Olarewajub:
I like people to come to my home, but i don't like them to stay too long.

Who agrees with me on this?

Olarewajub:
I like people to come to my home, but i don't like them to stay too long.

Who agrees with me on this?

Gucciqueen38:
Cc gidjah How are you doing?

gidjah:
am doing fine sis, how did you spend your weekend ,hope it was good?

Gucciqueen38:
Yes.. It was.. All thanks to God

gidjah:
all thanks to God for preserving the queen .

ObaofNigeria:
hello everyone!!!!
just stumbled on this for thread...
pls I having these questions
why is it eazy for us to notice other introverts in our environment and why is it like unlike our self we reach out almost spontaneously to speak with them??

I have 2 introverted friends like me but who i would say are less introverted and unlike me they are not also shy (I am both introverted and shy) and with their help I was able to reach out to a small group of extrovert.
my question: at this point why is it that when I tell myself to consider making new friends I push it down as vanity although I know I can be friends with any body?

and why is my shyness raised to epileptic levels when a girl is involves

Olarewajub:
I like people to come to my home, but i don't like them to stay too long.

Who agrees with me on this?

seunmohmoh:
am an introvert... if what is listed here makes one an introvert then I am present

timmykaydude:
good to be here..am an introvert and it hurts alot, I wish I could be an extrovert. by the way nice to be here once again.

crownedrookie:

Your body is an extrovert though. See curves

seunmohmoh:
u don run go check my profile

seunmohmoh:
You are hereby sentenced to nairaland for life

crownedrookie:

Will you be my warden?

seunmohmoh:
;

crownedrookie:

Don't be shy baby. you gave the sentence. Its only right you enforce it

DonOms:


I completely agree. In my own case, I don't even really like guests. I'd rather I'm meeting them outside my home unless they're very close like family. Home to me is like a personal space I don't feel comfortable sharing.

Olarewajub:
Perfect place to take a walk...

Windflower:

Waow,how I wish I could just dissapear there and take a walk to clear my head.

Olarewajub:


That's very true. Sometimes as introverts, we may feel guilty because it's just as if we don't care about those around us because of our lackadaisical attitude towards the display of affection. I'm currently reading "The Introverts Advantage" and I've learnt alot about how to do away with such guilty conscience.

Olarewajub:


My Introvert Dream

Olarewajub:
By understanding the way your brain works, you can reduce shame and guilt. You can create the optimal environment for yourself. You can enhance your appreciation of your own unique introverted advantages.


"Introvert Advantage"

DonOms:


How and why does it hurt to be introverted?

timmykaydude:
have you experience a situation whereby people look down on you, they sees you as a fool? have you experience a situation whereby you can't start a conversation with a stranger even if you try, you get stuck in the middle of it? Have you ever been in a situation whereby you are innocent and even on your right, you end up saying sorry even when you are really angry inside? etc I mean these things hurt.

Kings1930:
VERY TRUE