Windflower:

Lol,this is my first time of hearing this,might be the female friends you have.No one should be able to tamper with your self esteem, no one can make you feel low of yourself if you don't think that of yourself.

thanks though I'm working on my self.. I've lots of guy friends I wish I could convert them to girls..

locust:


It's late now, bro! Too late. I get worse at it the moment I try. Zero social life, my phone's my companion. This is a fake life brother

no bro, you cnt get worse, you have to carve out the path for your life in this area o,if you do not want a 'magaret tacher 'for a wife and perhaps you are still young and can adjust too.virtually all intros get glued to their gadgets all the time but it isn't a perfect bail out, it isn't an excuse to wish away social skills and interpersonal relationship.

gidjah:
no bro, you cnt get worse, you have to carve out the path for your life in this area o,if you do not want a 'magaret tacher 'for a wife and perhaps you are still young and can adjust too.virtually all intros get glued to their gadgets all the time but it isn't a perfect bail out, it isn't an excuse to wish away social skills and interpersonal relationship.

Evening sir

sarzai:
thanks though I'm working on my self.. I've lots of guy friends I wish I could convert them to girls..

Ewoo!!

Hey Dr, Yaya gajiya ne?got ma message ko?

Pynkylypz:
Evening sir

Hey Dr, Yaya gajiya ne?got ma message ko?

Pynkylypz:
Evening sir

gidjah:
Hey Dr, Yaya gajiya ne?got ma message ko?

Lafiya sir.. Replied immediately

Pynkylypz:
Lafiya sir.. Replied immediately

oohhhh so sory, I didn't get an alert to that effect. But I shall be on it ASAP

gidjah:
oohhhh so sory, I didn't get an alert to that effect. But I shall be on it ASAP

Okay sir

sarzai:
thanks though I'm working on my self.. I've lots of guy friends I wish I could convert them to girls..

Lol,except its not possible. Anyway,if you need a female friend,I am here

sarzai:
thanks though I'm working on my self.. I've lots of guy friends I wish I could convert them to girls..

If you have lots of great male friends then why do you wish you can convert them to females? From personal experience, quite a number of introverted and/or mature ladies seem to prefer male friends to female ones because men are not often petty as ladies tend to be (no offence to women).

So except you fear what society may think about your male companions (or perhaps because of some religions which may also frown at it), I don't think you need to be concerned your reasonable friends are of the opposite sex.

Windflower:

Lol,except its not possible. Anyway,if you need a female friend,I am here

aww thank u ..id love to b friends with u

DonOms:


If you have lots of great male friends then why do you wish you can convert them to females? From personal experience, quite a number of introverted and/or mature ladies seem to prefer male friends to female ones because men are not often petty as ladies tend to be (no offence to women).

So except you fear what society may think about your male companions (or perhaps because of some religions which may also frown at it), I don't think you need to be concerned your reasonable friends are of the opposite sex.

i know yeah.. But having a female friend is more fun like they're things u can't tell males.. Andyou guys can't just go out to chill without it seeming like you're in a relationship.. And guys can consider some things we girls do as silly and not b interested

Pynkylypz:
Ewoo!!

wat is it. Lol

sarzai:
i know yeah.. But having a female friend is more fun like they're things u can't tell males.. Andyou guys can't just go out to chill without it seeming like you're in a relationship.. And guys can consider some things we girls do as silly and not b interested

Well... It depends on the guy actually. You don't want to know about some 'funny' boy-girl friendships where the guy knows so much about the girl and the girl knows so much about the guy without either of them making the friendship look like a relationship. It's rare though, but very possible.
On the other hand, I quite agree about guys easily being disinterested in some girls' acts and consider them 'silly'.

I guess the trick is to have your mature male friends and relate with them accordingly then get some great female friends that you can be all girly with .

sarzai:
wat is it. Lol

@ Convert them to girls. Lol
Are you a he or she??

sarzai:
Hello guys.. I'm an introvert too but I get along well with the opposite sex like I still have a little confidence. But when I'm with my fellow girls eh I am not.. Girls know how to rubbish someone and give someone low self esteem. I'm fun sha and I'll like to make new friends here. Mostly girls though.. Let's c if it's just the girls around me that are like that.

I have the same issue. I find it hard to mix with girls as well

dammy222:

I have the same issue. I find it hard to mix with girls as well

Dammy we could be friends then.. I dunno how to use this nairaland dm .woulda love to

Pynkylypz:
@ Convert them to girls. Lol
Are you a he or she??

im a she o.. No homo pls

DonOms:


Well... It depends on the guy actually. You don't want to know about some 'funny' boy-girl friendships where the guy knows so much about the girl and the girl knows so much about the guy without either of them making the friendship look like a relationship. It's rare though, but very possible.
On the other hand, I quite agree about guys easily being disinterested in some girls' acts and consider them 'silly'.

I guess the trick is to have your mature male friends and relate with them accordingly then get some great female friends that you can be all girly with .

lol yeah.. Yeah

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sarzai:
Dammy we could be friends then.. I dunno how to use this nairaland dm .woulda love to

ok.. will try to dm you. dm is sending email msg from nairaland,right?

I need your input on this thread.
Are quiet people really wicked?
https://www.nairaland.com/4149615/quiet-people-really-wicked

Shey instead of making friends with guys, you big heads are busy making friends among yourselves. If I come back and I don't see a friend request from a girl or girls, I go destroy something for here

fergusen:
I need your input on this thread.
Are quiet people really wicked?
https://www.nairaland.com/4149615/quiet-people-really-wicked

Everything exists in a state of duality. This means that everything has a good and bad side.


I can give up my last 5k for a friend in need but be ruthless with anyone who crosses me.
Two weeks ago, I sent out a guy who I told to stop smoking in my room. Apparently, he thought I was joking because I never told him to stop smoking before (over 3 months of smoking with people I don't know in my own room plus the guy was a squatter) and he thought of me as weak because I was easy going.
The day his cup got filled, he smoked and went out as usual to watch soccer and as he came back by 11pm, I just told him to leave the next morning before 7am.
He tried reminding me of the exams he had in 3 days time but that was more the reason I sent him out so he can smoke to cancer.

People will treat you like garbage and still complain of wickedness when you respond.

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gidjah:
sister mi,bawoni, been long, u forgot ypur bros abi?

Alaafia ni..nor vex for me jare. How is everything?

Grt o! We tnk god,eku ojo meta, sannu pupo pupo.what you benn up to lately?i haven't forgotten our birthday, nxt year o,

Melsan:
Alaafia ni..nor vex for me jare. How is everything?

locust:
Shey instead of making friends with guys, you big heads are busy making friends among yourselves. If I come back and I don't see a friend request from a girl or girls, I go destroy something for here

Hahaha..
The king of introverts has spoken. Lol

Wishing all my fellow introverts a November to remember,filled with joy unspeakable full of glory messhed with plenty success.

gidjah:
Wishing all my fellow introverts a November to remember,filled with joy unspeakable full of glory messhed with plenty success.

Amen! And you too..

Pynkylypz:
Hahaha..
The king of introverts has spoken. Lol

Lol. It's a shameful thing you peeps do not recognise the office of your king. If not, the king shouldn't be without his queen.



How are you?