ur man is d 1st job.winks 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by MaziOmenuko: 10:57am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Let sleeping dogs lie abeg! Unless the person you cheated with is threatening to expose you. It will be more painful if your partner finds out that way so its better you come clean. |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 11:04am On Jul 25, 2014 |
MaziOmenuko: Let sleeping dogs lie abeg! Unless the person you cheated with is threatening to expose you. It will be more painful if your partner finds out that way so its better you come clean.u r on a page of mine. Tukin outta experience |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by angela98(f): 11:13am On Jul 25, 2014 |
I am one person who careless to know whether my partner is cheating or not. People and upbringings are different. How we perceive life as individuals differs. I am not the type who goes through her partners phone, or monitors his movements. I haven't got time for all that shitty emotionally inconveniencing attitude. I respect my partner and expects same respect from him. Relationship should never be a prison or a cage. Humans ain't perfect. There should be room for forgiveness, adventure and effective communication and trust. If I decide to cheat on my partner I can't tell him because it will hurt him. There are issues that are better left undisclosed. I do not want to know about his either. Its called respect. Its not a movie relationship but a reality. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 11:18am On Jul 25, 2014 |
angela98: I am one person who careless to know whether my partner is cheating or not. People and upbringings are different. How we perceive life as individuals differs. I am not the type who goes through her partners phone, or monitors his movements. I haven't got time for all that shitty emotionally inconveniencing attitude. I respect my partner and expects same respect from him. Relationship should never be a prison or a cage. Humans ain't perfect. There should be room for forgiveness, adventure and effective communication. If I decide to cheat on my partner I can't tell him because it will hurt him. There are issues that are better left undisclosed.u r more like sayin its ok to cheat, lock up, smile n act like u aint drop a nickle? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by angela98(f): 11:35am On Jul 25, 2014 |
buchostags: u r more like sayin its ok to cheat, lock up, smile n act like u aint drop a nickle?it depends on your own definition of cheating and how u perceive it. I am not in the position to judge whether its good or bad to cheat. Let the individuals involved be their judge of that. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 11:41am On Jul 25, 2014 |
angela98: it depends on your own definition of cheating and how u perceive it. I am not in the position to judge whether its good or bad to cheat. Let the individuals involved be their judge of that.u knw peeps dnt just go out n cheat, it boils down needs of all sorts, dnt u tnk d thn tht made u stray might repeat it self if u dnt bare ursef? |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by angela98(f): 11:49am On Jul 25, 2014 |
buchostags: u knw peeps dnt just go out n cheat, it boils down needs of all sorts, dnt u tnk d thn tht made u stray might repeat it self if u dnt bare ursef?hmm! I Dont understand |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 11:51am On Jul 25, 2014 |
angela98: hmm! I Dont understandcheatings comes as a case of finding wht u dnt currently ve in ur relationship or mere polygamy |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 11:55am On Jul 25, 2014 |
if who am wt is nt cute i mite wanna hang wt d cute one. If she is nt d sex crazy type, outdoor type, d list goes on OR am just hungry of waters. U knw |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Oxone(m): 11:55am On Jul 25, 2014 |
buchostags: in a case where you cheated on your hubby, boy or girl friend can u go to him/her with it and confess? Well i am on two pages about it but wanna hear your opinion 1st Hell No! its in the past, let it remain there but try and be better but again NEVER CONFESS! MissSlimbody: Contrary to what people like to believe, nobody wants the complete truth all of the time. its just the way we are made and some people lie to protect the ones they love. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 12:02pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Oxone:yes whn an african buries d truth it stays dead-d dead stay dumb. But peeps like me n u ll neva let dis kinda bliv go away again hw can u protect sum1 u harmed in first pllace |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by angela98(f): 12:05pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
buchostags: cheatings comes as a case of finding wht u dnt currently ve in ur relationship or mere polygamyyeah you are right to an extent. But its not always the case You might have everything you want in a relationship but cannot fight the natural forces of sexual attractions. That is where self discipline comes in. Humans ain't perfect everyone has there own point of weakness. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by vm26: 12:13pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
some stones are better off left unturned. |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Oxone(m): 12:19pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
buchostags: yes whn an african buries d truth it stays dead-d dead stay dumb. But peeps like me n u ll neva let dis kinda bliv go away again hw can u protect sum1 u harmed in first pllace Read the posts below Tallesty1: I'm not talking about chronic liars, what I meant was telling one lie to avert a huge problem, you grab. Let's say you went to a party, took a few shots of alco, one thing led to the other and then shit happened, do you just run home and tell your wife? Hell NO. What to do is, regret, forgive yourself and repent. Tallesty1: Never cheated, never will but methinks some things are better left unsaid, especially whn u r sure that s/he is never gonna find out. Person wey no dey lie to his woman no get respect for her feelings . couldn't have said it better 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 12:28pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
angela98: yeah you are right to an extent. But its not always the caseweakness is wht u feel after running down d steps of a ten storey building carelessness is talking to sumone tht is nt urs, visiting d prsn goin into a room n taking off ur clothes. Now thts carelessness n cheating 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by buchostags(m): 12:31pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Oxone:thrs always more |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Creamish(f): 1:09pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Oxone: lolz.. |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by MissSlimbody(f): 1:46pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Oxone: Hmmmm |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Oxone(m): 1:57pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Creamish: Hello deary 1 Like |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Jayboy124: 3:10pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
angela98: I am one person who careless to know whether my partner is cheating or not. People and upbringings are different. How we perceive life as individuals differs. I am not the type who goes through her partners phone, or monitors his movements. I haven't got time for all that shitty emotionally inconveniencing attitude. I respect my partner and expects same respect from him. Relationship should never be a prison or a cage. Humans ain't perfect. There should be room for forgiveness, adventure and effective communication. If I decide to cheat on my partner I can't tell him because it will hurt him. There are issues that are better left undisclosed. I love when a female speaks like this. |
Re: Can You Come Clean To Your Partner On Infidelity Issue? by Richiy(f): 6:02pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Depends. if you really love your partner and it was just a one time mistake, if you know how you hid it earlier, put in more effort and conceal your tracks wella. Do not come clean. I repeat, do not come clean. But if you are a repeated offender, just leave already so you can have maximum concentration on your career. |
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